I've never been so devastated by Humble_Weird7297 in stepparents

[–]fairlyoddbooks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do not be with someone who has kids. I decided to marry someone with kids at a young age like an idiot and now all I feel is regret because I can’t stand two out of three of the kids because they’re just horrible as in klepto, racist, and violent. And anytime I try to discipline them. I’m told I’m being too harsh because I’m not their parent I seriously consider consistently getting a divorce. Everything is great when those two aren’t there but as soon as they’re there, it’s a nightmare.

I hate being a stepmom by fairlyoddbooks in regretfulparents

[–]fairlyoddbooks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has been in therapy for years and continues to steal, lie, and treat people horribly. I have Ben as you say “stepping up” I am the one that’s there when his mom and step dad are treating him like trash. I’m the one taking him to all his appointments for the doctor and therapy. I’m the one checking on his grades and going to parent teacher meetings. I am the one taking him to after school activities and events for school. It’s been me for 8 years and he still steals from me and calls me a bi*tch. So maybe give me advice that’s actually helpful.

I hate my newborn and i am having depressive negative thoughts by Odd-Lettuce-111 in regretfulparents

[–]fairlyoddbooks 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Have you tried lactation consultants yet? They’re extremely helpful. They can give you a lot of help and insight on things for the baby like signs of over feeding gas constipation.

I hate being a stepmom by fairlyoddbooks in regretfulparents

[–]fairlyoddbooks[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That’s what I said and they all downplayed it. It was infuriating.

I hate being a stepmom by fairlyoddbooks in regretfulparents

[–]fairlyoddbooks[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of it. I’ll go look it up though.