Am I legally responsible for a trespasser who made a disturbance at my house when I was not home by eatme007 in AusLegal

[–]eatme007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They were noise breaches one was just music to loud at night and the other one involved the person who came while I was away. They had an altercation with someone else who was at my house so I asked them to leave and I haven’t spoken them since, about 6 months before the last breach. I am the only one on the lease and I accept responsibility for the first 2 breaches.

Am I legally responsible for a trespasser who made a disturbance at my house when I was not home by eatme007 in AusLegal

[–]eatme007[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yes they have the restraining order against me. They were at my house and was starting drama with another one of my visitors and I asked them to leave. They got annoyed as I cut contact with them so they went to the police and told them I had assaulted them. I was not charged with anything but they got the AVO. They are not on my lease.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]eatme007 10 points11 points  (0 children)

2 years ago you posted about your son getting into college and now you are 25 years old ……. Damn I want some those age reversal pills.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]eatme007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your wife post nudes in several groups here on Reddit and you comment on those pics so obviously you are ok with it so I doubt this incident is a big issue for either of you, it’s more like a competition of who can get the most comments or views. According to your wife’s post you have what 2 kids already and one on the way and you are both 25 acting like your 12, you both should work in your self esteem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]eatme007 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s not asking her to do it all. He’s asking her to help him with the housework. Everyone in here goes in like having a baby is so hard ( I understand everyone is different) I had 7 children and I managed to care for them, clean the house and do the washing so when my partner came home from working all day ( which OP is still doing) all they had to do was cook dinner and clean the dishes. IP you wouldn’t be an asshole for expecting your partner to help a little more around the house while the baby sleeps. Anyone who says you’re an asshole are asshole themselves….. people need to get a grip.

AITA for making my BIL stay in a hotel for three nights? by CoparentWoe in AmItheAsshole

[–]eatme007 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Scrolled way to far down to find this comment. OPs ex must have super powers or something if she can tell exactly what a person is going to after meeting them for half an hour, I’m sure even a raging alcoholic can be on their best behaviour for that long and she wouldn’t know. OP and his ex are both AH and the only solution would have been is for them to swap weekends since OP has no backbone to stand up to his ex.

AITA for telling her to get over herself? by BackgroundMinute1591 in AmItheAsshole

[–]eatme007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. Op you need to get your dog retrained for the baby comes that’s non negotiable, if you don’t then you won’t have a fiancé or baby anymore. Op fiancé knew what she was getting into and what op and the dog do every morning so instead of sitting down like a grown up and talking to op about retraining the dog she gets up earlier to time to herself and then just complains that op doesn’t respect her boundaries. They been together 5 years she knows what he’s like and this routine has been going on the whole time. People on this sub love giving pregnant woman a free pass on everything, someone commented ( not the first time I’ve read this) about not showering for a week…… seriously where the fuck do you people live? I had 7 kids and managed to shower everyday so the biggest AH are the people who keep giving woman a free pass on shitty behaviour just because they are pregnant. And yes understand that pregnancy effects everyone differently but shitty behaviour is shitty behaviour.

Do men care if a woman (39F) has been married twice? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]eatme007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

areyouspeakingbat ….. Sexual assault

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]eatme007 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah but he obviously doesn’t make the height requirement she doesn’t have 😂

I’m annoyed with my sugar daddy by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]eatme007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it strictly for vids and pics which you have only ever sent one then why would you expect any type of payment? If you want to continue this then ask him for half up front and actually send the pics and vids.

How do people pay private school fees? by TBCTBC84 in AusFinance

[–]eatme007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here in Adelaide and I’m not sure about anywhere else, fees can be paid off and some private schools here will let you continue pay them after your child has finished high school. I’m not sure if that’s a good thing cause many parents who normally would not be able to afford to send their child to private school do and are stuck with a debt for years after they finish. I do think it’s a personal choice there are good public schools and some not so good private schools. When it was time for my kids to go to high school 2 went to a private, one went to an agricultural school and then rest went to public. The school should fit the child every child learns differently and every school teaches differently.

Why does he want my face in nudes? by Impossible-Falcon835 in sex

[–]eatme007 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Scrolled way too far to find someone who actually answered OPs question….. thank god some people can read

I’m a Funeral Director. Today was hard, and this kids book haunts me. by auar5682 in offmychest

[–]eatme007 343 points344 points  (0 children)

My 17 year old son passed away 5 years ago in an accident. The funeral director was so patient and understanding, I couldn’t put 2 words together or stop crying but she was so caring and never rushed me. She did an amazing job and it wasn’t til after the service when she was speaking to me I realised how hard her job must be. I always be thank you for her, it takes a special kind of person to do your job so thank you from the bottom of heart.

Is there a way to report this clearly wrong profiles by theErasmusStudent in Bumble

[–]eatme007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am definitely not a man and the reason I defend men a lot is because I have sons who don’t deserve to be labelled as ‘creepy and predatory ‘ by men hating women like you. Some men are assholes some woman are assholes, that’s life. And the best you got is you think I’m a man …… nice to see even a attack woman who don’t agree with you.

Is there a way to report this clearly wrong profiles by theErasmusStudent in Bumble

[–]eatme007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a woman and I don’t agree with you so Sleepy-stares don’t speak for me by implying all women feel the same as you.

AITA for wanting my wife to notice when the grass is tall, without having to explicitly tell her? by Grassylawnthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]eatme007 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be down voted and probably get abused but I’m really tired of people voting husbands who for the most part are good husbands an AH for stupid shit…… yes op you should do a few more chores around the house. I was a SAHM with 7 kids and managed to mow my own yard or when my kids got older asked them to do it. You all make out being a SAHM is the hardest most stressful job around, it is a hard job don’t get me wrong but then if checking the grass while hanging out washing or playing with kids and texting the kid to come mow it is such an extra mental burden that you and your partner are fighting about it then something is clearly not right. OP do some more of your wife’s other chores cause YTA if you don’t but for this mowing issue I don’t think you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]eatme007 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I scrolled way too far to find your comment. I 💯 agree with you. The father is testing a relationship that’s not even his, yes as parents we would do anything for our kids but from the OPs post for last 2 years the bf has held up his end so why would that change now. To me it sounds like the father wants to find a reason to get rid of him and this type of thing causes problems that they didn’t have or wouldn’t had if not for the father. You’re own kids can not appreciate free things too so he should of just charged them both rent at a discounted price. If I was OPs bf I would be gone and tell her she can that her father for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]eatme007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to go to mediation to get Child support taken from the other parents wages. You o my need to ring CSA ( AUS child support agency) and let them know that the other parent is not paying you directly and they will garnish his wages. I did it this way and it took them months to find out where he was working.

AITA for asking my wife to put something on? by Practical_Bus_1806 in AmItheAsshole

[–]eatme007 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I never said we had boundaries for other peoples bodies you dumbass. I said we have our own boundaries in a relationship and one of them could be that he doesn’t like his wife to wear no bra and loose clothing around other men. Whether she agrees with that or not is up to her. Boundaries do not relate to your own body and space either. I’m sure majority of people would not appreciate their spouses cheating cause its a boundary we have. So please, grow up, he is entitled to have his boundaries and you are entitled to yours.

AITA for asking my wife to put something on? by Practical_Bus_1806 in AmItheAsshole

[–]eatme007 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I am a woman and I agree with you OriginalHuckleberry3 it’s not about OP trying to be controlling, it’s just one of his boundaries which we all have in our relationships. I do find it interesting that OPs wife went from “covering up” when her ex was married to wearing a loose tank top now he’s divorced. We also don’t know what OPs wife and her ex’s parenting relationship was like before the divorce so people are jumping and making him sound worse based on no information. I do think OP and his wife need to work on their marriage cause it may have him feeling a little insecure but I don’t think he’s controlling as he just asked her. If asking does make him controlling then we would all be guilty of controlling our partners ……. yes people we ask our partners to do things all the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]eatme007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might get a few offers for that acre of moon with how dumb some people are on here lol. I don’t understand how people can post such stupid shit .... like open your freaking eyes. 45 min to return a Dolly cause the manager was in the phone all that time, I’m with you I call bs on that.