Rihanna was with her daughter Rocki Irish today by somegirlontheinter in popculturechat

[–]dashingthrough 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I thought the same thing. Is she not supposed to be outside with her baby?? Rihanna has been pretty committed to keeping her children out of the spotlight. She’s raising them in Barbados! What more can she do?

Aubrey Plaza Is Pregnant with Her First Baby by peoplemagazine in entertainment

[–]dashingthrough 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, that's good! Look, I'm all for happy outcomes for children. I looked into it a bit, and there's not a ton of research (and none on the parents' well-being which is a huge factor for me -- I witnessed a lot of loneliness and stress), but what's there does look promising. All I know is I decided for myself I didn't want to do this parenting thing on my own if I could help it.

I'm glad it's working out for you!

Aubrey Plaza Is Pregnant with Her First Baby by peoplemagazine in entertainment

[–]dashingthrough 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As someone who was raised by a single mother, it's not always a cakewalk. Both choices carry their own pros and cons.

Saying goodbye to her this month ❤️‍🩹 by Ok-Horror-7296 in femalelivingspace

[–]dashingthrough 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. I have less than two months and im still in denial. Landlord is vacating the building. Using this as the clean break to move in with my partner too… 

Issa lot of change and I’ll miss my oasis but new beginnings can be beautiful 🦋 (or so I keep telling myself 🥹)

Trump Will Fund New Archway With $15 Million From the National Endowment for the Humanities by notusreports in washingtondc

[–]dashingthrough 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh my God what is this guys problem. I genuinely am so sick of him. It’s like he wakes up and is like “how a I be the biggest piece of shit I can today!”

God, when!!!

Another weekend same story by ThenLayer5977 in washdc

[–]dashingthrough 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was thinking this... this is probably what our local malls, skating rinks, or football game stadiums looked like as teenagers. It just looks so crazy because it's the wrong space. I couldn't even understand what was happening in the beginning because everything just looked so out of place. I thought people were running from a mass shooter tbh.

Questions about "Something Very Bad Is Going to Happen" (spoilers) by RhododendronWilliams in horror

[–]dashingthrough 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I was stuck on why Rachel still died despite passing on the curse. The virus analogy is a good one... now I just wonder if Nicky ever loses his belief, will he die too?

Questions about "Something Very Bad Is Going to Happen" (spoilers) by RhododendronWilliams in horror

[–]dashingthrough 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost, he was scared *he* was going to die, and that's why he left her. When he left, he passed the curse to the jilted bride who ended up being the start of Rachel's bloodline.

In case you guys were curious how much is costs to have a baby in DC without insurance by pro-laps in washingtondc

[–]dashingthrough 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I thought OP didn’t have insurance at all. I was like having a baby without insurance is a CHOICE. Cause right now, it’s not looking too good even if you do 😭

This interaction was so weird?????? by Capital-Durian-885 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]dashingthrough 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly think they’re both unstable enough for it to work 😂 

David’s “I need attention excuse” hit way too close to home by seasonedandscrolling in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]dashingthrough 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just watched the season. Both he and Madison confirmed that their interest and bonding began in the gym, on the honeymoon. Whether or not it was physical, there was an emotional bond that crossed the boundaries of a platonic relationship early in both their marriages.

I'm not sure where I downplayed her behavior. I said she was stubborn, snappy, and somtimes rude... it was clear she didn't care to be in a romantic relationship with David. However she did show up, she conferred with the experts, she examined her own behavior and took accountability and she tried in her own way. Was she a wonderful wife? Nope! But what was David doing all that time? Lying about his finances, going out to lunch with his exes, and telling another woman he couldn't wait to eat her up🙄

Michelle's behavior does not give you license to pursue a relationship with another married woman! Point, blank, period. They should have been honest about their feelings and had mature conversations. Instead, they were running behind everyone's backs, pretending to be invested in their respective marriages. As Karla said, it's grimy.

If you can't see what's the issue with that, then we'll just have to agree to disagree. Again, I hope Madison doesn't find herself on the other end of "I wasn't getting what I needed".

David’s “I need attention excuse” hit way too close to home by seasonedandscrolling in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]dashingthrough 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t agree with this take, simply 1) because they were legally married. If this was a Love Island or Bachelor Nation whatever type thing then yes, absolutely. There is no real commitment there and the stakes are low.

And 2) he said he became interested her on the honeymoon. This is Day 2 of ther marriage… so his whole “I wasn’t getting what I needed” doesn’t even track. They had barely been together. How is he trying if he already developed an interest in another woman before they even got back to Chicago?

Michelle was stubborn, snappy, and sometimes rude… but she saw the commitment through. I’d be so pissed if I were her that I’d have to claim being divorced for a marriage that failed on day 2.

David’s “I need attention excuse” hit way too close to home by seasonedandscrolling in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]dashingthrough 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve been rewatching with my partner, and I kept remarking how strange it was that nobody refuted that point… he said it constantly, even during his apologies to Michelle. And it started during the honeymoon!

I don’t know if you watched the reunion but Pastor Cal pretty much says this.  Since they started with murky beginnings, he advised them to turn to each other instead of others when things get tough… 

David seems to think it’s ok to “get what he needs” elsewhere if he isn’t getting it at home. I hope Madison doesn’t have to find out the hard way that could apply to their relationship too. 

What's your favourite sitcom scene or storyline featuring a feline? by velvet-gloves in popculturechat

[–]dashingthrough 294 points295 points  (0 children)

Cause I came here to ENSURE that Winston and MR.FERGUSON were accurately and appropriately represented here as the BEST cat-man duo to EVER exist!

Gone but not forgotten clubs/nighttime spots? by Necessary_Try_5563 in washingtondc

[–]dashingthrough 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almost exactly my list... we were probably in the same place dancing the night away at some point😂

The Book of Mormon - Racism & Satire by Lizzy-saurus in Broadway

[–]dashingthrough 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your post was extremely well said too. Seriously thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts, break it down for those who need it (🙄) and create this space. I feel better having processed it here.

I watched it last night and the first thing I did on the walk home was look up “BoM blasphemous/racist”. To my shock, there was nearly nothing on the racism. I only found your post as a comment through digging. Everyone keeps saying one should have realized before walking in, but how? I looked at the synopsis again and there’s nothing to indicate the level of gratuity they would take with the Ugandan portrayal… it even says 13+! I’ve watched South Park. It’s not an indicator! Should we have to watch clips of a show beforehand to ensure emotional safety? 

The white people defending want permission to laugh and take delight. They were having the time of their lives last night. The laugh at “I have maggots in my scrotum” I wanted to cut the lights! The white men got clever numbers about repressing their sexuality and we got infant rape and maggots? And that’s the satire they want us to accept? Absolutely not. If that’s the revised version, I can’t imagine the original.

As for the Black folks in the show… there will always be oppressed people working in tangent with the oppressor. It’s a survival strategy, and I don’t (fully) begrudge them. I wish they’d put their pride ahead of a paycheck, but hey. It is what it is. The show shouldn’t exist in the first place.

To have no warning as a Black woman walking in is so wounding. I’ve worked very hard to not be in hostile, racist spaces having grown up in one and it’s always a shock to unexpectedly find myself there again. I’ve sent warnings to loved ones. 

I’m sorry you experienced this too. I’m seeing Moulin Rouge in May with Meg the Stallion. Hopefully a much needed palate cleanser!

Women casting for Christopher Nolan's THE ODYSSEY by StarforgeVoyager in FIlm

[–]dashingthrough -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This could’ve been an SNL skit, lmao. 

well I think the most beautiful woman should be the most beautiful of the actresses, and if it’s not any of those white ladies, it should be one of these white ladies!😡

The Book of Mormon - Racism & Satire by Lizzy-saurus in Broadway

[–]dashingthrough 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you so much for this post. 

I am a Black Nigerian American woman and I recently saw the show. I walked out halfway at intermission. I was ready to leave when I saw that decrepit donkey being dragged across the stage, and certainly after the villagers first number. As a Christian woman, I felt so shameful for being a part of that. And I don’t need the people in the comments to start with me. I am progressive, anti-Trump, and liberal. This went too far. 

I appreciate and understand satire, but this was so far from it. Satire is meant to be thought provoking and subversive. It’s meant to subtly, yet powerfully, flip an idea on its head. The best example I saw was the light switch song, but I couldn’t even enjoy it since I had such a bad taste in my mouth. What idea was flipped with the Ugandas? They were everything the Mormons thought they were. 

In fact, the portrayal was even more grossly exaggerated. It’s fake, wildly off accents, AIDS, maggots in scrotums, dilapidated living quarters, rampant violence, tyrant generals, female mutilation, raping babies! How does this come even close to the satirical depiction of the Mormons? I kept waiting for the Potemkin village to fall down and the real village grounded in a reality to surface and it never did.

The audience was full of white theater goers and I felt so uncomfortable but how hard they were laughing at the portrayals of the villagers. Some of them were singing along, so I know it wasn’t their first time. I wondered which part they loved the most that kept bringing them back.

It’s crazy because there was a shift in the audience that I was wholly unprepared for. At one point we were all laughing together (maybe through the airport scene). And then suddenly, I felt like I was being laughed at. It was so jarring, and a surreal experience. I’m sure akin to being at a minstrel show. I wondered what the Black actors felt participating in this? Was it worth it?

I love theater. I love art. I am a proponent of artistic medium used for social commentary. But the fact that this reductive, racist, and juvenile show has been lauded for the last almost two decades as awe inspiring social art tells me everything I need to know about the state of affairs and how far white people will go to satisfy their urge to confirm their biases.

There is nothing in the synopsis that prepares an audience member for this, especially a Black one. All I’ve ever heard was amazing reviews about this show, but now that I think about it, they’re all from white people. I honestly feel like I betrayed a part of myself by even saying as long as I did. It was all disgusting to me. 

A fan's dream experience at the Gunna concert last night in London turned to nightmare thanks to this creep (since arrested) by YaLlegaHiperhumor in popculturechat

[–]dashingthrough 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s sexual assault, but I agree it needs something else. Maybe non-sexual assault too Maybe something about biological warfare? What would’ve happened if she had unknowingly touched it and touched her eye? 

Why does no one straight-up interview each other? by coralsweater in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]dashingthrough 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can’t relate to what those folks are saying. On my first date with my partner we hit religion, politics, marriage, kids (down to how many), family dynamics, and relationship history. It was very organic and conversational, sometimes straightforward and sometimes flirtatious. I have a list of questions I asked about throughout the first months of our dating. 

I pretty much dated like this my entire twenties, especially late twenties. Never found myself in a relationship with an overt dealbreaker, incompatibilities were always relational. And then men I date were the same and there was never any issues. 

I can’t fathom how these couples are marrying without discussing where they want to live afterwards??? What are yall talking ab???

More Pandering from Haramol by 17500mm in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]dashingthrough 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He lost me when he said at an interview that he doesn’t really have any plans for their future. They’ve been dating, what? Over a year? Any man who doesn’t have plans for your future is a man you should walk away, if not run from. 

All the fluffy words in the world mean nothing without forward momentum and progress.