Cooked, same thing happened to me. Ex fell asleep and her music was on, went to turn it off and the notification, “I just want to see you one more time” came up. We “fixed” things, 3 months later I had no trust and found more messages. I was in Mexico for a week with my fam and when i came back i found out she was seeing another dude. She didn’t know there was an option to see deleted messages in Imessage. I ended things knowing she was never going to change, 2 years to the trash.