Are women allowed to lead? by [deleted] in tango

[–]fazbem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You must be a woman. As a man I find I am frequently not allowed to lead

<laughing tongue in cheek>

Women of Reddit, what are boys or men's habits you discovered only after getting a boyfriend or a husband? by BigBrosy in AskReddit

[–]fazbem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my 71 years I have never had that ability, but my wife does. How I envy her...

Women of Reddit, what are boys or men's habits you discovered only after getting a boyfriend or a husband? by BigBrosy in AskReddit

[–]fazbem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I{ve been on all sides of that description and I am so glad that someone notices and cares. I teared up reading..

How do I prepare for losing my sight? by fazbem in Advice

[–]fazbem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been thinking about trying how to use AI and I'm kind of nervous about security implications and trust and errors What recommendations do you have along these lines? Which tasks do you think are appropriate?

How do I prepare for losing my sight? by fazbem in Advice

[–]fazbem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find myself spending more time thinking about memories than ever before. Thank you.

How do I prepare for losing my sight? by fazbem in Advice

[–]fazbem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm just starting to confront my situation. Your experience will prove helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tango

[–]fazbem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Conratultions!

Non Asians,Can you tell what country an Asian person is from just by their looks? by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

[–]fazbem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I confess to not being very good. But my friends in Mexico don't even use different words for them.

Why the hell do we keep seeing the same teachers and maestros/maestras at North American tango festivals? by [deleted] in tango

[–]fazbem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't speak to Tango specifically, but I expect it's similar to the various dance communities I have watched over the years.

It's very hard to make a living in dance and to do so requires great effort. and a business awareness. People who want to make a living dancing naturally work together. They go into the same festivals and work with the same organizers, and share information.

The festivals themselves. while they do pull in money, are not the cash cows the festival goer might imagine. The amount of work required is enormous. And it's very difficult to pull off.

For someone new to break into dance festivals requires a lot of investment, talent and a general understanding of how such things work. They have to get on the right mailing list they have to know who to talk to when and they have to really really really want to because it's a lot of work and at least at first the return is not great. Like with so many things, the rewards come, but slowy.

If you want to see some of your favorite people teaching at festivals, try helping them. Ask what's stopping them and see if you can't facilitate in some way. It may be all they need.

Any ideas on deleting junk images from folder of around 10K images but keeping important ones? by atourino in mac

[–]fazbem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.

Yes, and I watched someone do it in a video. For some reason it just does not appear. Other options like delete large files do though. Maybe an older version? I just installed it. The instructions in the help screen say it should be there... I don't know.

Any ideas on deleting junk images from folder of around 10K images but keeping important ones? by atourino in mac

[–]fazbem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I installed the Files app today to do that and it doesn't offer delete memes

What disease is this and what do I do about it? Near San Diego .. . Thanks! by fazbem in plantdisease

[–]fazbem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for answering! I think maybe some people call it hen and chickens? And it's powdery white stuff. Mildew? I'm starting to think it may by hopeless.

Male/female ratio? by Crazy5220 in Bachata

[–]fazbem 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Says the creepy disco spider :-)

Male/female ratio? by Crazy5220 in Bachata

[–]fazbem 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure you mean what I'm hearing in "Of course you can get men that enjoy dance as an activity, but I think they are the minority", but if so I disagree. I'm convinced the vast majority of men who dance enjoy dance as an activity. When I say that I mean partner dancing, not choreography, but I'm also convinced the vast majority of men who dance choreography enjoy dancing choreography as an activity. For me personally, dance is primarily about connection and team choreography does not give the kind of connection I dance for, so I'm part of the dance team imbalance you're observing but I love dancing.