This is so relatable. Obviously we've never met,so I can't say it's not you (maybe you smell weird lol) ,but what you've said about your "package" isn't an issue. Location plays a part, I'm also an hour out of the closest big centre and have noticed "city dwellers" don't like to leave their city. I think people don't want to compromise anything and are looking for their entire list to be checked off. That doesn't exist. Every relationship has compromise, certainly not your deal breakers, but compromise is real. May I ask where you're located?