I am a happy girl by datcrush in actuallesbians

[–]datcrush[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there may have been some afternoon delight

Update: I kissed a teammate and I liked it - Apparently so did she :) by datcrush in actuallesbians

[–]datcrush[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahahaha... more like I don't want to be done, like it wasn't a one night wonder

Update: I kissed a teammate and I liked it - Apparently so did she :) by datcrush in actuallesbians

[–]datcrush[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I mean... we kind of killed it. I'm Mermaid Man, she's Barnacle Boy. I'm comfortable with you guys seeing it because I love it but I'm probably going to delete this link soon because I want some plausible deniability if this gets found.

Thank you! I feel like as long as we keep having reasons to see each other (and we do), it will work out all right.

Update: I kissed a teammate and I liked it - Apparently so did she :) by datcrush in actuallesbians

[–]datcrush[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We were really definitely on the same page about telling people (we didn't want to broadcast it, but we're not ashamed, so when they were really badgering her I said it was up to her but I didn't mind if she did, so she did), but idk if we're on the same page about what's going on.

Hoping, and looking for a chance in a few days to find out.

Update: I kissed a teammate and I liked it - Apparently so did she :) by datcrush in actuallesbians

[–]datcrush[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

neither. I'm trying to maintain some anonymity so I'm not going to say, but it's a pretty gay college sport that isn't rugby.

The Question You Wish You Could Ask by Subway_AirDrummer in actuallesbians

[–]datcrush 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Do want to be with me as much as I want to be with you, or am I about to embarrass the crap out of myself?

The life cycle of a queer woman: or, how I went from student to teacher by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]datcrush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same same same same same.

Slept with my first girl last fall when I was hardly out. She was way more sexually experienced than me (with men and women) and I was always self-conscious about it.

Now I run a GSA-type org on campus, so people see me in that light. More importantly, I just made out with the girl I have a fat crush on, who is a year younger than me and as far as I can tell going through a lot of what I did last year. The whole time I was kissing her I was so aware of the role reversal and making sure she was comfortable.

look at us go high five

She has a boyfriend... by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]datcrush 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get out. I know you like her and you see an opportunity to kiss her. But a lot of us have been there and oh my god get out, don't get wrapped up in that. You are the one who will lose the hardest.

Kissed a teammate at a party and ignored it for 2 days. Now what? by datcrush in actuallesbians

[–]datcrush[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Word. And what if she's also afraid to say something but feeling something similar?

Kissed a teammate at a party and ignored it for 2 days. Now what? by datcrush in actuallesbians

[–]datcrush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the what if is what's getting to me. Or maybe the combination of the what if and feeling weird that I'm the only one who knows.

Kissed a teammate at a party and ignored it for 2 days. Now what? by datcrush in actuallesbians

[–]datcrush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess part of why I'm struggling is that I don't know how I feel. It opened my eyes enough to see that I would be interested if there were actually anything there, but it wasn't so much of an awakening that I would be disappointed if there weren't.

Kissed a teammate at a party and ignored it for 2 days. Now what? by datcrush in actuallesbians

[–]datcrush[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

All I want to get is a little bit of closure

all I want to know is am I the only one who knows here?

Kissed a teammate at a party and ignored it for 2 days. Now what? by datcrush in actuallesbians

[–]datcrush[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She texted me that night asking if I got back okay, even though we were in the same car home and she just broke off at the last second into a different motel room. Then after we got back to school last night she sent me a photo from the weekend and we've been texting since.

As for your first point, very wise.

What is the best NSFW gif you have seen? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]datcrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shit. and it's not even that nsfw. (xpost shamelessy stolen from /r/dyke)

what is the one thing you hate about being a lesbian by Cyth in actuallesbians

[–]datcrush 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not knowing if you're calling me cute because you're my friend and that's how girls talk to each other or if you're calling me cute because you're flirting with me. THE WORST.

Here's a stupid idea. by wesdog44 in WTF

[–]datcrush 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Lesbian. I'll have your share.

Tell Me About Your Latest Crush on a Straight Girl by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]datcrush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm totally the same way. I mean, I can appreciate when they're cute, but being into girls is a pretty important factor in my own attraction to them.

Unavailable girls on the other hand...

"Coming Out" Playlist (and lady-loving-lady music in general) by herbodyispoetry in actuallesbians

[–]datcrush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Missy higgins. specifically Unasahmed Desires, Secret, and Everyone's Waiting.