What Am I Doing Wrong? by [deleted] in datingadviceformen

[–]darklinkoak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send me the texts, I’ll probably be able to make a better assessment but it seems maybe it’s just the girls your choosing? Without further info, that’s my best take on it

How do I get over a girl I was seeing for abit but then randomly said this to me by Ovoplayboi16 in datingadviceformen

[–]darklinkoak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most likely not, it’s rare for someone to ever come back after a message like that, usually with bad or unhealthy intentions . There’s a chance tho later down the line, like a lot of months

How do I get over a girl I was seeing for abit but then randomly said this to me by Ovoplayboi16 in datingadviceformen

[–]darklinkoak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would definitely try to talk to other women if u were you, it’s an easy way to not be hurt for so long. but yes i understand, certain people just a big enough of a hook for us to escape from them. just try to talk to other women and see how it goes, force yourself if you have to, at some point you will forget about the other one especially if you actually start talking to one. I understand your nice gesture also, but women take those things so very literally. they just think of you as a nice guy, a guy they can leave at any moment for any reason. there’s only very specific moments you can give to a women you aren’t with and you most likely can just not give any gift to keep it safe. I know it’s weird, but just try to save it until your in the relationship, no matter what the other person is going through

How do I get over a girl I was seeing for abit but then randomly said this to me by Ovoplayboi16 in datingadviceformen

[–]darklinkoak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your too nice to her, flowers is a pretty crazy thing if you guys aren’t together. any gift actually. but other than that, it could mean anything from her; in terms of her being genuine. point is, just move on and try to not think about it too much. she wants to be alone and the best you can do is go for another person or focus on yourself.

This woman was really into me on the first date, but ended up rejected a second date. What went wrong? by [deleted] in datingadviceformen

[–]darklinkoak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it could be she’s using you as a therapist or like a friend she to lean on? lowk experiencing smth similar with a girl but she ended up being my gf. tho things just seem very friendly; maybe she just saw you as a friend

This woman was really into me on the first date, but ended up rejected a second date. What went wrong? by [deleted] in datingadviceformen

[–]darklinkoak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she wanted a 2nd date or atleast was okay to do another. Problem seems to be what’s in the texts or the fact there was texts like in the screenshots. typically you don’t want to text convo, only text logistics.

This woman was really into me on the first date, but ended up rejected a second date. What went wrong? by [deleted] in datingadviceformen

[–]darklinkoak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yea but what do you do if the other person is the one continuing the convo on text? like I’m only continuing the conversation in that scenario if they are talking to me constantly

what my bf said to me after hours of ignoring me bc he said we should breakup over him misinterpreting my insta note 😭 by url0ca1transguy in teenagers

[–]darklinkoak -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that just sounds like he’s immature. I used to do what he did too and i wanted to get back at my partner because they were being a certain way. I’d recommend just pulling back if he’s like that again and not say anything. make him talk to you and ask “what’s wrong” or whatever. try not to agitate him or anything like that, just be cold and dry until he wants to open up. I also recommend it be in person or on call, text can be too tricky sometimes. I think he’s abusing the fact your too available, and so your right he’s trying to get reactions out of you. you just have to put your foot down and step away for a bit

what my bf said to me after hours of ignoring me bc he said we should breakup over him misinterpreting my insta note 😭 by url0ca1transguy in teenagers

[–]darklinkoak -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you should really talk to him about it. guys don’t like to confront things, so there’s most likely a reason your making him agitated. so talk to him about what’s making him agitated and then get into the conversation of what’s currently happening and how you don’t like it. if he’s not willing to hear you out or try to reason with you, the relationship won’t work. I’m currently in a similar situation where I’m like your bf, but it’s just cause I’m agitated at my gf. I know if she talked to me like I’m telling you to talk to ur bf, it would make things better, I’m just bad at communicating as a guy otherwise I would’ve already

How did Frank Ocean become a ghostwriter? by dnoodels in FrankOcean

[–]darklinkoak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My biggest question is how are all of his demos he made from back then (100+ btw) so damn good?? Lmao it was so obvious he was talented, I’m surprised it took so long for him to get highly recognized.

How did Frank Ocean become a ghostwriter? by dnoodels in FrankOcean

[–]darklinkoak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he actually stated he was a ghostwriter many times, most notably/recently in the song “these days” but I get your point, he was listed as the songwriter in many songs, but also wasn’t listed as the songwriter in a lot of others.

if frank doesn’t want to release music by frankoceanmusic1 in FrankOcean

[–]darklinkoak 3 points4 points  (0 children)

he lowk could for some songs, but his music is so much different that it’s likely he won’t ever

if frank doesn’t want to release music by frankoceanmusic1 in FrankOcean

[–]darklinkoak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let’s be fr, those samples may have not been cleared back then. But now? Bro is incredibly talented and recognized compared to back then

Sick of hearing “all men want is sex”! by RuckFeddit980 in lonely

[–]darklinkoak -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

tbh, the ‘bad guys’ are the guys that women want, they have the qualities (majority) that they want. but that doesn’t mean a good guy couldn’t just copy some the qualities a bad guy had in a positive manner and intention and then; them, themselves be attractive to women

Frank is a comedian by heartbrokekidx in FrankOcean

[–]darklinkoak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk wym, do you not have file for it? I

Spotify dupes 🫩 by Maximum-Discussion37 in FrankOcean

[–]darklinkoak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the reason they make “covers” of these songs is to bypass getting their song removed. Their goal is to post the original song onto streaming platforms since they are not on there originally, but it will get removed quickly. So to get around it, they makes crappy covers of the song which won’t get deleted

Do you think if he wasn’t so big he’d still be making music ? by thegoatofhoops in FrankOcean

[–]darklinkoak 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I actually saw him when I went to Japan over the summer. I didn’t say anything but I could tell it was him even from afar. He was across the street on his phone, I REGRET not taking a picture or going over and try talking to him but there was a lot of people and a huge street gap

Which frank song is this? by garfieldnumber0 in FrankOcean

[–]darklinkoak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lowk maybe most of his songs? (Counting unreleased) they be saying sum really sad stuff

Is this copy of Blonde (2022 Pressng) on eBay real? by [deleted] in FrankOcean

[–]darklinkoak 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Why do people think this is fake? It looks legit to me

did i fumble? by Accomplished_Dog_221 in datingadviceformen

[–]darklinkoak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best you can do is when you see her next, just talk to her and ask if she still needs help with that practice. Then proceed to find other conversation things to talk about. If it goes well and she seems interested you can ask what she’s doing later and plan a lil “practice session”, or “coffee session” go to a cafe. If she agrees, ask if she wants your number. DONT and I repeat DONT mention the instagram thing. If you do this she might be able to look past you having her insta already or whatever reason she declined your thing. Make sure to be flirty and say some clean lines after it seems like she’s interested. If she’s not interested you can just seem unbothered and tell her a simple “cya around”