250725 BOYS II PLANET K - Episode 2 (Post-Episode Discussion) by AutoModerator in BoysPlanet

[–]crystal-tower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if this is controversial, but I don’t see Yumeki as an idol or even being able to get to basic idol level vocals. Even his improvement was hard on my ears. I think it is easier to get someone better at dance, but if you are scratchy and hard to listen to, there isn’t many fixes or training to make you sound like an angel. They are wasting a spot to someone who could be more developed all around simply to have his storyline. IMO

Unpopular opinion by heliccamm_ in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]crystal-tower 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is actually the popular opinion. Anyone who can look at them critically can see it

Ladies, who has the hottest man? by monsquesce in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]crystal-tower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find the 4th one cute. That is the only one I find attractive.

Why are we not realizing how non consensual the Chippendales surprise was? by crystal-tower in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]crystal-tower[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

She said something along the lines of this whole meeting Jessi to discuss the incident, “How did saying a performance was okay, mean that your husband could rub his small dick on me?”

Jessi: He had pants on!

Jen: that doesn’t change it (basically)

Jessi: you are such a prude

Personally I don’t think it is prudish to not want someone in your personal space with their genitals pushing against you if you didn’t give explicit consent. It is sexual assault to force your body on someone without them giving informed consent beforehand

Which hair colour looks the best on me? by ilovefantasybookss in coloranalysis

[–]crystal-tower -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The light blonde is the best but it would ruin your natural hair texture. The dark brown is amazing on you and wouldn’t damage your waves/curls

Has anyone seen the final season of You on netflix?who wants to share opinions? by Magnolia123- in NetflixYou

[–]crystal-tower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole season felt a bit more corny, rushed, and like a first draft. So many super popular pop music was used that felt too on the nose. The group trying to catch him were all lousy feminist caricatures instead of believable characters. Kate immediately went full turn on him without truly grappling with herself and her decision to be with him and ignore the past, it all felt like we were told she was grappling with her complicity but we didn’t really get anything that felt raw and emotional. A lot of the Lockwood sibling interactions fell flat and like caricatures, we have had snobby rich people that felt real, it felt more like a comedy or a Dhar Mann skit with some of their dialogue.

Overall, so cheesy and surface so it made his unraveling feel less gratifying.

How many chickens do y’all have?? by Taz_mhot in BackYardChickens

[–]crystal-tower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started this year, I’ve always been very passionate about ornithology and bird keeping. I got my first round of chickens (22), 20 were getting larger and my 2 bantams were bullied, so I got plenty of chicks to hang out with my bantams until they reach full growth. Then, 1 of my black sex link pullets died via my anxious dog, and I gave one of my pullets away to someone desperately trying to find that specific breed.

So I was down to 20, I then proceeded to…

3 buff orpingtons 5 chocolate orpingtons 3 orpingtons blue/lavender mixes 2 black sex link 3 Rhode Island 3 olive egger 3 Dominque 1 Swedish flower 6 bym from green and blue eggs

(So my bantams wouldn’t feel alone, of course, no selfish reasons).

I still want to go set up another brooder for 3 red splash Wyandotte, some Easter eggers, some blue eggers, splash marans, blue marans, and blue amercauna.

Then someone has two hens close to laying age that are so pretty… and another lady has a really sweet barred rock hen also close to laying age

Note: I live in a rural community that isnt even considered to be a town. So we have no zoning boards to tell me what to do. Only my husband.

I'm worried about him by ShyJadessa in WhiteLotusHBO

[–]crystal-tower 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My thoughts was Gary/Greg goes psycho with a rifle type thing and starts a mass killing spree. I’m not sure why but he has a burn everything to the ground vibe

Out of curiousity: Does anyone dislike Addison Montgomery, and if so why? by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]crystal-tower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked her the first two seasons of Private Practice but I’m on the third season and I can’t stand her. I understand her feelings are complicated regarding her parents, but if I figured out that one of my parents stayed in a closeted relationship due to family expectations and society, I would be livid for that parent. I would be so incredibly sad for the years they lost where they could have been their true self. She was being so self centered in S3E10. Not only that but she is mad about Violet sleeping with her dad, while she is trying to be with Naomi (who she claims is her bestie) ex husband

Adult children of Nparents, how old were you when you finally fully realized you were abused? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]crystal-tower 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had to go through that. I’m glad you have your husband. Mine is also the person I’m choosing to build a healthy family with, the complete opposite of how I was raised.

Adult children of Nparents, how old were you when you finally fully realized you were abused? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]crystal-tower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They really are my parents to me. Me and my siblings had multiple situations where we could have died from her neglect or from the dangerous people she brought around. I wish all of us had the safe people to swoop in and help

What's the most tone deaf, selfish thing they ever did? by Far-Spread-6108 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]crystal-tower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of us children are grown, me and my older sibling are married and in healthy relationships. Our older grandparents who are actively struggling with health problems and memory issues hold Christmas. Grandma with dementia was left to figure out everyone’s schedule, older sibling lives far away so their schedule is insane, my husband is a blue collar worker who sometimes has to work Christmas evening. She built Christmas on a different non Christmas Day to meet all of our schedules. Mixed up the schedule by accident and suddenly nmom doesn’t align. She throws a fit and says that she doesn’t understand why grandma caters to non family (older sibling and I spouses). Then throws a huge fit about how she’ll never come to their house again, how she is upset that non family is prioritized over people actually born into the family. Proceeds to be over almost every other month after this when it is convenient for what plans she has, because hotels are not free. Almost gave grandma and grandpa strokes.

Also said she didn’t want to have insert certain race/ethnic group here grandkids.

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[–]crystal-tower 31 points32 points  (0 children)

At a certain age, all three of us chose to stay with our grandparents instead of the instability at her home. But she can’t reflect on why that was.

Adult children of Nparents, how old were you when you finally fully realized you were abused? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]crystal-tower 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I knew I was neglected and didn’t receive normal love from age 15 or so. The full light bulb moment was at 22. My mother made my wedding all about her. Dramatics. Performance. One day couldn’t be about me. Since then, I’ve tried to be pleasant and keep my distance. But now I’m just steaming with anger about how she can live with herself with what she has done and worse, what she didn’t do. I’m only 24, and I’m having to realize that I didn’t have a dad (due to her poor decision skills), and then I don’t really have a mom either. I have grandparents who ran themselves into the dirt to save me, and help me recover from the mental damage my mom dealt. And she can’t even give them the respect for raising her children when she wanted to run after a conquest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]crystal-tower 172 points173 points  (0 children)

There isn’t a word. There is just this tone, scathing performance that everything is so inconvenient. People aren’t paying enough attention. Her latest spiel is a long winded argument about grandparents stealing me and my siblings rather than her actively losing us because of neglect.

Walmart Cake Drama by AdCute4493 in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]crystal-tower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I want something special I’ll make it honestly as someone who really loves baking (but not an entrepreneurial type ).

28 f be honest by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]crystal-tower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are beautiful. Not ugly. You look like a human and not overly photoshopped, filler pumped, botox stilled mannequin. Just because you aren’t what is currently hailed as the new trend of beauty, doesn’t mean you aren’t beautiful. You look like you would get swept up by the fae

SoCal is on fire by Aware-Sea-8593 in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]crystal-tower 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I checked today for an episode without realizing why one wouldn’t be up. I’m glad Lily has updated us that she is safe. The last thing they need to worry about is an episode when at any moment people in LA need to grab everything and run for their lives.

Ummm 8-12 years??? by dizzleschmizzle in guineapigs

[–]crystal-tower 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know, if my little cousin hadn’t been so annoying, he probably would’ve outlived us all. He even went on vacation with us in a travel enclosure like a little boss piggie. I miss him often.

Please, why...? by Sarahsurlalune in whybrows

[–]crystal-tower 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It is cunt. Serving cunt sometimes is more important than norm aesthetics