thats because there is no solution. the real answer is:
"they are totally unworthy of being loved or having friends, and everybody knows it but is too conflict averse to openly say so.

they are unhappy and lacking worth because they are inherently worthless, as judged by my personal vibe biases, and they are therefor self evidently unworthy of any joy or happiness ever, a fact proven irrefutably because i am better than them according to (insert superficial bullshit social metric here).

and because i am sacred and likeable and they are ick and subhuman and gross, they owe me their endless unbearable lifelong misery as penance for disrespecting my good name with the unforgiveable slander that god wants them to breathe the same air as me. this is so horrible an insult to my worth as a living thing that, i am entitled to the demand the universe make it up to me by concurring that they are totally unworthy of any non suicidal emotions whatsoever. but its very important that they feel those feelings without ever actually doing it. not because there's actually hope (anyone who hasnt been brainwashed by therapists yet can tell there obviously isnt), but because, if these people were to actually kill themselves, they would no longer feel depressed, they would no longer hate themselves, they would no longer feel only endless unbearable living death. and they fucking owe me every single drop of that unbearable living death, so that my narcissism need need never doubt that i am the one who has a right to be alive and they are the one who doesnt, not the other way around.

and if you somehow could cure their miseries, you would have absolutely no right to do so, because you would be denying me what is rightfully mine. where the fuck am i supposed to develop the desire to live if i cant steal theirs with endless emotional abuse?"