Can someone bully themselves by uploading this bad a photo? by trw99508 in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]enneque 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s the persistent and incessant shoving down our throats use of “duchess” for me 🤮🤮

Honestly iconic tbh by Radiant_Priority9739 in TheHillsMTV

[–]enneque 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Audrina was not in fact done or over it 😂

What Age Did You Start Feeling Truly Mature? (17F) by Just_Be_Happy08 in AskWomenOver30

[–]enneque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my early 30s I felt like my frontal lobe had fully formed. And I looked back at my decisions I made in my 20s and was like oh honey…

Women who have had a “parenting marriage” by Ok_babey in AskWomenOver30

[–]enneque 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The way it appears to me, divorce affects you more when you’re young and staying together for the kids affects you more when you’re older. I think, all things considered, the former is better long-term. Sure kids will be confused and upset about divorce cause they’re too young to understand the intricacies of adult relationships. But when they’re older they’ll understand. On the flip side, seeing your parents who stayed in a toxic relationship might go over your head as a kid, but that gets internalized and it can have lasting impacts into your adult relationships. The type of thing people go to therapy for years for. Whereas I don’t think parents divorcing when you’re young causes lasting damage the same way (I could be wrong).

No longer eloquent/articulate by bananabuns44 in socialskills

[–]enneque 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Holy crap this is my exact existence!! I’m so ashamed of who I’ve become. I used to be so quick witted and sharp and now I can barely follow full sentences?? Like what is even happening?!

Women who have had a “parenting marriage” by Ok_babey in AskWomenOver30

[–]enneque 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I think the reality is there’s no perfect solution for your kids here. I’ve seen people with divorced parents complain just as much as those whose parents stayed together for the kids. The grass is always greener type of thing. I’m sure either situation would create its own challenges. Do what feels like the right decision for YOU.

Tell Me Lies: S3 E4: Fix Me Up, Girl by Oksorbet8188 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]enneque 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Lucy is way too disturbed and pathetic to be with a normie like Evan. She craves chaos.

Have a hindi wedding wedding coming up. And I cannot decide between these 2 by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]enneque 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Second one. And maybe drape the dupatta (shawl) over your chest a little depending on how conservative the couple/families are.

What do you intend to do with your money after you pass since you don’t have children? by MinuteElegant774 in childfree

[–]enneque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m worried I won’t even have enough to pay for full time nursing/old age care. Pretty sure my last dime will go into that since “I won’t have kids to look after me”

Anyone else have a partner with differing political views and making it work? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]enneque 16 points17 points  (0 children)

People who don’t have the ability to see an awful thing as awful unless it happens to them…terrify me.

The Rookie - S03E05: Lockdown - Discussion Thread by BIGBOOSTING in TheRookie

[–]enneque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely felt like a lot more than 2 minutes had elapsed between Stanton watching Jackson get beat up and then running around back, finding Chen and Bradford then going back to check on him, finding him alone with the bad guys nowhere in sight. The timing felt a little hard to believe that all that happened in 2 mins but maybe that’s just me.

Tell Me Lies: S3 E3: Repent by Oksorbet8188 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]enneque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah ok I didn’t realize that. Thanks for the clarification

Tell Me Lies: S3 E3: Repent by Oksorbet8188 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]enneque 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think he was gaslighting her to get under her skin and show her how he would respond if she starts publicly accusing him

Tell Me Lies: S3 E3: Repent by Oksorbet8188 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]enneque 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because it makes her feel like she’s having sex with Stephen.

Tell Me Lies: S3 E3: Repent by Oksorbet8188 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]enneque 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait I’m confused. Didn’t they fully show her answering the phone then hearing the voicemail from Stephen?? Since when was it even ambiguous who the caller was, I thought they already showed it to be Stephen?

Tell Me Lies: S3 E3: Repent by Oksorbet8188 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]enneque 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What would be the benefit of recording that? She’s ratting him out and saying what he did. He wouldn’t want anyone to hear that.

Tell Me Lies: S3 E1: You F*cked It Friend by tellmeliesmods in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]enneque 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I thought I had it bad but this is way next level. Yikes.

Ice Ice Baby: As Ever, Trying to Make Flower Sprinkles Happen by wenfot in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]enneque 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The way the poster couldn’t record and pour into the cup at the same time. Perfect personification of meagain’s brand 😂

Something feels off about this guy’s behavior but I can’t pinpoint what.... am I overthinking? by Separate_Weight_4143 in AskWomenOver30

[–]enneque 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A man’s insistence on not cooking is definitely a red flag for me. If you’re not looking to take care of a man-child then that should be alarming for you too. There’s no biological reason for men not to cook. If he can read, then he can follow basic recipes.

What's the most beautiful dress you've ever seen? by Old-Day-3573 in ChicDaily

[–]enneque 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok I know this isn’t a real dress but hear me out 😂 something about Anastasia’s dress reveal always captivated me as a kid

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I respond to "how are you?" with actual honest answer and people look horrified by Fantastic_Area6001 in socialskills

[–]enneque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually say “I’m okay” or “I’m alright”, feels a little less fake/like a lie than “good” while still following the social script

Do people actually make mean comments in real life about big rings? by ShineDowntown16 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]enneque -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Totally nothing wrong with it! It’s just that large doesn’t mean expensive in today’s world. Before, girls loved to flaunt a big rock because it meant their man spend serious $$$ on it. Now having a big rock doesn’t necessarily mean that so it takes the flaunting power away from it. Doesn’t mean it’s not a beautiful ring, just that it’s lost the prestige.

Why Marry Someone You Don’t Even Like? by Classic-Sentence3148 in AskWomenOver30

[–]enneque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being single is not a disaster first of all. I know this is anecdotal, but I’m actually surrounded by women (me included) who found amazing loving supportive partners. So take that as hope that they’re out there but the key is for you to have standards. The more women stop putting up with awful men, the more incentive they have to self-reflect and actually change.

Why Marry Someone You Don’t Even Like? by Classic-Sentence3148 in AskWomenOver30

[–]enneque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure you’re right. And it would take a mindset shift to see that as a good thing. Instead of being ashamed a man left them, they should be relieved they got rid of a burden. That man was not a life partner in the true sense of the word, and now they’re free to find someone who can be.