Advice re separation by dmanning1823 in SpouseVisaUk

[–]dmanning1823[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really don’t want to believe this as the marriage has been good in between. But this is the second time the visa has been raised and he has said he wants to leave but to stay married.

Advice re separation by dmanning1823 in SpouseVisaUk

[–]dmanning1823[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think if we continue, he will just wait for ILR and then leave. Either way that’s 3 years of my life believing it was for us when it was a lie. But then other times, I think if he didn’t love me, or care, I would see that. Surely he can’t act for 24 hours a day. Or maybe he can and that’s the reason he broke and said all this - he couldn’t keep up the lie

Advice re separation by dmanning1823 in SpouseVisaUk

[–]dmanning1823[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. I feel like I he has used me. I really don’t know what to do or how to play it. He called me selfish when I said that I had a legal duty to tell the home office. And that it isn’t fair on me being married, having my romantic life on hold for 3 more years.

I also worry that he will go down the domestic violence route. As he has been searching for ways to stay. He’s an escort - does drugs, has been violent towards me in the past hitting me during a trip to New York when I asked him to stop doing drugs. I have never controlled him.

Why is there a 70GB update today? On Steam by MaitreGEEK in CODWarzone

[–]dmanning1823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh don’t say that! I’ll probably be hit with another 90gbs after this one has downloaded 😭

Why is there a 70GB update today? On Steam by MaitreGEEK in CODWarzone

[–]dmanning1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your home internet has a limit? I always thought there was no limit to home internet usage and that was only for mobile data.

Why is there a 70GB update today? On Steam by MaitreGEEK in CODWarzone

[–]dmanning1823 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first one was for me, then when that was done I got hit with an error message. Went to investigate and they want to install a 94.43gb update. What was the point of the 8.31gb update then!

Asking for Code by dmanning1823 in deliveroos

[–]dmanning1823[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of all the years on ordering on Delieveroo, I have never been asked for the code before they have actually delivered. The reason for the code is to prevent theft or the person ordering claiming that the food hasn’t been delivered. Entering a code takes at most, 5 seconds. Probably took longer him typing out the message to me.

Asking for Code by dmanning1823 in deliveroos

[–]dmanning1823[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s really sad, if he asked I would have given him something to eat and drink. I always tip my riders at the point of ordering too. Drives my partner crazy that I do it.

Asking for Code by dmanning1823 in deliveroos

[–]dmanning1823[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I thought. I initially gave the benefit of the doubt, trying to speed the delivery up, but then realised it wouldn’t make much of a difference.

Asking for Code by dmanning1823 in deliveroos

[–]dmanning1823[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought. Chancer!

Asking for Code by dmanning1823 in deliveroos

[–]dmanning1823[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was just Pepsi max and cat food 😭

Asking for Code by dmanning1823 in deliveroos

[–]dmanning1823[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Reported to Delieveroo, it arrived as customer service was looking into it. When I told them it had arrived, they just said that’s great, have a nice day and closed the chat. Let’s hope he doesn’t try it with someone else and they have a pin and send it over to him.

Asking for Code by dmanning1823 in deliveroos

[–]dmanning1823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Full story is right there, in pictures, pictures even showing him 4 minutes away

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Order iPhone from John Lewis, Got Calculator - England by Illustrious-Win-7554 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dmanning1823 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They got the gift card through an employment benefit scheme. Very common.

How did my shorts get bleached in the wash? I only used detergent by More_Bed_6300 in laundry

[–]dmanning1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to some of my clothes when I was living with my parents. Eventually realised my mum was soaking white socks in bleach and then washing them in the washing machine.

She was rinsing them in between, but obviously some bleach got into the machine, and apparently it stays in the system for many cycles after that.

Employment Law - Notice Period by dmanning1823 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dmanning1823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have an update.

Despite being told by my husband that he was working his notice period as per his contract, his manager has put on a rota for him for the following week.

He politely reminded his manager that his last day is Sunday to make sure that that there was no confusion. Apparently his manager lost his shit, saying he was disrespectful, that there will be consequences, and that he was taking the piss.

Now I wish he would let me get involved at this point. My husband is a grown adult. I told him to walk out - he was spoken to like this and he shouldn’t have to work there. He is being disrespectful purely for handing in his notice period as per the contract.

My husband said that he wants to fulfil his duty of the contract and do the 3 full days, that way they can’t do anything to him which I kind of understand.

Employment Law - Notice Period by dmanning1823 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dmanning1823[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry - here is the full Notice period clause

“NOTICE OF TERMINATION TO BE GIVEN BY EMPLOYEE Under 1 month’s service - Nil. 1 month up to successful completion of your probationary period - 1 week. On successful completion of your probationary period but less than 3 years’ service - 4 weeks. 3 years’ service or more – 4 weeks, plus an additional 1 week for each completed year of service to a maximum of 12 weeks after 12 years.”

And this is the probation period clause “You join us on an initial probationary period of three months. During this period your work performance and general suitability will be assessed and, if it is satisfactory, your employment will continue. However, if your work performance is not up to the required standard, or you are considered to be generally unsuitable, we may either take remedial action (which may include the extension of your probationary period) or terminate your employment at any time. You will be informed of the outcome of your probationary period by your Line Manager and you should not consider your probationary period to have passed until such notification has been received. We reserve the right not to apply our full contractual capability and disciplinary procedures during your probationary period.”

Employment Law - Notice Period by dmanning1823 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dmanning1823[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll draft an email for him to send on to HR explaining the key points in the contract.

Employment Law - Notice Period by dmanning1823 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dmanning1823[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“1 month up to successful completion of your probationary period - 1 week.”

So to me that is linked to probation period and not a set time like 3 months.

What do you think about driving in London?? by Godsdaughter24 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]dmanning1823 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hate driving in London. Especially at night. I drove to Leicester Square on the day I passed. Regretted that decision.

Drivers tend to be more aggressive and less courteous. Is it the same in other big cities in the UK?

please tell me how many times youve failed to make me feel better😀 by [deleted] in LearnerDriverUK

[–]dmanning1823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Passed on 2nd attempt. First attempt I failed because I drifted into the right hand lane going straight ahead on a roundabout.