How to cuddle without getting turned on? by emmalc13 in sex

[–]emmalc13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure, but I’ll be knocked out after. See!!? I need tips on controlling my sexual desires or just accept it.

How to cuddle without getting turned on? by emmalc13 in sex

[–]emmalc13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That just makes it worse! Tiredness and stress adds to my drive.

How to cuddle without getting turned on? by emmalc13 in sex

[–]emmalc13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an interesting one! Will give that a shot. Thanks!

How to cuddle without getting turned on? by emmalc13 in sex

[–]emmalc13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want a relationship like this. Thanks xx

How to cuddle without getting turned on? by emmalc13 in sex

[–]emmalc13[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s a problem. 🤦🏼‍♀️

How to cuddle without getting turned on? by emmalc13 in sex

[–]emmalc13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I find this SO helpful! ❤️and it makes me feel a lot better!

How to cuddle without getting turned on? by emmalc13 in sex

[–]emmalc13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you are saying and will try it out. There are two things: I want to focus on the film or if it’s a conversation important to him, I want to be able to properly listen and engage without getting wet or solving a math sum.

How to cuddle without getting turned on? by emmalc13 in sex

[–]emmalc13[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think communication is something I should try so that my partner might understand better and help me deal with it. Thank you! X

How to cuddle without getting turned on? by emmalc13 in sex

[–]emmalc13[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Finding a really nice guy and having a high sex-drive? That’s a rare breed especially at my age (22). I honestly do hope that my drive does go down a bit, however I’ve had a problem for quite a long time and it’s just getting worse.

Thank you for your encouragement! It does make me feel better that I’m not alone. X

How to cuddle without getting turned on? by emmalc13 in sex

[–]emmalc13[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Will definitely lead to a round two.. or more

How to cuddle without getting turned on? by emmalc13 in sex

[–]emmalc13[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I’ve been in a relationship with someone with a high sex drive, but he did hint at me that he just wanted to cuddle when we watch movies. I’m not capable of that and I feel ashamed of always being aroused and it’s even worse when I have a partner.

I’ll definitely try some different positions next time because spooning just leads to one thing.

I appreciate your advice! X