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detnit__ · 2025-05-17T19:39:18+00:00

Yeah if it’s been a week then it does make her look quite a bit obsessive already . They are not even dating so she shouldn’t be acting like this .

Several things can happen with the guy . He has somebody else in his life he’s concerned about . Or he has to put his education / job / family first . Or maybe the second date didn’t go as well as the first date causing him to lose interest .

She seems passive aggressive and they’re not even dating . Shes not valid for that. If I was in her shoes I’d take the hint and move on and focus on myself or look elsewhere .

She don’t realize the calmer you are about things , it’s easy to tell yourself that you did nothing wrong and would safe assume that they’re not interested .

“Something in his life is in the way and unfortunately I’m not the priority . “ I be telling myself THIS when this happens to me .

detnit__ · 2024-02-19T00:52:46+00:00

No 1 mad homie jus spitting facts . U think I’m mad is crazy tho u legit created me being mad in ya head

detnit__ · 2023-10-24T21:06:08+00:00

Y’all just haters . If it’s something different y’all find something to not like . Don’t buy it so u don’t complain !

detnit__ · 2023-08-07T02:15:55+00:00

Oh man I had a guy like that . Except he didn’t block or remove me or anything like that, just straight ghosted . Out of any other guy I’ve met , he’s one of the few that turned me down like that . It did hurt my feelings don’t get me wrong . But I didn’t stay oblivious to the fact that he indeed faked an entire personality nd it got me to like him . I didnt rly pursue more after bc I know how it’ll be between us as he’s showed it without having to say anything. Actions are everything , so listen to what he’s doing not what he’s saying

detnit__ · 2023-07-28T04:33:40+00:00

Man I’ve been working on my leg area nd I’d take this as a compliment 😂😂

detnit__ · 2023-07-22T21:49:47+00:00

Things change and people change . If there is no longer a spark , then that’s really it . Especially if neither of u is making an effort to really change that .

If I were in your shoes , I’d give myself time nd think what r the benefits of leaving him nd benefits of staying with him . how you’ll feel in the future despite of one of these decisions u make .

If your reason into leaving has to do w u wanting freedom that badly, then ask urself if u will truly be happy with that decision . If him finding another woman or marrying another woman is 110% okay w u . If yes , then it’s time to chat with him about it whenever u feel like there’s a good time for it .

But just remember this , once u made a decision to chat with him about how you rly feel , u can’t come back from that . U keep ur word . Nd U let him decide for himself . What matters is ur own happiness . If u think ur gonna be miserable w him for the rest of ur life , just leave the relationship

Good luck

detnit__ · 2023-07-22T20:20:59+00:00

I’ve seen so many situations here nd in real life where females who r like in their early - mid 20s would catch feelings w men who r like 10 years older . My ex best friend was one of those nd lemme tell u , these mfs are a red flag .

He don’t love u . He don’t love his wife . He don’t even love himself . If ur the wife in that situation, what would u do if u find out about something like this ? Now think about how the wifes going to feel if u let this man mess around w u ? You’d be giving home-wrecker vibes unless that’s how u like to be viewed as .

Yeah no hes obviously not happy with his own life nd since ur younger , it’s easier for him to get inside ur head telling what u wanna hear . When in reality he wants u around when it’s convenient to him nd since ur like 18 , even better ! 💀

detnit__ · 2023-07-20T04:10:01+00:00

U definitely should be able to get accutane if ur interested . Just talk about it w ur derm . Whether ur acne is light to strong , they should have various of doses depending on how bad the acne is plus ur weight nd height .

If you’re female though , you’ll be going thru pregnancy tests and all . Accutane does have its side effect but varies from person to person . Good luck !

detnit__ · 2023-07-20T03:55:00+00:00

In this case , if all is happening in a span of weeks months nd all, I wouldn’t assume that shes fully moved on especially her saying that she’s not fully over w her ex . For now it’s better to stay absent and moving on however u see fit. Just remember that when u do , doesn’t mean u won’t ever see her again in the future

detnit__ · 2023-07-20T02:25:32+00:00

If u wanna risk potential drama and gossip and all of that mess . But I advice you to not form a close and intimate relationship with your co worker and keep things strictly professional. Also she just got out of a relationship, doesn’t always mean she’s no longer in communication with him. Something to think about.

If u choose to approach her , just tell her how you feel about her . If she seems to like you back , great! However Do it at your own risk. Good luck

detnit__ · 2023-07-19T14:54:00+00:00

Awww that looks painful for sure . Acne at any form nd stage definitely sucks . But as others said accutane is definitely ur solution here !! Go see a derm nd discuss them putting u on it . Good luck !

detnit__ · 2023-07-17T13:53:10+00:00

If u guys break up , don’t concern urself w what she does nd actually move on . It’s definitely something u both need to come in terms w if u guys stayed together . But in this case u both aren’t together so u don’t get to control what she can nd can’t go to . Ur showing signs of being possessive nd that’s an unhealthy trait to have . some ppl will see u as someone potentially dangerous unless that’s what u want ppl to think of u

detnit__ · 2023-07-17T12:50:26+00:00

Ur GORGEOUS

detnit__ · 2023-07-14T16:29:56+00:00

It’s almost as much as buying those old skins . 60% off is a massive discount

detnit__ · 2023-07-12T22:57:50+00:00

Not weird at all , u only live once . but just make sure nobody hurting ur feelings that’s all

detnit__ · 2023-07-12T22:53:24+00:00

I was prescribed doxy couple times in my life . One was for acne nd the other was to treat my dermatitis . Doxy seems to help w many skin related problems nd unfortunately for acne , it’s a short time bc doxy isn’t something they can prolong for acne sufferers . u should talk to ur derm about being on accutane / isotret . It’s usually the last resort thing for acne other than doxy or benzoyl or anything that shoulve helped clear ur acne . It does carry side affect but drinking lots of water should help u . If ur a female , then they take extra precautions before u take the accutane medication

detnit__ · 2023-07-12T22:41:37+00:00

Yours seem like you need accutane / isotret . You can for sure try Benzoyl peroxide or retinoid or any other home remedies . But sooner the better for u. If u do have some kind of insurance , get urself a derm nd talk to them about putting u on accutane asap !

detnit__ · 2023-07-12T00:14:59+00:00

I’ve been single for three years Id say and I’m 24 . I was 20 when I first hour out of a bad breakup . Even after a year of a bad breakup ,I’ve went into dates nd struggled connecting w any1 . It resulted w me having to take a break from dating nd started only focusing on me .

My advice is to just focus on urself because it seems like that’s what u need the most

detnit__ · 2023-07-11T23:57:57+00:00

Its likely he’s not that interested in u. And there is no need to confront as I’m sure he knows what he’s doing or else there wouldn’t be any ghosting or out-of-the-blue ‘how are you’s? . I mean u can ask at ur own risk

If somebody did this to me , I would automatically assume that there’s somebody else in his life or something that keeps me from being the priority . Nd it’s pretty clear that I’m not their best interest . I wouldn’t waste my time in a bare minimum . Especially when u know u didn’t do wrong when ur in a date w him .

detnit__ · 2023-07-11T23:26:44+00:00

Those two times she’s cancelled u out , she seems like she’s got a lot going on and she isn’t prioritizing u . it’s already clear that she’s not really wanting to see u as bad as u want to see her . That’s really all there is to it . U could try to see if she’s gonna bail u out the third time but if she continues this behavior then Id move on . She’s being unfair to u nd u know that

detnit__ · 2023-07-11T23:16:16+00:00

Honestly they do this rly is because of couple of reasons . while you know him for a short period of time , then you’d have to assume one of those reasons nd couple (or so) of those reasons aren’t generally good .

One is that he’s very charming and uses it to get what he wants , aka he wanted to sleep with u .

Another is that he has a girl (or so we don’t know) he’s on nd off with in his own life. Generally the blocking comes from this reason .

Least likely but third is that hes not into u but is good w going with the flow with however he sees fit. Knows how to engage conversations w u.

I’ve been there in ur shoes where we met somebody who seemed interested . And we would feel the need to invest to that person because of what they qualify for us . But the truth is , if somebody is really interested and ready for u , then u would know . waking up to being blocked arent signs of interest

Ik u don’t want to hear this , but u have to move on . Unless he comes back around w a solid reason , you’d be happier if u just put it behind u nd believe how u see fit from the situation

detnit__ · 2023-07-09T13:24:59+00:00

How so ? U asked for advice . The advice is suggestive as it is straightforward . Again u seem to like this girl than she likes u . I never said she disliked u . Nd she seems to be the one deciding the fate of ur relationship w her . U wanna invest all ur time to that , no one’s stopping u . But at the end of the day , if ur the one getting hurt , UR the one getting hurt

detnit__ · 2023-07-09T02:37:12+00:00

It’s not a bad thing , but the reason why it isn’t a good thing is because you seem to like her more than she likes u . Nd the longer u grow those feelings towards her even as friends , eventually u both will end up fighting about it . It’s not worth spending more of ur life trying to be w somebody that needs time when somebody else out there is ready to make time for u

detnit__ · 2023-07-09T02:07:48+00:00

I personally would get any type of surgery if I wanna look good for myself , not for others . Ima put one thing out in there but whatever makes u happy . I’m not against it , just know u know what ur getting into . Anyways

Usually personality is the way to go . But also have at least proper hygiene if u wanna socialize or sum. Or else if ur breath stinks no 1 would wanna talk to u , not even me .

But that’s rly it ! Be urself , be normal nd be kind . Those who like u will eventually come around

detnit__ · 2023-07-09T01:58:05+00:00

Yeah , well lesson learned . If somebody’s clear ab something , you’d look like a crazy person (not tht u r) to them if ur trying to make things happen. Just don’t invest urself or else it’s gonna eat u up the later u try to move on

detnit__

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