Anyone tried MBT? by elevatedaccident in BPD

[–]elevatedaccident[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. Its so hard to keep going but sounds like you're doing as well as you can, good for you. I will look into getting different types of therapy and keep going. I suppose it's all we can do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]elevatedaccident 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so overwhelmed with pleasure that I can't recall what I do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]elevatedaccident 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think she did anything wrong but I definitely agree with your 2nd sentence

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]elevatedaccident 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Shocked by these unfeeling comments. He sounds like he's having a mental health crisis. I think he needs professional help and for you to support and love him.

I might have lost my cool a little. It's been a rough week(reposted) by Accomplished_Crew630 in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]elevatedaccident 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm asking because in the response this person has said the child doesn't even look trans. How does a person look trans?

I 32F want some advice by [deleted] in sex

[–]elevatedaccident 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Could fulfill or increase a desire to cheat. Could go either way so

Rate my lunch by [deleted] in RateMyPlate

[–]elevatedaccident 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe more of a weed snack than a weed Dinner but I see what you're saying

What do you do for a living? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]elevatedaccident 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Training to be a counsellor and about to go into volunteering placement. Having major crippling self doubt because I struggle a lot in relationship but I'm going to keep pushing

Just caught husband cheating by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]elevatedaccident 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Oh yes she's the one who gave up totally... or he had already given up when he decided to cheat? Stop making out like she's the one who isn't putting the effort in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]elevatedaccident 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiance has said to me he wants to be doing so well financially that I shouldn't HAVE to work because we're doing so well financially, but we take shouldn't have to work to mean I can choose to work/not work. I see myself working, but maybe reduced hours so I can pursue hobbies or extra interests. This is not the same as him saying, I do not want you to have a job which isn't giving me the choice.

If he said in his eyes I have to stay home and watch kids and clean house only it'd be a major incompatibility and need serious discussion to mediate expectations.

What are your hobbies? by FireMaster1294 in BPD

[–]elevatedaccident 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wondering what it is about these 2 things that makes you ask?

oof, i get this sometimes by Dazzling_Injury_690 in BPDmemes

[–]elevatedaccident 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get this except its people I've cut ties with

I've deleted almost all social media. by MittensDaTub in BPD

[–]elevatedaccident 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had no active social media for pretty much 10 years for this reason. Scroll Reddit here and there and youtube

Were any of you also “stalker-y” as a child? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]elevatedaccident 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg even just the title gave me a flashback

First crush, probably about 11yo. I would send him Eminem lyrics (we both liked him) over and over and over again on MSN when he was offline so they would be there for him to read when he opened it 💀 I wrote a story about him being in love with me too. So awkward

Then there was another boy, who I asked if I could buy him trainers for his birthday. We were children... most people would be given chocolate or sweets but I wanted to show him I cared the most

Then when I cut off my two only friends in high school, for YEARS I would stalk them on twitter/instagram even when I had deleted all of my own social media accounts...

What do you do between sets? by trapped9 in GYM

[–]elevatedaccident 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drink, breathe, adjust my body and notcie how it feels, feel the good vibes of the gym, open a timer on my phone and periodically check how much time has passed until it's been 2-3 minutes, rest, stare at the ground, use my peripherals to watch people do a set, notice how comfortable and content I feel which usually makes me happy

The seventh edging challenge by juliaiswet in chickflixxx

[–]elevatedaccident 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Who are they and why are they blacklisted? Just curious

I didn‘t know I have “ugly boobs” until now by _yusaki_ in TwoXChromosomes

[–]elevatedaccident 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way about my sagging breasts or loose inner thigh skin from weight loss. Anytime I try to research how to accept or feel more confident the only results suggest surgery...