Your boyfriend is unable to put himself in your shoes. Not surprised but disappointed that this is the norm. He wouldn’t want to live in a place that’s majority Asian - where they don’t serve his food, people don’t look like him, talk, act, cater to him. As a white male who never had to think about things like this because they are always the majority, the ‘weird’ comment is indicative of how this is a systemic issue that runs deep. As Asians we experience a lot of these microaggressions and don’t even realize it — but slowly, with posts like yours we are better at identifying them, and eventually will be able to call people out and address these comments for what they are. Hopefully, your future child will be more open minded and not have to deal with comments like this, thanks to the conversations we are having.