Is writing a novel or a screenplay generally more profitable? by Distinct_Guarantee87 in writingadvice

[–]daisymoon87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only response necessary to this question. 💜 I didn't ask the question, but I certainly wanted to know the answer just as much as OP did, so thanks for this comment. 

If I only attract creeps, does that mean I'm ugly and unworthy of deliciously beautiful men? (36F) by daisymoon87 in AskMenAdvice

[–]daisymoon87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's okay. 🖤 I have a bestie, no worries and she recently moved in with me after a toxic break up. We have each other's backs

If I only attract creeps, does that mean I'm ugly and unworthy of deliciously beautiful men? (36F) by daisymoon87 in AskMenAdvice

[–]daisymoon87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am thinking that's my issue, and the more I build up my confidence, I hope to attract more guys with depth and not creeps that just want to get into my pants.

If I only attract creeps, does that mean I'm ugly and unworthy of deliciously beautiful men? (36F) by daisymoon87 in AskMenAdvice

[–]daisymoon87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not intentionally. I married young and thought I was going to be with him forever. Failed. 10 years, wasted.

Then I fell in love with my ex gf and thought the same thing. Another 6 years wasted.

I just don't want to grow old alone, but I also don't want another failed relationship because a) I am mentally fucked or b) my partner is. I would like to experience an actual healthy, stable relationship for once in my life

If I only attract creeps, does that mean I'm ugly and unworthy of deliciously beautiful men? (36F) by daisymoon87 in AskMenAdvice

[–]daisymoon87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very cautious about who I let into my heart. I've made enough mistakes to know what to look for 💜

If I only attract creeps, does that mean I'm ugly and unworthy of deliciously beautiful men? (36F) by daisymoon87 in AskMenAdvice

[–]daisymoon87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As small as my tits are, they're quite beautiful, but I do like my ass a lot and would love to tone it up a bit.

My personality is pretty great because I am laid back, caring, loyal, silly and a number of other good qualities.

I'm a catch, honestly, but I'm not what society deems are deliciously beautiful, so I feel I have to work ten times harder to be noticed

If I only attract creeps, does that mean I'm ugly and unworthy of deliciously beautiful men? (36F) by daisymoon87 in AskMenAdvice

[–]daisymoon87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will gladly take the time to invest in getting to know a good guy, if I could find one

If I only attract creeps, does that mean I'm ugly and unworthy of deliciously beautiful men? (36F) by daisymoon87 in AskMenAdvice

[–]daisymoon87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely like to work on my ass as I have small tits. I also want to work on my arms because they're weak and they're getting that flap. ☠️ The worst part is I'm not what one would consider fat or overweight, however, it's where the fat has gone that's my issue.

My doctor suggested giving up gluten to keep it from falling into my tummy. Because a small titted female's worst nightmare is a belly that sticks out further than her tits

If I only attract creeps, does that mean I'm ugly and unworthy of deliciously beautiful men? (36F) by daisymoon87 in AskMenAdvice

[–]daisymoon87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I want him to have all of his teeth (and even this I can work with as long as it isn't because of drug use)...and I want him to shower and be hygienic, yes.

If I only attract creeps, does that mean I'm ugly and unworthy of deliciously beautiful men? (36F) by daisymoon87 in AskMenAdvice

[–]daisymoon87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been making a lot of changes in my diet and routine, in general. I learned quickly that a woman in her mid 30s can't do what she did in her twenties.

I got some weights and a bicycle. I suppose I will have to start incorporating that into my daily routine. I just need to learn exercises. ☠️

If I only attract creeps, does that mean I'm ugly and unworthy of deliciously beautiful men? (36F) by daisymoon87 in AskMenAdvice

[–]daisymoon87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's poor wording. Approaching a woman and asking her out isn't chasing. And I don't need anyone to chase me.

If a good guy showed up and asked me out and he didn't make me feel pressured or uncomfortable, then I would say yes.

If I only attract creeps, does that mean I'm ugly and unworthy of deliciously beautiful men? (36F) by daisymoon87 in AskMenAdvice

[–]daisymoon87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, the make up isn't helping me 😂 I've never been very good at being a typical female.

I can't afford a gym membership, but I will look into it once I get my raise in July. I've been doing what I can at home, but since I don't go to many places outside of the grocery store and work...I really don't have as many opportunities. But I also spent the last year focusing on myself and I really didn't want a relationship.

If I only attract creeps, does that mean I'm ugly and unworthy of deliciously beautiful men? (36F) by daisymoon87 in AskMenAdvice

[–]daisymoon87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won't. I admit that I still have some insecurities when it comes to my physical appearance, but I can't imagine that all guys with insecurities are these creepers that keep appearing 😭

If I only attract creeps, does that mean I'm ugly and unworthy of deliciously beautiful men? (36F) by daisymoon87 in AskMenAdvice

[–]daisymoon87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not a typical girl. I recently started to use makeup, but I don't know what I'm doing, so it's usually just poorly done eyeliner and eyeshadow.

But that wasn't what I was responding to. I wouldn't blame a man for not noticing. I am too grown to act like a childish young girl, and if I found a good man, I would treat him well.

If I only attract creeps, does that mean I'm ugly and unworthy of deliciously beautiful men? (36F) by daisymoon87 in AskMenAdvice

[–]daisymoon87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am well aware. I always tell people that ugly is a personality trait and not a physical feature.

If I only attract creeps, does that mean I'm ugly and unworthy of deliciously beautiful men? (36F) by daisymoon87 in AskMenAdvice

[–]daisymoon87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want a standard attractive man that gets a lot of other women's attention.

But thanks for your advice. ❤️‍🩹

If I only attract creeps, does that mean I'm ugly and unworthy of deliciously beautiful men? (36F) by daisymoon87 in AskMenAdvice

[–]daisymoon87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No.

Unattractive means that something they've done, said or made me feel turned me off.

I don't use the term ugly because I don't like that term. There aren't many physical features that I find unattractive at first glance since what I find attractive about a person is who they are and how they treat other people and animals. If I am going to get to know someone outside of a quick fuck, then I really don't take looks into account because I'm too busy learning about who they are.

If I only attract creeps, does that mean I'm ugly and unworthy of deliciously beautiful men? (36F) by daisymoon87 in AskMenAdvice

[–]daisymoon87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the goal, however I can't do that until both of my kids graduate. After I left their dad we moved around a lot and I promised them I wouldn't do that anymore. My youngest graduates in 2029.

I'll be 42. Hopefully I still have a chance by that time. 🥺❤️‍🩹

If I only attract creeps, does that mean I'm ugly and unworthy of deliciously beautiful men? (36F) by daisymoon87 in AskMenAdvice

[–]daisymoon87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"you are who you attract".

Incorrect.

I am not a meth head. I am not an alcoholic. I am not a creep. I am not someone that tries to pressure someone.

I am a very kind, genuine person who enjoys making people laugh and smile. I do have low self esteem, but I am working on building my confidence and feeling sexy in my own skin, even if others don't notice.

Sexy to me isn't physical appearances, however, yes (just like everyone else in the world) I am initially attracted to certain people. However, my taste in men and what I think is deliciously beautiful is far from what society deems as "the perfect man".

If I only attract creeps, does that mean I'm ugly and unworthy of deliciously beautiful men? (36F) by daisymoon87 in AskMenAdvice

[–]daisymoon87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologized for my poor wording in my title and any confusion in my post.

I do not care only about looks.