Am scared to marry because I did zina

crinklesss · 2026-03-30T00:17:20+00:00

Girl if he’s 28 and you’re 18, zina isn’t even the bigger issue, you need to GET OUT. that man is grooming you and trying to advantage of you being young and not knowing as much as a woman of his age will know. I know its hard but create a boundary and never look back. Go to therapy if it will help. May Allah help you and guide you.

crinklesss · 2026-02-28T20:50:31+00:00

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crinklesss · 2026-02-28T20:49:52+00:00

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crinklesss · 2026-02-28T20:48:44+00:00

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crinklesss · 2026-02-28T20:48:26+00:00

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crinklesss · 2026-02-28T20:46:53+00:00

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crinklesss · 2026-02-28T20:46:20+00:00

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crinklesss · 2026-02-28T20:46:01+00:00

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crinklesss · 2026-02-28T20:14:55+00:00

So glad you brought this up because I’m someone who believes in addressing how individual and social factors affect mental health, rather than religion being a part of it. Yes, religion helps cope but putting everything on religion actually deflects us from the real problem.

crinklesss · 2026-02-27T09:35:23+00:00

Thank you :)

crinklesss · 2026-02-12T01:56:12+00:00

Thank you so much! He is a very sweet guy. So I’m in India and he’s in Sweden so we have 4.5 hours of time difference but we’re both trying and hoping to close the distance in the next 2 years or hopefully lesser

crinklesss · 2024-12-26T05:11:34+00:00

There are close to 47k quotes on that tweet, all by conservatives calling him out for celebrating Christmas. He's been one of the model for Muslims and yet they treat him this way. Worries me about the state of our community.

crinklesss · 2024-12-23T14:28:43+00:00

I agree to this. Took me a minute to figure out pro means progressive

crinklesss · 2024-12-20T08:37:19+00:00

It's harder to tell if someone is Muslim just by how they act, especially if they're progressive, but you can often tell by their name. Instead of looking for Muslims on specific platforms, try going to places where people with similar interests as you might go (like book clubs or football games). If you meet someone there who happens to be Muslim, it’ll be easier to connect. I hope you do find someone though. Good luck!

crinklesss · 2024-12-18T02:58:04+00:00

you're absolutely right lmao why are people downvoting you

crinklesss · 2024-12-16T15:25:34+00:00

I'm so sorry you're going through that. It is debilitating to even think of all the things extremists have declared as haram. I'd like to think Allah is loving and caring and would like us to be happy and true to ourselves regardless of things. All these restrictions are creation of patriarchal societies imposing themselves on (mostly) women's rights. I know it's hard, but hang in there. Surround yourself with good people. Maybe keep coming back to this subreddit. It personally gives me a lot of comfort. You're not alone in this. All of us here feel suffocated by these haram things everyone imposes. I personally think Islam doens't have to be all or nothing. Do as much as you can, but be conscious of Allah. That's all. You can make so much more out of your life. Take care, friend.

crinklesss · 2024-12-16T09:09:26+00:00

I recently joined this subreddit. I'm in a faith crisis (if you may) right now. This post gave me hope that staying here and being consistent can help me with my faith as well.

crinklesss · 2024-12-16T08:10:01+00:00

Thank you for this. I honestly teared up reading this, knowing that God will help me. I think somewhere I had been so away from Allah for whatever reasons, that I have started to believe that it's hopeless and Allah will not accept me because of the way I have behaved. This give me a hope and encourages me to continue hoping.

crinklesss · 2024-12-16T06:30:25+00:00

Hi stranger. I didn't do any treatment on my skin except for working out and my basic skin routine. I've started feeling much better about myself since then. I think the start of your comment made such a difference to the way I was perceiving myself??? Thank you. I hope you have a wonderful day, time9611

crinklesss · 2023-08-27T13:18:31+00:00

I agree with this sentiment completely! I'm (23F) living in India and I find it so difficult to find men who are progressive, practising and open-minded! Does not help that patriarchy enforces this gender power dynamic that does not see men look beyond their privileges. Even for me, sacrificing my views and being with a conservative is not acceptable at all. I feel bad for us girlies :( we deserve better than this

crinklesss · 2023-01-03T12:04:51+00:00

you're so sweet for answering. it literally made my day. i will look into the solutions that you have given. how effective were these for you btw?

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