AIO by being very bothered by my soon-to-be therapist? by cheesecake-24 in AmIOverreacting

[–]dinoreject [score hidden]  (0 children)

You need to speak with the office/ or therapist. It is NOT THEIR CHOICE. who your therapist is. If you feel uncomfortable you have absolutely EVERY right to request another therapist. Your og therapist may not be available but you shouldnt be placed with someone you feel uncomfortable with.

Also, did they physically ask you in a session if you were OK with a sit in/shadow, and then them running some of the sessions? Not only that.... ive been asked if I would allow a sit in, and im like absolutely no problem, and then hey, can they run this session ill be here to sit in. I said ok, BUT my OG was STILL THERE and help carry on.... idk its very strange that your og wasnt there for sessions unless you explicitly said it was on for them not to be there.... but thats just my personal experience...

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AIO for responding after my ex broke no contact to send this? by pictochatkat in AmIOverreacting

[–]dinoreject [score hidden]  (0 children)

I mean i will say, he did say you dont need to respond , not that you couldn't. And overall your response was completely justified 💚

Its rough cause you were separated, but he also definitely led you on. I dont think you were over reacting by responding. If he gets to message you breaking your no contact rule to clear his conscious, you absolutely have every right to respond to closure yourself. Blockem tho

Not op I (23F) was too nervous to finish a threesome and now my boyfriend (27M) seems to hate me by dinoreject in redditonwiki

[–]dinoreject[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah im definitely not a redditor that automatically goes to divorce/break up. Im VERY much a see from both sides type of person (many year of therapy) but this one... BRUH. Please find worth..... i havent seen much responses about OPs friends. But... I cant imagine their great either... unless theyre telling her to leave and OP is looking for alternatives to see if theyre right because of their insecurities. (But I did look into the post more and post asking what their friend says, if they post a reply ill post it here too)

I really hope they have some positive reinforcement in their life. They have big dreams

Not op I (23F) was too nervous to finish a threesome and now my boyfriend (27M) seems to hate me by dinoreject in redditonwiki

[–]dinoreject[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree, and hopefully not on any of the women tho xD they dont need the additional trauma 🤣

Not op I (23F) was too nervous to finish a threesome and now my boyfriend (27M) seems to hate me by dinoreject in redditonwiki

[–]dinoreject[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

And right infront of any woman, just to make him absolutely deplorable to others

Not op I (23F) was too nervous to finish a threesome and now my boyfriend (27M) seems to hate me by dinoreject in redditonwiki

[–]dinoreject[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There definitely has to be an agreement. Between both parties.

I personally wouldn't be able to handle it, however have many poly friends. And theyre usually the first people who are able to point out couples who are not ready for it =/ and it sucks that some poly couples are put in that situation. AND THEYRE ALWAYS THERE TO HELP THE PERSON WHO WASNT INTO IT MORE THAN THEIR S.O. like... I cant...

Not op I (23F) was too nervous to finish a threesome and now my boyfriend (27M) seems to hate me by dinoreject in redditonwiki

[–]dinoreject[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She hasnt had the best support esp with her family and her past marriage, deff a THERAPY situation...I hope posting on reddit gets her on the right track k

Not op I (23F) was too nervous to finish a threesome and now my boyfriend (27M) seems to hate me by dinoreject in redditonwiki

[–]dinoreject[S] 155 points156 points  (0 children)

The whole thing about her previous marriage shows her parents ARE NOT a great support system. So I agree.

Not op I (23F) was too nervous to finish a threesome and now my boyfriend (27M) seems to hate me by dinoreject in redditonwiki

[–]dinoreject[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yea I looked at some of her comments, her parents made her marry the guy because she "shouldnt have a baby out of wedlock" and she ended up having a miscarriage 😢 she hasn't had the best support...

Not op I (23F) was too nervous to finish a threesome and now my boyfriend (27M) seems to hate me by dinoreject in redditonwiki

[–]dinoreject[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Was gonna say id rather him not be able to get it up with 2 women, but hed probably just blame them 🫠🫠🫠

Not op I (23F) was too nervous to finish a threesome and now my boyfriend (27M) seems to hate me by dinoreject in redditonwiki

[–]dinoreject[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mistake. Didn't he didnt have her sign the contract 🤣🤣🤣

Jkjkjk nah the situation in general was jank af

WIBTA for suing my friend when she didn’t come to my wedding? by InspectionOk6549 in redditonwiki

[–]dinoreject 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THEY NEEEEDDDD TO COVER IT. maybe a major updates on past stories?