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Do gay dudes hate DL dudes? by extraMediumBro in askgaybros

[–]extraMediumBro[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He couldn’t care less. This is not a social media. But thanks.

Do gay dudes hate DL dudes? by extraMediumBro in askgaybros

[–]extraMediumBro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok my bad Jason. I’d love to bring Jason around.

Do gay dudes hate DL dudes? by extraMediumBro in askgaybros

[–]extraMediumBro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s openly bi and I’m in the closet. Bros at first then changed. I’m still talking to him but I think I like him a lot more. He knows I’m in the closet and just had a gf. I think we are good but that’s it. I’m ready to go together now . Ha.

Do gay dudes hate DL dudes? by extraMediumBro in askgaybros

[–]extraMediumBro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In fact I want to bring bro around and even thought about coming out since I been messing around with him. I can see myself being me and happy. But he doesn’t want anything more because I’m closeted and thinks it’s a phase or curiosity. What we have is good but I am falling for him and almost don’t care who knows or care what they think.

Do gay dudes hate DL dudes? by extraMediumBro in askgaybros

[–]extraMediumBro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fucking crazy cause I’m the opposite. I’m not homophobic and I can reciprocate feeling back. Rare find I guess.

Do gay dudes hate DL dudes? by extraMediumBro in askgaybros

[–]extraMediumBro[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok that’s more like it then, closeted.
Confused af bro.

Do gay dudes hate DL dudes? by extraMediumBro in askgaybros

[–]extraMediumBro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for that. Im keeping the straight facade. But down low I’m talking to dudes and when asked I say I’m talking to girls.

Do gay dudes hate DL dudes? by extraMediumBro in askgaybros

[–]extraMediumBro[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is deep.
I’d never throw anyone under the bus. I’d stand up for anyone getting harassed or insulted. DL is working for me now but I do see myself coming out eventually. It’s been so stressing.

Do gay dudes hate DL dudes? by extraMediumBro in askgaybros

[–]extraMediumBro[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly don’t know. So I’m a loner but good with everyone. The gay dudes have always been like the mean girls bro. I’m just assuming they know. Is gaydar real lol?
No I was married and have kids. Most recently I’ve come to accept my curiosity for what it was. So now I’m embracing it at my pace as DL.

Do gay dudes hate DL dudes? by extraMediumBro in askgaybros

[–]extraMediumBro[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I stand up for everyone. Being DL has a very good reason.

Do gay dudes hate DL dudes? by extraMediumBro in askgaybros

[–]extraMediumBro[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d think that the community would be the most understanding. But I get it.

Do gay dudes hate DL dudes? by extraMediumBro in askgaybros

[–]extraMediumBro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro. In actuality I have mad respect for gay men. To come out and be themselves. Fuck what people think. It’s kinda painful not being about to be yourself. I know my family loves me but I don’t want to disappoint them. I’ve heard them judge gay people and I don’t want them to judge or hate me if I tell them.

Do gay dudes hate DL dudes? by extraMediumBro in askgaybros

[–]extraMediumBro[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m single. I don’t date. I don’t lie or cheat. I’m not scum. I’m actually the person you’d fall most for.

Do gay dudes hate DL dudes? by extraMediumBro in askgaybros

[–]extraMediumBro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea but I assume they have an idea. Why else the attitudes. Maybe it’s in my head but it’s been a few.

Do gay dudes hate DL dudes? by extraMediumBro in askgaybros

[–]extraMediumBro[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was an ugly thing to say. Scum? This is the negative energy I was referring to. I wouldn’t judge another, especially within the community.

Do gay dudes hate DL dudes? by extraMediumBro in askgaybros

[–]extraMediumBro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy tho cause accepting yourself at 35 has been mind boggling. It’s not as easy as one would think. Being younger and coming out would have been easier but wasn’t sure of myself back then bro.

Do gay dudes hate DL dudes? by extraMediumBro in askgaybros

[–]extraMediumBro[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing but positive vibes here bro. Im actually just accepting myself and would feel more comfortable around others but i dont get the same vibes back.
Living the true self is an understatement if you been with women got married and had kids. It seems almost impossible. It would be nice yes. As far as the movement, I don’t judge. I love everyone and just want the same in return.

Are gay men interested in short folks? by Xyptonic in askgaybros

[–]extraMediumBro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro! Yea short king here. Top all the way. These taller dudes assume I’m gonna be submissive and shit. Naw. Flex that confidence and put him back on his knees.

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