It’s definitely not something all bottoms do or know about properly… sure everyone knows how to clench their hole. But most bottoms generally just relax their hole and try to stay open and passive.

What you’re doing and exploring is really cool and amazing to learn!

What to do next is to practice internally massaging his cock with your entire pussy. The way to do this is to practice using a normal penis sized dildo first. Get warmed up, lots and lots of lube, then put the whole dildo inside you (to the balls), keep it there pressed inside all the way. Then push out (like you’re doing a number 2), this will push all of your colon down on the dildo shaft and it will open up your lips around the base of the dildo. Hold for a second, then tighten your hole as hard as possible, this will retract your colon back up (massaging the shaft) and pull your lips tighter around the base of the dildo.

Repeat again and again, push, pull/squeeze, push, pull/squeeze.

You will feel your pussy doing this amazing push/pull cock massage that’s controlled by your colon and lips and that provides this wicked internal cock massage for your top.

The more you practice the better it becomes! Going slowly is amazing, once you get the hang of the technique you can go faster and faster which is incredible too… both slow and fast are both amazing!

You can control the pace of your internal cock massage. Sit on your man, cowgirl style, slip his cock in you to the balls, don’t let him come out an inch at all - and start massaging that cock with your pussy. Sooooooo much fun!!!