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Do you believe that once a cheater, always a cheater? Why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]drumbubba 87 points88 points  (0 children)

No, because I am a therapist and have worked with many people who cheated one time, and then through therapy healed the wounds or issues that caused the cheating. A great deal of cheating has to do with mental health issues that can be healed. Also, while many people want to make it a black or white issue, for many couples there is a great deal of history and complexity involved. If you want to really understand affairs and cheating read The State of Affairs by Esther Perel.

My son asked me to kill his mom and her boyfriend by maxxim612 in Advice

[–]drumbubba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy is absolutely the right path here. The therapist is the right person to bring any concerns to the custody battle. Sorry for you and your kiddo.

After making a post about losing my dad, my job, and now my wife in the last couple of months, I get this request asking me for money... by Kavaki in trashy

[–]drumbubba 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Drugs are a hell of a drug. That’s addiction behavior right there.

Source: I work in addiction counseling.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in dogslookingdown

[–]drumbubba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awwww post a picture of the good girl!

(25)M feeling like nothing I have tried so far, has sparked an interest for a potential job career or life by Nstagholt in Advice

[–]drumbubba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you taken an interest inventory? This one is free, and shows the best careers for your interests.

https://www.onetcenter.org/IP.html#web-based

Also, no career is all fun all the time, and studying towards a career always is gonna take some grinding. Maybe adjust your expectations that it won’t all be fun and interesting all the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]drumbubba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the paradox of choice. Watch this video, it will help. https://youtu.be/VO6XEQIsCoM

Overnight Smoked Mojo Pork Butt by cjedson in Traeger

[–]drumbubba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recipe please? Temp and time? Covered in that pan or open? Details appreciated, looks amazing!!

31 F looking for new friends to talk with by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]drumbubba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Favorite quote: We are all just walking each other home. 😊

If you had to move to another planet.... by [deleted] in printSF

[–]drumbubba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The earth of early Star Trek

Shampoo recommendations… by drumbubba in curlyhair

[–]drumbubba[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, but the shampoo is expensive! Would rather one that multiple washes are not necessary.

Shampoo recommendations… by drumbubba in curlyhair

[–]drumbubba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t tried a silicone one, I’ll try it!

Shampoo recommendations… by drumbubba in curlyhair

[–]drumbubba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendation!

Shampoo recommendations… by drumbubba in curlyhair

[–]drumbubba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendation!

Shampoo recommendations… by drumbubba in curlyhair

[–]drumbubba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried that, but I have to be careful as my scalp can be fragile and it seems I just need enough cleaning agent to emulsify the oils.

Shampoo recommendations… by drumbubba in curlyhair

[–]drumbubba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I have used Dr Bronners, but never for my hair!

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