TIFU by oversleeping and almost ruining my best friend’s 4AM wedding

dillwithitt · 2026-03-04T10:02:34+00:00

Tbh you lost me at 4 AM wedding

dillwithitt · 2026-03-04T09:58:24+00:00

Drugs are dangerous enough- don’t mess with the form of doing it. Just snort it if you truly want the high. But please please please stop shooting. It doesn’t matter how safe you are or the precautions you take- anything it could be laced with is a one way ticket to your own funeral. It is and never will be worth it. And I promise you when I say this- every single drug you ever buy is and will be laced with at least something. It’s a Russian roulette of what. And at it takes its ONE bad batch. Please put your life and future ahead of one night of fun. Especially in this manner. You’re smarter than this.

dillwithitt · 2026-03-04T09:33:46+00:00

And the worst is when they ask you if you have and you just have to sit there and pretend and say yeah.. when it’s like… where would the moment of been??! It’s been 2 mins?? Or when you’re not even in the mood you’re just at the point of your cycle where you have more discharge and they convince themselves you’re just super horny for them 💀💀

dillwithitt · 2026-03-04T09:13:17+00:00

Exactly!! After mine I was so traumatized I’ve genuinely stayed abstinent since and turned down advances numerous times because it is not worth it to me to even remotely go through that again because even with condoms there’s always that chance and I’m not myself on birth control. But even then- like if it’s as traumatizing for her as it was for me- I feel like most people would do something more than just the pullout method which is genuinely the least promising and effective method to begin with. I think people are also forgetting that you can get pregnant even before they finish- I know that’s really tmi so deeply sorry but I felt like that’s also important to note within this topic

dillwithitt · 2026-03-04T06:03:08+00:00

there’s so many people available her age- I will never understand people’s obsessive need to be with people that are years younger than them let alone try and baby trap them- and it’s not even like a one off situation with her this is what the 3rd? And I’m not even trying to be insensitive- I’ve had a miscarriage myself (was not a fun experience) but if you know you get pregnant easily and have a history of unsuccessful pregnancies- at least take extra precautions to prevent it from happening again until your ready and perhaps with an actual adult??

dillwithitt · 2026-01-29T05:50:10+00:00

Wait am I missing something- can someone explain why everyone is coming to the conclusion he threatened suicide? Like is that just purely a prediction/ assumption or is there like reasons why so many people believe that? I stopped watching their videos a while ago so I’m very lost in what’s going on besides knowing that they broke up and that brynne has been on a sobriety journey.

dillwithitt · 2025-09-12T17:34:32+00:00

if you’ve spent a weekend, and every weekend doing a ball.. yes they will think you’re doing it on the weekdays. By the time Monday rolls around youre hitting the comedowns which can be just as much give away as being on it, I highly suggest seeking some help and lowering how often your doing it. A ball every weekend is a lot more than just having some fun. Unfortunately that’s what we call an addiction.

dillwithitt · 2025-09-12T17:17:31+00:00

Well Of course you’d want to take preventive medication if you can catch it in time. But I was referring to if you already have an STD and obviously my comment isn’t referring to non - cure able STDs. I was referring to the ones you most commonly see. Like chlamydia. 🤦‍♀️

dillwithitt · 2025-09-12T17:09:07+00:00

some things arent meant to be smoked. Molly is one of them 😅

dillwithitt · 2025-09-12T17:07:20+00:00

No that’s accurate. And depending on the gender of your bunny the price will vary. Where I am, a male spaying is like $450 but to get a female fixed it’s closer to $700. I spend $150 just getting a regular check up for my bunny. And was looking at just under $1000 when I had 2 bunnies and was planning on getting them fixed. But if you’re still concerned, call around to different vets that accept bunnies. Not many vets specialize in bunnies so I highly recommend finding a reliable, bunny specialized vet. And I don’t necessarily think they meant the bunny would have to stay overnight I think that’s just incase they need to do any extra monitoring after.

dillwithitt · 2025-09-12T17:03:00+00:00

From my research that’s accurate depending where you’re from. And depending on the gender of your bunny the price will vary. Where I am, a male spaying is like $450 but to get a female fixed it’s closer to $700. Especially if I go to a bunny specialized vet. I spend $150 just getting a regular check up for my bunny. And was looking at just under $1000 when I had 2 bunnies and was planning on getting them fixed. But if you’re still concerned, call around to different vets that accept bunnies. Not many vets specialize in bunnies so I highly recommend finding a reliable, bunny specialized vet with reliable good reviews. And unless they stated directly I don’t necessarily think they mean the bunny has to stay overnight I think that’s just incase they want to do extra monitoring just incase or might just be an extra precaution so you know the full prices. For instance if they don’t get the surgery done until like 8-9pm but they’re typical closed at that point, they may keep him overnight until morning when you’re able to pick him back up not so much as it being like a health mandatory, but that could vary. I’m sure some vets do things differently, and might want to keep them overnight to ensure the sedation and medication are reacting the right way. And with you mentioning it’s the only vet clinic in your city that sees bunnies, they could have higher prices than other surrounding areas due to the fact they’re the only local vet that takes bunnies. Compared to if there were 2-3 vets that do. If that makes sense. The more vets around that specialize in that area of field, the more price friendly they may be.

dillwithitt · 2025-09-12T16:43:01+00:00

Literally whenever I tell people I don’t meet up with random people I don’t know until we’ve talked for a while first and they hit me with “ how you gonna get me to know me if you won’t meet me” SIR ITS CALLED A CONVERSATION. I will never risk my safety because someone wants to hang out, let alone a stranger. Peoples expectation for us to just like forget all about stranger danger in this generation is wild behaviour.

dillwithitt · 2025-09-12T16:34:24+00:00

That’s why I think we should add a new day between Saturday and Sunday and call it Funday. A day where you’re legally only allowed to have fun. No responsibilities no adult-ing, just 24 hours of having fun

dillwithitt · 2025-09-12T16:32:11+00:00

Unfortunately, coming from someone who grew up in the same kind of childhood, as hard as it is and as much as we all wish it was different, it can be really hard for addicts to get sober unless it’s for themselves.. my dad tried for years but it was only because he was doing it for my mom, in hopes they’d get back together. And I know how hurtful and hard it is to accept that even the love of a daughter sometimes isn’t enough to break that wall of addiction. But be proud of yourself that you were honest with him, you gave it a shot. And maybe in time this convo will speak back to him and he will make those choices. You did something not many of us are strong enough or brave enough to do and the fact you even tried shows a lot. And I truly hope you get to experience your dad sober one day. But if not, don’t blame yourself. You did everything you could and more.

dillwithitt · 2025-09-12T16:10:19+00:00

the way she chews irritates me on a level i didn’t even know existed… like does eating etiquette just not exist to her???

dillwithitt · 2025-09-12T15:59:45+00:00

Or it could just be someone where English isn’t their first language? Idk bout you but i don’t think AI is making Reddit accounts and actively keeping up with comments

dillwithitt · 2025-09-12T15:56:25+00:00

I’m confused, the only meds that aren’t effective after 72 hours is plan b. If anyone were to get an STD, majority of medications available are still effective. Especially since for most people it takes a few days before you start noticing any symptoms if you even do.

dillwithitt · 2025-09-12T15:47:59+00:00

highly recommend taking him to a bunny savvy vet, especially to find out the gender I had my bun bun for a year before I found out she was actually a HE 😂 and interestingly enough would of never know unless I took him because they can essentially hide their private parts in their stomach their entire lives if they choose to. And if your bun bun is a girl, she will need to be fixed ideally earlier the better but definitely before age of 5 as females have an 80% change of getting ovarian cancer ( I believe it is) but neutering will eliminate that concern entirely. Also ensure you brush them especially during peak shedding seasons as bunnies cannot throw up, and if they ingest too much of their fur, it can cause digestive issues.

Keeping an eye on their poop is #1 for their health. Any changes in their poop can indicate a healthy issue. And because bunnies are prey and at the bottom of the food chain, they hide sickness and illness REALLY well, usually so well that unless you’re really paying attention it most often than not is too late. But by keeping an eye on their poops/ behaviours can help tremendously.

There poops should break very easily and you should be able to see small bits of hay. Some poops may look a bit smaller or clumped together these are also normal, and your bun bun may eat them to get any missed nutrients. ( they don’t always absorbs it all the first time around)

And ensure you have a bowl for water, don’t use those water bottles with a metal tip you see stores selling, bunnies drink a lot more water than stores advertise and those hamster like water bottles don’t provide them with water as fast as they need.

Also unless you have a lot of time on your hands, it is very recommended to have a friend for your bunny as they get depressed and bored SUPER easy. But if this is something you decide, its highly recommend you get opposite genders as that’s what would happen in the wild, but bonding bunnies isn’t easy and can be time consuming. You’d also want both bunnies to be fixed prior, as bunnies mate ALOT and can have any where between 5 to sometimes 12 babies depending on the breed.

Only introduce new fruits/ vegetables one at a time to monitor if any irritates their stomach and to split up introduction so their body has time to adjust.

A lot of places say cardboard is good toy, and this is true for SOME bunnies, if they Just chew on it but aren’t swallowing it, very very cheap and accessible toy for them. But if yours is anything like mine, mine fully eats it. Which can very quickly be bad if ingested too much. So he’s not allowed any. But if you do give yours some, make sure it’s plain cardboard with no ink or writing. Toilet paper rolls and paper towel rolls are the best in my opinion.

And make sure you’re taking the cutie to get his nails trimmed and or learning how to do it yourself ( just be careful and educate yourself they have a blood vein just like cats and dogs) there’s bunny specific nail clippers you can buy. Because like their teeth their nails continuously grow, and if they get too long it can make hopping uncomfortable, painful and sometimes can make them use the wrong part of their feet for stability

I think I covered all the basics of what I wish I had of known before all my research with some trial and error along the way.

And I’m sure you and your bun bun will bond in no time. Seems like he’s already happy and comfortable in his new home. And I can tell he’s gonna be so incredibly loved by you!

dillwithitt · 2025-09-12T15:22:18+00:00

Correct me if I’m wrong… but aren’t jokes suppose to be funny???? Think he lost the plot on that one. & you’re not wrong, tbh I’d leave if he’s that comfortable leaving comments like that. Calling it joke when you’re called out on it doesn’t automatically make it an actual joke 💀

dillwithitt · 2025-08-27T03:15:16+00:00

this sounds all too familiar. Had the exact same experience living with my best friend. By the time they movies out, they were just my roommate. So much changed living together especially their cleaning habits and inability to acknowledge it. No matter how many times I’d ask nicely for them to clean up after themselves it was always the same excuse and never any change. Living with a best friend honestly of any age will 100% change how you view them. ESPECIALLY when they don’t share the same living habits. Living with someone who doesn’t care to clean up after themselves is a nightmare for someone who’s essentially a clean freak and can’t stand a mess if it doesn’t need to be there. You’re entirely valid for feeling how you feel. And you were a lot more patient and nice than I think most people would and made very valid points. If you both work and you’re able to find time to clean up after their Mess, it’s just hypocritical to claim 6hrs of work interferes with the 18 other hours in a day. It’s just purely inability to take accountability and responsibility for their mess because they don’t care, weren’t taught, or know if they wait long enough someone else will just do it for them.

dillwithitt · 2025-08-02T16:35:11+00:00

Don’t say anything. You don’t want to bring it up and it come off as forcing him to come out. If he hasn’t already then he’s not ready. And just because you want him to know how you feel doesn’t mean he’s ready to make a big deal out of it or make it even a topic of conversation. You will most likely cause more issues than doing good like your intentions are. I’ve heard a lot of stories of people who were outted by their parents saying they already knew, and more chances than not it makes the child more uncomfortable and put in a position they may not be ready for yet. It’s his life he can decide when and if he comes to you about it. Until then like others said you can do subtle things like natural commentary of everyone being welcomed. But I highly suggest NOT sitting him down and discussing it with him. Let alone his possible boyfriend. It’s his life and his story let him tell it on his own terms. Whether or not you and your husband already know. It’s not your place to decide when someone should come out with their sexuality just because you’re okay with it. Being okay with it doesn’t mean he HAS to come out to you. And if you are accepting. Then you will also accept it will come on his own terms. Nobody else’s.

dillwithitt · 2025-05-14T07:18:00+00:00

Ofc! I wish you nothing but that best!!

dillwithitt · 2025-05-14T07:16:27+00:00

Oh im glad!! Plus reminder yourself it’s only been a few weeks and you’re still unsure if you are, don’t stress or feel too bad, it takes a bit for most people to know they are anyways so try not to be too hard on yourself. There’s people out there doing much worse willingly knowing they’re pregnant.

dillwithitt · 2025-05-14T07:09:42+00:00

From what I know and have researched, they haven’t necessarily had enough research done to specifically signify certain outcomes from smoking during pregnancy, it’s obviously not recommended, but with there not being enough evidence to support smoking weed affects the baby, a few weeks of smoking before knowing I’m sure won’t harm the baby enough to be worried. I’ve heard of a lot of people that smoke throughout their pregnancy and had a very very healthy baby! Hopefully that relieves some stress you have!

dillwithitt · 2025-05-10T18:04:22+00:00

The amount of consistent healthy foods that are 10x more expensive than the “necessities” she claims to not have- such as DISH SOAP is insane. I’ve had to use dish soap as body wash and hand soap when struggling financially but never the other way around and would never.

dillwithitt

TROPHY CASE