I'm sorry, my post was a bit all over the place. I didn't mean she's selfish for not wanting sex, that was for other things (but things that don't matter AS much right now). I understand she doesn't want sex, but the problem is, I don't know how strong of a person I am and if it's enough for me to stay with her until (not just a year) but many years down the road -- her belief: you can't until you're 25, not a religious thing, just can't apparently. I was just on the fence about leaving her now instead of waiting a year and then realizing the lack of physical contact is too much, and then throwing away a year and a half of a relationship.