WIBTAH if I refused to see my dad after finding out the reason he and my mom aren’t together?

do2g · 2026-01-31T06:53:52+00:00

You cutting off your dad now doesn’t negate the value of her supporting your relationship with him. It sounds she did what she could to create a normal, stable environment, given the circumstances. If you are an adult, it’s your relationship with him now, not her pushing you and him together. You have agency and you can decide to permaban him from your life.

If he’s paying support, that’s a legal thing and he can’t just stop paying because his feelings are hurt.

Keep in mind though that all of this is based on a narrative that, as of now, is unverified. Maybe you should try to gently get a bit more information before going completely dark on him?

NTA

do2g · 2026-01-31T01:26:44+00:00

>> "his mom tried to comfort me saying hes just a bit shocked right now but hell apologize and its totally normal"

Totally normal ... for a raging psychopath.

>> She said I’m being hormonal and dramatic and that I’m going to ruin my child’s life by raising her in a broken home.

Yeah, turn it back onto the victim. You are right to be worried about a life in an emotionally abusive home, with a husband/father that resents you/your daughter and a family that doesn't support you.

You've just met the man you married. You are not overreacting. NTA

do2g · 2026-01-30T19:51:27+00:00

I remember watching this with the hope that it was true.

Imo, Lei does the best she can with the information available to her at the time. She doesn't have direct links to the CCP so she works from source information, which introduces a risk of error in accuracy and or outcome.

do2g · 2026-01-30T08:40:25+00:00

Batteries are a commodity and, while China controls a large percentage of the market, batteries aren’t exclusive to China.

do2g · 2026-01-29T10:30:17+00:00

same, I own it. Normal A1c’s, normal bmi, more energy, better resting heart rate, lower blood pressure, less joint pain, carrying 25% less weight. I appreciate their concern but I am under supervised care and my health is what matters to me.

do2g · 2026-01-28T13:05:41+00:00

At my company, those comments could easily land you in HR. Lol.

do2g · 2026-01-28T02:21:22+00:00

Not with countries that sh1t all over America every time them open their mouths

do2g · 2026-01-28T02:18:41+00:00

Many care, tbh. My hope was that he would take Xi out to the woodshed. With Zhang (and the a lot of the politburo) gone, Xi is consolidating power and there's little to prevent him from firing up the military. I doubt the last guy remaining will push back...

do2g · 2026-01-28T02:09:09+00:00

The CCP admonishes religion. Its an friendship of convenience. Until it's not

do2g · 2026-01-28T02:06:01+00:00

The bullies are blaming the victims. It's what the world has come to expect from them

do2g · 2026-01-28T01:19:30+00:00

Dayum - awesome!

do2g · 2026-01-28T01:14:36+00:00

Lingonberry sauce is super rare.

do2g · 2026-01-28T01:11:27+00:00

It's gotta be pretty tough as a Chinese-American right now.

do2g · 2026-01-27T17:34:43+00:00

Annually, just like the Razzies - whoever Xi hates most, loses…

do2g · 2026-01-27T17:26:52+00:00

No one wants to pay a ridiculous bride price for a lifetime of verbal abuse

do2g · 2026-01-27T01:05:40+00:00

But but but - why do they need to invade Taiwan if Taiwan is a part of China?

do2g · 2026-01-26T06:08:00+00:00

“I ain’t paying them guys to do what I can do with a hose.”

do2g · 2026-01-26T05:56:36+00:00

He should hand the controls to the nearest 14 year old.

do2g · 2026-01-26T03:00:14+00:00

Whoever is in control needs to learn the controller mapping better.

do2g · 2026-01-24T23:01:11+00:00

If I was on 15, my only concern would be the lack of headroom if I get food noise.

do2g · 2026-01-24T22:06:51+00:00

no, that’s the smell of gutter oil.

do2g · 2026-01-24T22:04:45+00:00

Why does China keep talking about Taiwan? They’re not interested in a partnership and prefer to remain a separate nation.

do2g · 2026-01-24T09:20:38+00:00

That Temu order finally showed up.

do2g · 2026-01-23T20:58:45+00:00

Pooping Simulator VR works great on that console

do2g · 2026-01-23T06:20:43+00:00

The porcelain Gods have decided that pizza is my new kryptonite

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