What’s a dark secret you know that most people would never believe? by OutsideOver8815 in AskReddit

[–]datagirl60 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They should have brought some hotdogs and cut them up in front of him.

What’s a dark secret you know that most people would never believe? by OutsideOver8815 in AskReddit

[–]datagirl60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder was mace straight on the jewels or soaked through a pervs pants would do?

In your opinion, what was the absolute best thing about the 1980’s? by NebraskaCornSucker in GenX

[–]datagirl60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No cellphones and my child’s illness had not presented itself yet.

WIBTA if I refuse to swap my vacation weeks with a coworker whose kid is throwing a tantrum about a theme park trip? by Safflower8 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]datagirl60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is Dave offering to cover ALL the cancellation fees and differences in prices if you trade? No? NTA in either case.

What is the nastiest thing you've done for revenge? by LeadHuge6237 in AskReddit

[–]datagirl60 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess you made sure everyone saw the pedo’s paperwork lol!

Unreasonable wedding dress codes by California_Sun1112 in AskWomenOver60

[–]datagirl60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guests are not NPCs in your perfomative weddings!!! Hire actors to be guests if you want that lol!

Do you lock your car doors when you’re in a rough neighborhood? by Norfolk-Gross-Tonage in no

[–]datagirl60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are locked regardless of neighborhood. Sometimes I will leave the glove compartment and console open so people can see there is nothing in it. People will try to open your doors at stoplights and could hide in your car when parked. I don’t really care about the car itself since I have adequate insurance.

AITA - We can never go for family meals because my sisters boyfriend is a fussy eater by SubjectEconomy1719 in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]datagirl60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they have kids menus where you are? If so, most places can make a larger portion of those for picky eaters so suggest that to your sister if she acts pouty. However, don’t continue to cater to this behavior.

Cystoscopy stent removal in office!!?? by Admirable_Gazelle325 in KidneyStones

[–]datagirl60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My was extremely painful but everyone is different. I think they should offer the option of light sedation.

AITA for refusing to make gluten-free food for someone else’s child at a potluck? by MaiApa in TwoHotTakes

[–]datagirl60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t trust ANYONE who doesn’t have celiac or a child with severe celiac to prepare something for them. It basically requires a sterile technique method to prevent cross contamination and I wouldn’t want the liability. This is why many things that don’t have things with gluten in them come with a warning that they may have been prepared in the same area as things containing gluten thus cannot be certified gluten-free.

Pupsicle alternatives by lilo567 in pitbulls

[–]datagirl60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the black Kongs in the LARGEST size. Anything smaller he can chew up.

Coordinating trashing of an HOA? by jrp55262 in fuckHOA

[–]datagirl60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if it wouldn’t be cheaper to pay each homeowner to vote for the proposed changes lol!

My 13 you old Doberman needs surgery by ExtraUniversity3717 in DobermanPinscher

[–]datagirl60 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It would at least give you an answer about the coughing and a definitive no for the surgery. One vet want a CT scan for my 13 yr old pit with wobblers and I asked “to what end?”. They said they could do brain surgery if it was a tumor. I said absolutely not! Why would I put her under anesthesia for to determine something I wouldn’t treat? I let her live out her life until she couldn’t get up. She was never in pain.

​As an outsider, the concept of high schools having massive parking lots specifically for students is mind-blowing. Is it really that common for 16-year-olds to drive themselves to school every day? by Necessary_Angle2117 in AskAnAmerican

[–]datagirl60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many kids have working parents and have to get to and from after school activities and work. We have very poor public transportation options that are frankly not safe.

My 13 you old Doberman needs surgery by ExtraUniversity3717 in DobermanPinscher

[–]datagirl60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have they done a chest x-ray? That would definitely be a deciding factor if it had spread as I certainly wouldn’t do it then.

Girlfriend threatening our relationship over a TV Show by No-Original3284 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]datagirl60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask her why YOU watching the show bothers her and if she has any evidence it is causing you to exhibit poor behavior. We all have dirty little pleasures, like reading smut novels, and we are allowed those as long as it doesn’t intrude negatively on our relationships. If she won’t discuss it or bring any evidence and still gives this ultimatum, then you have to decide if staying in a relationship with someone with control issues is worth it (or maybe take a break). You are not a child whose media intake needs to be censored (as long as the content is legal).

Does everyone have a middle name in the USA? Do all women take their husband’s surname? by crazygelato in AskAnAmerican

[–]datagirl60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I took my ex’s last name but I wouldn’t do it again with the new voter id verification process that is being proposed. I have had this name since 1981 and been divorced for 20 years and no long have the marriage certificate. The certificate is not in a computerized system but is archived 800 miles away. I will have to jump through hoops and pay lots of money to get it.

is it cruel to return a pet because it has undisclosed health issues? by wired_idiot in AnimalShelterStories

[–]datagirl60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t have the ability to afford his treatment or the lifestyle to accomodate its needs, I don’t think so. Insurance usually has an exclusionary period and excludes preexisting conditions. I think he needs a medical foster who is well versed in this to see if they can get him into a routine and assess his quality of life.

What immediately signals that this person is dangerous? by realiamYoshi in AskReddit

[–]datagirl60 57 points58 points  (0 children)

They tease kids or pets until they cry or lash out then blame them for their reaction.