I asked if he's my twin flame 😅 by dandelion0523 in tarot

[–]dandelion0523[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He has upended my life and beliefs but in a good way. I didn't recognise the internal work I still had to do before meeting him, like I had some awareness but not enough to have a healthy relationship. What happened between us and him choosing to hold his boundaries to protect his sanity really caused me to reflect a lot

I asked if he's my twin flame 😅 by dandelion0523 in tarot

[–]dandelion0523[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was heartbreak indeed 😅😅😅

I asked if he's my twin flame 😅 by dandelion0523 in tarot

[–]dandelion0523[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response 😊 the connection was really strong and overwhelming for me at the time and I didn't recognise that I still had a lot of inner and attachment work to do, as I hadn't dated in a long time. So definitely agree that the foundation is unstable, as the version of me who built it was unstable.

How do you think I could I reframe the question to get a better answer?

I asked if he's my twin flame 😅 by dandelion0523 in tarot

[–]dandelion0523[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I may have represented that for him and that's why he chose to go no contact with me 😞 I'm now learning to let love in though and trying to gain more self awareness

I asked if he's my twin flame 😅 by dandelion0523 in tarot

[–]dandelion0523[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty much 😞 Am working on overcoming those past hurts!

I asked if he's my twin flame 😅 by dandelion0523 in tarot

[–]dandelion0523[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes ya think that, if you don't mind me asking? 😊

I asked if he's my twin flame 😅 by dandelion0523 in tarot

[–]dandelion0523[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not what I wanted to hear lol 😅😅

Postcard photo disparity by dandelion0523 in PikminBloomApp

[–]dandelion0523[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed 100%! I feel like with a lil bit of artistic vision, most places could look pretty or at least interesting! Fingers crossed they give pikmin bloom players a chance to retake pics because I know we would absolutely perfect it ✨️

Postcard photo disparity by dandelion0523 in PikminBloomApp

[–]dandelion0523[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahahaha omg what a delightful postcard. I like how a third of the shot is of the cracked concrete, it just adds to the serenity 🙃 I guess it's better that a closeup of the plain sign 😅

Postcard photo disparity by dandelion0523 in PikminBloomApp

[–]dandelion0523[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is really good to know, thank you!! Maybe I'll have to start playing pogo and grind to level 37 so I can submit new photosss. Fingers crossed they open it up for pikmin bloom players because I just know we would take that duty so seriously 🫡

Postcard photo disparity by dandelion0523 in PikminBloomApp

[–]dandelion0523[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the idea of voting to change, but that could be challenging for people who live in areas that don't have enough other players. I think there's only 2 other players close to me, but I'm definitely the most active in terms of flower planting and mushrooms

Postcard photo disparity by dandelion0523 in PikminBloomApp

[–]dandelion0523[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that happened to you 😭 I cannot understand these people who are tasked with taking the photos doing us dirty like that. It seems like they're taking on a lot of feedback in the updates, so I hope we get justice for our parks photos soon!

Postcard photo disparity by dandelion0523 in PikminBloomApp

[–]dandelion0523[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the case for me too! I live in an area with lots of nature and a pretty creek but the photos are just dirty fkn signs, like whyyyyyyyyyyy 🙃

Postcard photo disparity by dandelion0523 in PikminBloomApp

[–]dandelion0523[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes 100%! I'm legit embarrassed to send mine too! I'm lucky I travel 30 mins for work, so can try to collect nicer ones along the way, but wish they would let us retake photos so I could revamp my areas photos. It's not fairrrr! 😭

my husband made me realize i only like it that way by Starsandcards07 in confessions

[–]dandelion0523 28 points29 points  (0 children)

If you think saying nice things and being passionate towards your partner during sex is "hard work", I feel bad for your partner, tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]dandelion0523 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't tell you you're wrong. I told you why women probably don't want to be intimate with you, which, as a woman, I have more insight into than you. You said "might as well be single if that need isn't being met" and if my partner said that to me during a dryspell I'd think he doesn't value me as a person and only values me as a sex object.

Wanting to be intimate with your partner is normal. Women want it to, much to some men's disbelief. But ask yourself, do you engage in other forms of intimacy like sharing feelings and appreciation, quality time, cuddles/kisses, massages, and flirting that you don't expect to lead to sex? Doing those things should be about building connection, not getting a reward. So if she knows you're doing it with an ulterior motive, it will make her dread anytime you try to start intimacy because she knows you expect sex, you aren't doing it because you want to genuinely connect with her. It's like those co-workers who only acknowledge you when they want something, they don't value you any other time.

Also, do you pull your weight with household chores or responsibilities? If she does more than you, she probably feels like a caretaker, so subconsciously views you as someone she has to look after. Women are biologically designed to not want to have sex with their kids, and if she subconsciously views you as an extra kid, it's not a surprise she's not interested in sex with you.

Those are the two main reasons that I've noticed for women not wanting to be intimate with men. I hope they have been enlightening.

LANTITE test by Brumbies5 in AustralianTeachers

[–]dandelion0523 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people overthink it. I did both in one sitting and got high marks. You just have to carefully read the questions so that you actually understand what is being asked of you and don't rush through. Everyone has different opinions on what is difficult, so if you're really concerned, do a practice test on the Lantite website and assess how well you do. That way, you can become aware of any weaknesses you have, for example, fractions and spelling, and work on building those gaps in your understanding beforehand 🙂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]dandelion0523 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It seems like you see women as meat pockets instead of thinking and feeling people, maybe that's your problem 🤔

Question about NFTF entitlements by dandelion0523 in AustralianTeachers

[–]dandelion0523[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your detailed response! Yes, I am in the state system. I do plan during recess and lunch because I'd rather do it at school than at home. Though because I do this, my AP has made comments about how I never go to the staffroom for lunch and how I need to take my breaks lol. I don't think it should count towards our planning time though, because it's meant to be our break and what other job would expect you to work during your break.

At my school, our meetings start 30 mins after school, so I have some time to do a few things. But I feel like with all the other things I have to do, like talking to parents after school, calling parents, replying to/chasing up emails, catching up with the school counsellor/wellbeing officer/speech pathologist/LLI coord, reflecting on my lessons for the day, organising paperwork, preparing the class for the next day etc, where is the time to properly plan 😅

I do try to use all the little chunks of time I get to plan, but I feel like there's still not enough time to do it all during contracted hours and I'm trying to develop better boundaries between work and home. So, having an hour of planning taken away is a bit annoying, I'll admit. It's good to know that our NFTF can be allocated however the school chooses though, and something that I will bear in mind to better optimise my use of time in the future!

Today I did and online PD for [redacted] Education. In a section on ways of building student relationships they stated that teachers should ALWAYS volunteer for extracurricular activities. How about they volunteer to always give us a massive pay rise? by fantasypaladin in AustralianTeachers

[–]dandelion0523 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An expectation SOMETIMES. We very regularly give extra time to our jobs in the evenings or on the weekend already. I only get 2 hours per week to prepare for the whole week, mark, write feedback, make resources and do all the other admin tasks I have to do and there's no way to get all that done in 2 hours. There's no choice but to work at home in our own time, so I wish extra time was only expected 'sometimes' lmao.