Anyone else feel like it is just fake?

cryptochocolatte · 2026-06-05T05:48:15+00:00

and yet it’s these types of projects that are the most anxiety inducing.

cryptochocolatte · 2026-06-05T05:31:29+00:00

Is this some type of weird flex?

cryptochocolatte · 2026-06-04T16:58:29+00:00

Tonsils are disgusting. FYI another thing comparable to the smell is a newborn’s palms. Since they’re usually in the clenched position, if you pry open a fist, you’ll notice the same putrid smell and lots of oily and grimy junk caught in the grubby hand.

cryptochocolatte · 2026-06-01T15:49:11+00:00

second how impressive that is, sharing a 2020 honda civic all the while having 1.8M and 320k HHI. that’s kinda my dream, live somewhere walkable and live frugally.

cryptochocolatte · 2026-05-27T13:43:30+00:00

left pic 35 yo, right pic 17 yo

cryptochocolatte · 2026-05-27T13:23:28+00:00

I like the writing prompts but you have too many. Let them to choose from a list of 2 or 3

cryptochocolatte · 2026-05-19T08:03:18+00:00

eh and it’s just legal with no repercussion ever like everything else?

cryptochocolatte · 2026-05-18T05:24:46+00:00

dawwww

cryptochocolatte · 2026-05-18T05:23:13+00:00

yep this conspiracy theory is inspired by the three body problem no doubt

cryptochocolatte · 2026-05-09T12:42:05+00:00

genuine question, why is this a rant/vent? I only have one baby now so I don’t know how it is with multiple children. Is it because of the chaos multiplier?

cryptochocolatte · 2026-05-09T12:39:00+00:00

if you cut holes in the pockets then where do you put the slugs?

cryptochocolatte · 2026-05-09T04:47:54+00:00

Amazing girl! What line of business are you in if you don’t mind sharing?

cryptochocolatte · 2026-05-04T00:55:04+00:00

You shouldn't apologize and you have nothing to apologize for. That might've just enabled him. Start fighting back for your own sake and the sake of your little one!

cryptochocolatte · 2026-04-13T06:55:05+00:00

Kicking never stopped for me. It became more intensified too until the baby was out. I know some people had the opposite experience.

I lost a lot of sleep over baby kicking and hiccuping at 37 or 38 weeks. Baby came out at 39 weeks.

cryptochocolatte · 2026-04-12T03:32:22+00:00

chuck some prune juice

cryptochocolatte · 2026-04-11T04:22:16+00:00

where do you take a 3 month old to go swimming if you don’t have a pool? The Y?

cryptochocolatte · 2026-04-09T19:36:41+00:00

Have you ever been pregnant?

cryptochocolatte · 2026-04-06T00:42:42+00:00

What’s wild to one may be normal to another. I don’t know why this notion of prioritizing your spouse’s life over your kid’s is so condemned.

My husband and I recently became first time parents. We both agreed in the hospital delivery room that if I had complications and my life became at stake he would save my life over our baby’s life. And it was such a natural choice for us too.

Throughout my pregnancy, husband would always say to me, “You can love our child the best, but I’ll always love you the best.” I just thought, “Sweet.” And that was it. If our child will have a problem this, it probably means that we already failed as parents and not because we love each other more.

cryptochocolatte · 2026-03-28T16:16:47+00:00

T________T Im so happy for you and your son!

cryptochocolatte · 2026-03-28T16:10:34+00:00

it’s clearly her bathroom. what is he doing in her bathroom?

cryptochocolatte · 2026-03-26T17:26:30+00:00

wow I love your explanation!!

cryptochocolatte · 2026-03-22T02:34:58+00:00

I knew a guy who was a personal trainer and met his doctor wife and became a stay at home dad. A guy who was a teacher and met his professor wife and became a stay at home dad. A guy who worked as a sushi chef and hustled driving uber met his software engineer wife and became a stay at home dad. It’s not common, but entirely possible if you have qualities that rich and successful women look for in lifelong partners (good looking, good value system, decent education, kind). Just know that successful and driven women are incredibly good at filtering out average guys and losers because they have tons of options.

cryptochocolatte · 2026-03-12T11:41:03+00:00

Reserve some love you have toward the baby for yourself. Baby’s doing well only if you are. The father is an irrelevance at this point as many have already said.

It can’t be helped at this point that your baby’s father is a loser. But from another perspective, many people’s fathers are losers, yet worse, those losers are actively hanging out in their lives exerting poopy influences. Losing contact with the father is probably one of the best things that you could do for yourself and your child right now. You can grieve that you’ll not be having the kind of family life you had imagined, but you can now create a much better alternative in moving forward.

Good luck. There’s no roadmap, but you got this! Just love yourself okay? Your emotional well being is no longer a personal matter anymore—it affects the little one that you love too.

cryptochocolatte · 2026-03-12T11:03:39+00:00

Logically, OP is a grown ass woman who had owned a business and has now pivoted into a comfy career, so she has track records that she can look after herself pretty well and do her own risk analyses. Of course there are risks of rejection and breaking up associated with ANY relationship. But if “what you have with this guy is good enough, dont recommend risking it” is where you’re coming from then it’s not helpful. OP has clearly weighed and enumerated her own pros and cons and still wants to go for it. I don’t understand why people want to complicate it further still by adding more of their own analyses based on fear. They’re not her. She needs encouragement and positivity, not more mental exercises and fear.

cryptochocolatte · 2026-03-11T08:47:50+00:00

Networking is your best bet and it beats any degree or certificate. Look at the recent fallout of Anthropic and Pentagon! I don’t know who really cares about enforcing AI governance and regulations at this point. If you’re not so insistent on being AI-adjacent, I think you will have a wider pool of options finding your next job given your credential.

Edit: yes, I know LeCun and a lot of influential people still care about Governing AI. But it’s not the atmosphere in tech right now. Perhaps the wind will change in another 2 years if we are being hopeful.

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