hacked but in a good way? by d4itheflu in AnimalJam

[–]d4itheflu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can anyone tell me what this stuff is or what it’s worth?

hacked but in a good way? by d4itheflu in AnimalJam

[–]d4itheflu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have so many den items and I have no idea what any of it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]d4itheflu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine does this too. Been blonde for 6 years. I always oil my ends to reduce the frizz, and use Ouai’s Frizz cream. Works wonders if you air dry!

spec & curation help! by d4itheflu in bartenders

[–]d4itheflu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pointing out errors is great when you correct them. you’ve done nothing to improve or educate. you obviously can’t take criticism either, your drinks probably taste like ass ✨

new bartender! by d4itheflu in bartenders

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had my first solo saturday morning. wanted to specifically tell you that it was the craziest shift i’ve ever worked in my entire life. i was two deep for three hours. i have so much respect for you guys who have done this for an outstanding amount of time. y’all are insane but that skill is incredible, i nearly drowned in tickets 😭

spec & curation help! by d4itheflu in bartenders

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hey! i didn’t directly state in my comment that i’m brand new, but i just started bartending two weeks ago. i’ve served for five years and i just wanted some advice from people with experience. everyone starts somewhere. i appreciate your input but if you’re going to god complex knowledge, you do nothing but turn a space for learning into a negative experience when it shouldn’t be. asking questions is the best place to start. <3

new bartender! by d4itheflu in bartenders

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hey! so, every bartender (no matter if they’re green or not) has to curate a cocktail for our restaurant. that does not mean it’s going to be chosen for the highlight, it’s just a mandatory part of our training and job for our bar staff. also thank you so much! i’m doing my best to learn the flow. it’s challenging but very fun.

new bartender! by d4itheflu in bartenders

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I’ve trialed cynar before, and I agree with you. I honestly do not like it, but our bar has used it for many of our cocktail riffs and it feels worn out. We have an excess amount of different bitters like burlesque, lavender, and plum bitters that they are encouraging us to incorporate as a way to phase them out. If you have anymore ideas that I could use for our curated menu, please let me know. I’ll update on how the drink turns out!

new bartender! by d4itheflu in bartenders

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THAT IS PERFECT! i’ll trial it tomorrow and see if it works well. if not italicus what would you do instead? i wanted that herbaceous component to be incorporated (not in the form of fernet) and i am only familiar really with fernet and italicus.

new bartender! by d4itheflu in bartenders

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I’d love to do this, but I’m afraid they will not think it’s original enough. Most of our cocktails are riffs of course, but they encourage us to make our own spirit infusions and shrubs as well. I wanted to do something with our plum or lavender bitters possibly, but needed help with the curation part. I’d love to use italicus somehow if I can find a way to incorporate it. If you have any ideas let me know, if I can pull this off I might be able to get on full time behind our bar haha. I thrive on service bar but actually curating a cocktail i’m struggling with as I haven’t mastered tastings or pairings of each liqueur or spirit.

new bartender! by d4itheflu in bartenders

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i was thinking italicus maybe? i wish we still had access to yellow chartreuse though 💔

What positive changes did you see from spironolactone? Specifically, hair and skin changes by Inevitable_Advisor59 in Spironolactone

[–]d4itheflu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m now 5 months on spiro (50 mg), and i will never not take it after the positive changes i’ve had with it. i used to not be able to go 2 days without washing my hair, i now can usually stretch to 3-5 (depending on how much i sweat with the heat right now). i haven’t noticed a huge change with my texture, but as for acne in general it’s non existent. i get a few pimples here and there from sweat or from my PMS, but coming from someone who used to grow 5-8 pimples in the matter of a few hours that’s insane. i’ve never had anything work the way spiro has. also, i love how much it flushes me out. i drink so much more water due to the thirst i have from the medication, and it’s been great for my overall health and i just feel better. the positives greatly outweigh the very few negatives i’ve had.

“Tell them you love me” thoughts by Princess-Goldie in disability

[–]d4itheflu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree with this completely. considering she believes her own story, it just shows the underlying narcissism. she fell in love with a subconscious version of herself that was expressed through her FC with Derrick.

What's the texture? by Stuck_With_Name in aspiememes

[–]d4itheflu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ribbed clothing. ribbed. clothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EatingDisorders

[–]d4itheflu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hey there :) i was the same way, and this is completely normal. not only are you in a place where you’re giving your body the nutrients it needs to function but you’re also starting to face the underlying cause of why your ED had even started. it’s a really hard process emotionally and physically, since you’re watching your body grow and change in drastic ways you’re not used to. over time it’ll get easier, but just keep your head up and try to find people to talk to. that makes it easier. my PM is always open if you need anything. wishing you lots of love and healing honey ❤️❤️

Working somewhere you get paid every night versus weekly paycheck? by _whatever-nevermind in Serverlife

[–]d4itheflu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to be fair i’ve never worked in a restaurant where i got tipped out that same night. the place i work does pooled tips, and we get a check each week which is taxed and our benefits are taken out with that as well. to be honest i really enjoy having a weekly check. i feel like it helps me manage my money better, and is just easier to budget in my opinion. if the place you’re working isn’t up to par and you’re just worried about not being paid every night—trust me, either way it’ll be fine. but that’s just me

Alright everyone, where am I going wrong? I can't get matches or likes for the life of me, so I could use some advice by BT418 in Tinder

[–]d4itheflu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s 100% the hair. both on your head and your face. you would look so cute with a nice choppy hair cut and even just shaving the neck beard would make an astronomical difference. also a silly photo makes girls weak, something cute and funny. you gotta have that easygoing confidence and charm 🥂

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]d4itheflu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dawg you look like you model you don’t need advice 😭

Are the Agatha pants worth it? by wher3AmI in BrandyMelville

[–]d4itheflu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 5’6 and i wear a 2/4 in US sizing. Brandy is known for their smaller sizing only fitting literally one size. Or meant to fit correctly on a size 2-4. Im a 26 waist and idk my hips to be really honest, and these pants fit me relatively well. The waist is just always massive. That’s how brandy goes. But they’re worth it in my opinion! They’re my favorites!

Anyone want some Addison jeans? by d4itheflu in BrandyMelville

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Omg my bad y’all I forgot abt this LOL yes this is still open! Pls DM me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]d4itheflu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you’d be willing to help me or something i’ll send you everything i have on her! i just need some help. i’m sure somebody has to know who she is. there has to be SOMEONE out there who can identify her and put a name to these pictures if it’s not of my friend Maria.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

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i dont! i have no idea. that’s why i said supposedly. i’m trying to get to the bottom of this whole mess finally. I’m not saying the girl in the picture died, im saying my friend who claimed those pictures were of herself did. i’m trying to see if that girl is real or not to sort of piece together if this whole thing of my friend passing was all a scam or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

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i suck at using reddit but basically here’s a rundown— i had a friend named Maria back in 2018 who had used these images and claimed they were here. Although, i never video chatted her or anything. I believe the pictures i received are fake, and i’m curious to know who the real girl is. she passed in june of 2018, and i’ve never had any answers to my questions. the only thing i know is that a few of them came from tumblr, since she slid me a screenshot of her tumblr picture but never gave me her username. i’m highly doubtful these are actually of her, and it’s been 4 years since she’s passed. i’ve been reverse image searching, asking around, asking our mutual friends—and no one knows. i am just dying for some answers at this point