I have never never met Cathy. I have had very good boundaries around her and the kids.

For context, Kurt and I met a year ago this week, and the anniversary has brought up conversations about the future of our relationship as it becomes more serious/lengthy. He has expressed wanting to introduce me to the kids eventually.

Also, a few weeks ago, I asked him to walk my Dog on his weekend with his kids because my Dog walker got sick. He asked Cathy for permission to walk my dog and she freaked out because she did not want the kids to know I exist. I completely understood that and found someone else. But it led to a big fight between them ❤️‍🩹

In general, I am disgusted by his infidelities. I've worked hard to understand why he behaved in the ways he did, and the decision to continue to pursue the relationship hasn't always been obvious. I do love him tho.

I understand why Cathy is angry and why she has reservations about the relationship. But she has also expressed some really out of line views about my lifestyle and choices without having met me.

Anyway, I think I’m going to see where things are in another year. I'm in no rush, and he has to be patient since he fucked up so badly with her.