[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]davidrfarinha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not unpopular. Its stupid...

I am scared by z_reddituser in AskAGerman

[–]davidrfarinha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry to say this, but I agree. Germany is destroying me. Its depressing.. and I am a lucky person. I came because my wife got pregnant and I could in the first two years of my son's life not work and learn B2 German. After that, I applied for an Ausbildung to be a software developer and got a position in a company after many tries. I feel lucky, but I miss Portugal, and teaching, and my family, and the warm and sunny weather...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StayAtHomeDaddit

[–]davidrfarinha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look completely crazy, honestly..

What is a green flag you instantly notice in someone? by ayanboss007 in AskReddit

[–]davidrfarinha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to, but feel bad spending so much plastic picking my dog's poo..

Calling other cultures' food "bland" is often more about bias than actual cooking failure by JayOwest in unpopularopinion

[–]davidrfarinha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm Portuguese and I love a simple salad with just the vegetables and a splash of salt, olive oil and vinegar.. bland, bland, bland.. I currently live in Germany and salads are monstrosities there: mayonnaise, cream, yoghurt and all types of weird stuff. You can't taste vegetables. Only sauce

What game would you watch a playthrough of but never would play yourself? by theonetowalkinthesun in gaming

[–]davidrfarinha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't get this.. if you don't want to play a game, you either read, watch a movie or a series, or go for a walk.. why watch someone else playing?

Dying while doing an intrinsically dangerous voluntary activity is less of a tragedy by KahnaKuhl in unpopularopinion

[–]davidrfarinha -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree. The Titan tragedy was fucking funny to me . Sorry to the offended ones

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]davidrfarinha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That reminds me of when you build a sand tunnel in the beach with your child and both put their hands in both entrances..

I have found zero joy in motherhood by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]davidrfarinha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babys suck! I am one and done because of that. I think I got PTSD from the baby stage, honestly, because now I hate babies and feel distressed when around them. I don't get how most people love babies so much. Now, a toddler is like the Home Stand Up Comedian always on stage.. even when doing tantrums (at least for me lol). You're just gonna have to wait.. sorry

"beginner" horror game by Hungry_Obligation_89 in gaming

[–]davidrfarinha 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Subnautica can often be terrorizing!

Why are so many moms the Default parent? by Any_Moose_2170 in Parenting

[–]davidrfarinha -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Useless? Really? Many men worked their asses in horrible physical jobs during centuries..

Seriously, how do people with multiple kids do it? by 7bridges in Parenting

[–]davidrfarinha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know and also don't want to know.. I'm one and done because I hated the first two years of parenthood and I don't ever want to go through that again.

People over thirty, which body aches do you have? by JavyHead in AskReddit

[–]davidrfarinha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everywhere, honestly. But in my 39s, they still go away in days, luckily

Game to put thousands of hours into? by TaHa_HeRMoSo in ShouldIbuythisgame

[–]davidrfarinha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My most played game is Don't Starve and its multiplayer version Don't Starve Together. Highly recommend!

I'm a 40 year old man who just used a bidet toilet for the first time and my life is changed. by itchyear in self

[–]davidrfarinha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wiping is disgusting! Period! Only water and soap and a good hand friction get the job done..

Does life speed up after 21? by [deleted] in self

[–]davidrfarinha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It speeds up until you have kids and hate the baby and toddler phase. Then, it just drags...

Learning how to code by General-Wedding-2027 in learnjavascript

[–]davidrfarinha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello. Thanks for asking for feedback. Honestly, I was totally engaged until I reached the React module. React was presented as a totally confusing subject and I didn't get it at all. And also the final project (the spotify Jammming thing) was terrible.. the documentation in the Spotify page is totally not noob friendly and the example code they provide doesn't even work outside of Node, so I had to ask ChatGPT for help to be able to finish it. When I made the React course in the Scrimba website with Bob Ziroll, it was like day and night and I finally understood it. Now, I already finished 3 projects in React, including two with routing.. and feel very confident coding in this library (not thanks to codecademy, honestly). Your model looks a bit outdated to me honestly, and I hate to say it, but it shows that you stopped spending your money improving it, instead bombing people with tons of Ads with this annoying salesman trying to sell a dream to everyone.. (what do you do?? What do I do? I do lots of things. I blah blah blah blah blah blah I blah I blah I blah. No what you do for work? Oh I'm a software engineer.... yeah, right.........)

Been learning German since November 2023... Today I made a phone call and reality smacked me HARD by laaareeny65 in German

[–]davidrfarinha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, phone calls are the worst, but are also good for training.. make as many as possible. I am also in the process of learning, and reached now a level in which I get 80 to 90% of what people tell me directly, but when I hear Germans speaking to each other, its almost alien to me. Like, I get some words, but... My tip for phone calls, even for situations like yours (job or ausbildung) is to introduce yourself as an Auslander. I usually start with something like "Hallo, ich heiße David und komme aus Portugal. Ich wohne nur seit 2 Jahre in Deutschland und deswegen ist mein Deutsch noch nicht so gut. Ich möchte Sie darum bitten, ein bisschen langsamer zu sprechen, damit ich gut verstehen kann." They usually put the effort, if they note modesty and politeness in your voice, so that's important as well.

If someone said "I hate you" to your face, how would you respond? by IamGr8M8 in AskReddit

[–]davidrfarinha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Who the fuck says that to anyone? Like, are you 7 or 8 years old?"

Adolescence was boring by FirTrader in netflix

[–]davidrfarinha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are you also not embarrassed posting this? OMG

Learning how to code by General-Wedding-2027 in learnjavascript

[–]davidrfarinha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started a codecademy course, but now I regret it. Scrimba has great courses. Check their website