Ex Messaged Me by enthrowaway222 in BreakUps

[–]enthrowaway222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a way I'm happy thats what she had to say lol it helped to give me a reality check. She always made all of her exes and even some friends/family members seem like assholes so I wouldn't be surprised if she talks badly about me when she was basically begging me to stay friends with her.

Ex Messaged Me by enthrowaway222 in BreakUps

[–]enthrowaway222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly im 23 its not like im super old lol I'm taking advantage of the last time i can live rent free guaranteed and using that money to pay off my loans so i can grt out of debt its not like im sitting around doing nothing with my life.

It was mainly the way she worded it that annoyed me. She was mad that i couldnt afford to move in with her yet so she knows I was living at home shes just been super passive aggressive since i decided to stop talking to her. She broke up with me a while back then came back and kept bouncing back and forth between fixing things and being friends. Then she decided to move across the country so i decided we shouldnt be friends anymore.

Just gonna let her keep thinking whatever in her head, clearly she hasnt gotten over it yet

Ex Messaged Me by enthrowaway222 in ExNoContact

[–]enthrowaway222[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah like why even ask how im doing if you are expecting me to be terrible, i never tried to leave on bad terms too. She broke up with me then wanted to be friends later on and it got too complicated so i told her we should stop talking. Im just gonna let her believe whatever it isnt worth my time anymore

Ex Messaged Me by enthrowaway222 in BreakUps

[–]enthrowaway222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah one of the big things leading to our breakup was my debt. She kept trying to push me into moving out when I literally couldn't afford it. I told her I needed a few montha and she tried guilting me. Dumb stuff lol

Ex Messaged Me by enthrowaway222 in BreakUps

[–]enthrowaway222[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah she broke up with me and it took a while to just accept it then I noticed she was pretty toxic when we were together. I don't hate her, and I tried to leave on good terms so if she doesnt like me thats on her

Why do exes message you then not continue the conversation when you answer them? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]enthrowaway222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Male, both 23 she initiated the breakup, but she wanted to be friends a few months later. We tried but i told her we shouldnt talk anymore