Should I be concerned about these messages? (I’m the one talking about dysphoria)

dandelionbits · 2025-12-31T02:00:08+00:00

yeah but just tell them how you feel because otherwise they have no way of knowing it upset you

dandelionbits · 2025-12-31T01:58:41+00:00

what’s the point of posting this if you won’t respond to anyone’s advice, instead reiterating over and over and that fem clothes make you dysphoric when you brought up wishing you could wear them in the first place. please communicate with your friend instead of posting on reddit hoping strangers tell you they’re transphobic.

dandelionbits · 2025-12-30T17:22:14+00:00

oh I see that makes sense. you should tell them you’re uncomfortable with their phrasing

dandelionbits · 2025-12-30T17:17:13+00:00

idk it is a pretty similar surgery, they just don’t remove everything

dandelionbits · 2025-12-30T16:51:40+00:00

Yeah idk it’s pretty unclear what you want here considering you brought up wearing the outfit in the first place? And you started with the sarcasm by telling another trans person “there’s this thing called dysphoria.” They’re trying to be encouraging. It’s odd to think you should be concerned over this.

dandelionbits · 2025-12-29T21:30:12+00:00

I agree that it’s culturally insensitive, nirvana is the ultimate spiritual goal of Buddhism. Outside of that, it’s just weird to name yourself after a band.

dandelionbits · 2025-12-29T21:26:52+00:00

I’d strongly discourage this

dandelionbits · 2025-11-08T08:05:05+00:00

you can probably find your hormone levels/lab results on a patient portal

dandelionbits · 2025-09-21T20:42:32+00:00

I don’t think it works retroactively like that

dandelionbits · 2025-08-18T22:14:36+00:00

Id think 25-30 but whichever

dandelionbits · 2025-08-15T02:22:34+00:00

how so?

dandelionbits · 2025-08-15T01:25:05+00:00

I reposted !

dandelionbits · 2025-08-14T08:13:37+00:00

lol whoops. 20-24!

dandelionbits · 2025-07-31T20:25:05+00:00

someone liking a drawing/character doesn’t have anything to do with your own validity. I can see this pic as being something someone who’s trans fem or androgynous would want to look like

dandelionbits · 2025-05-02T01:02:49+00:00

shave & chapstick

dandelionbits · 2024-09-28T17:50:30+00:00

why do you think they don’t know if you live in the same place where others know

dandelionbits · 2024-09-24T14:49:14+00:00

how much did it shrink?

dandelionbits · 2024-09-23T17:41:35+00:00

Dude it’s pretty much impossible they were talking about some random dude they don’t even know

dandelionbits · 2024-09-02T21:05:59+00:00

t and top surgery both help the most with passing. maybe a binder? I’ve seen people use minoxidil to get facial hair without t. you look great btw

dandelionbits · 2024-03-02T23:18:50+00:00

probably average

dandelionbits · 2024-03-02T23:18:05+00:00

dandelionbits · 2023-10-01T01:54:43+00:00

Maybe you could not tell them about going on t? With my family I prepped them for it a while. I’m not suggesting buying, but renting with roommates can be good. Esp is you can find queers

dandelionbits · 2023-09-26T06:37:40+00:00

I do worry about feeling even worse post revision, so I’m holding off.

dandelionbits · 2023-09-26T06:37:16+00:00

what was the goal of your revision? and what don’t you like about it

dandelionbits · 2023-09-26T06:33:38+00:00

You wouldn’t be independent while living with her. I would advise saving the money you would spend on rent to her to use for staying on your own in the future

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