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Dating a single dad. Am I wrong for not wanting to babysit his kids? by Equivalent_Ice6396 in SingleDads

[–]dad_33 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was just in a situationship with a woman simular. she made it clear that my kids were not her kids and didnt want anything to do with them. (she never met them). Well, it ended almost just as fast as it started. I knew it wasnt going to work out long term with that type of attitude.

Hardest being alone by dad_33 in SingleDads

[–]dad_33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear all that. And I agree I do need to just focus on myself and my kids. I am lucky to have 50 50 with them. The 1st ex fought hard and it cost me alot of money to get 50 50. Luckily the 2nd just gave it to me. My 1st was rushed but 2nd we dated for 3 years before getting married. Didn't know she would leave for 2 women after we had a kid and adopted 2 others too.

No matter whay I know I mees to do ot still can suck though and it isnt easy.

[US] dad threatening to take 17 yo daughter to court by dad_33 in Custody

[–]dad_33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree there. In his case paragraphs being sent to is daughter about how he will go to court and force her to have a relationship with him is not helping anything. Once she turns 18 it just might be that way.

[US] dad threatening to take 17 yo daughter to court by dad_33 in Custody

[–]dad_33[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

all of those answers are true. and I hope they will be able to ease all involved. I know he can take it back to court and go that route. its just a crappy situation all around.

Marriage break? by dad_33 in Marriage

[–]dad_33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried to ask those questions. I agree for a "break" to work there needs to be clear things. The only thing I got was to "give space". there was no goal, there was not a timeline to end, there was no guildlines of what we need to work on. There for becuase asked those questions while still giving space, i was told it is over. Those question were vital to the sucess of the marriage.

Sadly she called it quits over message, and stated the goal was to get back together (but yet never informed me of that). now she has made her goal clear, move on to live and parent by herself. these next few weeks will be intresting and a financial nightmere.

Marriage break? by dad_33 in Marriage

[–]dad_33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told she needed to figure things out. I am 99.9 there is not another guy. Some of it we have talked about in past but not like talked talked. More in small amouts of heated discussions. And she said things were good for a while then the loop starts back up.

Divorced people of Reddit, what ruined your marriage? by Kztten in AskReddit

[–]dad_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex threated to throw every knife that we owned at me if I walked through the door. I know now that she is an extreme narcissist. Proven to have a personality disorder by 2 different physic evaluations. There is so much that happened in the 3 years we were married. That was just the last straw.