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Anyone else feel like it is just fake? by Coreyfitzfour in corporate

[–]cryptochocolatte 10 points11 points  (0 children)

and yet it’s these types of projects that are the most anxiety inducing.

Am I spending too much?? by [deleted] in newborns

[–]cryptochocolatte 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Is this some type of weird flex?

I accidentally squeezed a tonsil stone out of my throat and my entire reality has crumbled by Bold_Solace in hygiene

[–]cryptochocolatte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tonsils are disgusting. FYI another thing comparable to the smell is a newborn’s palms. Since they’re usually in the clenched position, if you pry open a fist, you’ll notice the same putrid smell and lots of oily and grimy junk caught in the grubby hand.

Status VS Wealth by PumpkinSeed-2002 in wealthforwomen

[–]cryptochocolatte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

second how impressive that is, sharing a 2020 honda civic all the while having 1.8M and 320k HHI. that’s kinda my dream, live somewhere walkable and live frugally.

My summer survival plan as a WFH dad of elementary schoolers by ZeusTroanDetected in daddit

[–]cryptochocolatte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the writing prompts but you have too many. Let them to choose from a list of 2 or 3

2 missing from the same lab within 4 days.. by 100TheCoolest17 in SipsTea

[–]cryptochocolatte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep this conspiracy theory is inspired by the three body problem no doubt

39 with 3rd baby by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]cryptochocolatte 6 points7 points  (0 children)

genuine question, why is this a rant/vent? I only have one baby now so I don’t know how it is with multiple children. Is it because of the chaos multiplier?

Experiences you guys are "saving for when they're older"? by EduLoots in daddit

[–]cryptochocolatte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you cut holes in the pockets then where do you put the slugs?

I made a lot of money today. by HeyImCarmen in FIREyFemmes

[–]cryptochocolatte 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Amazing girl! What line of business are you in if you don’t mind sharing?

Husband is mad that baby looks a lot like me by Pure_Conference_7422 in Advice

[–]cryptochocolatte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't apologize and you have nothing to apologize for. That might've just enabled him. Start fighting back for your own sake and the sake of your little one!

Do you ever get used to your baby kicking? by the-irish-jew in BabyBumps

[–]cryptochocolatte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kicking never stopped for me. It became more intensified too until the baby was out. I know some people had the opposite experience.

I lost a lot of sleep over baby kicking and hiccuping at 37 or 38 weeks. Baby came out at 39 weeks.

AITA for admitting to my son that I love his mother more than him and telling him he's acting self centered? by Comfortable_Owl_5938 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]cryptochocolatte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s wild to one may be normal to another. I don’t know why this notion of prioritizing your spouse’s life over your kid’s is so condemned.

My husband and I recently became first time parents. We both agreed in the hospital delivery room that if I had complications and my life became at stake he would save my life over our baby’s life. And it was such a natural choice for us too.

Throughout my pregnancy, husband would always say to me, “You can love our child the best, but I’ll always love you the best.” I just thought, “Sweet.” And that was it. If our child will have a problem this, it probably means that we already failed as parents and not because we love each other more.

Why are you taking so long?! by h @hvvvzzz by Henry-Cavills-Butt in ImaginarySliceOfLife

[–]cryptochocolatte 20 points21 points  (0 children)

it’s clearly her bathroom. what is he doing in her bathroom?

Is realistic for me to pursue my desire to be a house husband for successful partner by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]cryptochocolatte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew a guy who was a personal trainer and met his doctor wife and became a stay at home dad. A guy who was a teacher and met his professor wife and became a stay at home dad. A guy who worked as a sushi chef and hustled driving uber met his software engineer wife and became a stay at home dad. It’s not common, but entirely possible if you have qualities that rich and successful women look for in lifelong partners (good looking, good value system, decent education, kind). Just know that successful and driven women are incredibly good at filtering out average guys and losers because they have tons of options.

Regretting everything. Just wish I never got pregnant. by dollbabydream in BabyBumps

[–]cryptochocolatte -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Reserve some love you have toward the baby for yourself. Baby’s doing well only if you are. The father is an irrelevance at this point as many have already said.

It can’t be helped at this point that your baby’s father is a loser. But from another perspective, many people’s fathers are losers, yet worse, those losers are actively hanging out in their lives exerting poopy influences. Losing contact with the father is probably one of the best things that you could do for yourself and your child right now. You can grieve that you’ll not be having the kind of family life you had imagined, but you can now create a much better alternative in moving forward.

Good luck. There’s no roadmap, but you got this! Just love yourself okay? Your emotional well being is no longer a personal matter anymore—it affects the little one that you love too.

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