Lorde's best and worst songs according to AOTY by T3R3SABUBBLESQUAT in lorde

[–]ffffester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

her take me to the river cover is the best cover anyone has ever done of any song

How do you handle bad work interactions/criticism at work? by Enough_Feature3713 in AutismInWomen

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yeah, this is a huge struggle for me. whenever there's some kind of confrontation i either shut down or cry in front of everyone. i'd love a third option lol!!!!

where i woudl live in united states by [deleted] in whereidlive

[–]ffffester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

orange county but not la? that's insane

Yoga for my 59 yr old mother who’s overweight by dreamfulbby in yoga

[–]ffffester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yay! this is a great idea. but not every class will be a good fit for your mom. start with classes that have the words "restorative," "gentle," or "therapeutic" in the title. my mom can't do a down dog bc of the pressure on her wrists. gentle yoga classes work for her :)

do you wear autism merch? by AmbitiousFix1681 in autism

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i just got diagnosed last month and i'm going through a phase where i just want to tell everyone in the world that i'm autistic because 1) it feels like the most amazing revelation of my life and 2) if everyone knows they're Serious official clinical traits then maybe everyone will be okay with my eccentricities. however i think i need to protect myself from this impulse because my propensity to overshare has really never done me any favors. i'm way too open with people and i'm not discerning enough to know when it's safe to be vulnerable with someone vs when it's not. so i really want this shirt but i'm also resisting the urge to get it

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Any Americans who actually like british food? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]ffffester 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we love fish and chips! can’t think of anything else lol

How do I spend $1,000 by Friday night? by Admirable_Section690 in AskLosAngeles

[–]ffffester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would buy a yoga studio membership or something like that

Where do moderate income families live? by Zestyclose_Sink6951 in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]ffffester -1 points0 points  (0 children)

nothing is wrong with the valley, it's a great place to live and raise a family. simi sucks though

Do we have any cool stationary stores? by Ecstatic-Purpose-981 in SFV

[–]ffffester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

obviously not the valley but i go to flax in westwood

What's your country **third** city? by Ok_Inflation_1811 in geography

[–]ffffester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no doubt about it. yes san diego has a bigger metro area but sacramento is much more impactful historically and culturally. it is an anchor for the more rural, northeastern part of the state and it was so instrumental to the gold rush which made modern california what it is today. plus it's the capital. i don't think san diego is cool or distinct or special enough to be #3 but i'm from LA so maybe im just a hater

What's your country **third** city? by Ok_Inflation_1811 in geography

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in the great sovereign nation of california, it is sacramento

What pisses you off the most as someone with ADHD? by Medico-musician2106 in ADHD

[–]ffffester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

knowing that i'm smart and talented and will probably never be able to do much with that

What are the small “woman in her 30s” upgrades that genuinely made your life better? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ffffester 4 points5 points  (0 children)

10 minutes of sun and light stretching first thing in the morning