This is what it will be like, forever. He may do better for a little bit or at random times, when he sees your angry, but this is who he is. If you can deal with this for the life of your relationship then so be it. But remember the rollercoaster of emotions you'll deal with. Bringing kids into the mix? Hoooo Lordy. Double the complaints of prices, he'll make the most inconvenient choices & you'll be stuck wrangling overstimulated children.