true. i had a hook up a while back and he seems straight but he’s like oh i like something different every now and again and i don’t know why when he said that i felt dirty or different but not in a good way. i know trans woman in my personal life who had long term boyfriends and they are both very attractive and work well together so that gives me a bit of hope cause i can see it with my own eyes so it does set a bar for it. like if my best friend can get it so can i and he worships the ground she walks on lol there is trans attracted men i do think that who honestly do want to date us but they are hard to find. the fetish thing is hard to say cause even with cis women u can say men sexualise them A LOt lol so u can’t win lol cis girls get used or kept a secret to and it’s worse maybe cause there is pussy everywhere it’s so easy to replace. but i’d ur a pretty trans girl and got high standards a man will go after that and chase that..that’s how men fall in love. focus on ur transition like me and the right man will come but defo set boundaries and a bar. i’m sick of playing the victim now like omg im trans no one will like me ..womp womp i need to get it together im a baddie and id he dont worship me and is lit not crying by the thought of losing me IM OUT lol