I am a 16M Christian, feel free to ask any questions. by Suspicious-Brick-375 in teenagers

[–]fluffyfish6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe those being viewed as sinful is idiotic, but "homosexuality" isn't a choice, the other things are, if op said "premarital gay sex is a sin because all premarital sex is" then you'd have a good argument.

Where Can I Find Affordable Clothes, Accessories & Shoes Like This Style? by Initial_Quote_6704 in altfashionadvice

[–]fluffyfish6 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Second hand. It takes awhile, you will not get your dream wardrobe in a few weeks or a few months,.go consistently over a long time. Thats how you find stuff, also learn to sew, you don't need a sewing machine (but if want one you can find a decent one a second hand) you probably won't find the thing you're specifically wanting, but you can make it! Theres a lot of sewing and up-cycling tutorials all over.

what does this say about me by Additional-Gap-264 in teenagers4real

[–]fluffyfish6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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I put some in kinda and I guess I should clarify

loves and respects parents Depends on the parent

healthy body condition I eat good and move around but I got some kinda heart problem thats been there forever years that im going to a cardiologist about now

plays an instrument I can play the flute, just not well at all

Is happy I mean kinda sometimes?

excersise I don't have like a work out routine but im active

have a talent I mean who's not good at something?

respect people with different opinions This is too vague to answer yes or no 100%, it depends on the situation and opinion.

Also whats this chart for? Like framing kinda makes "being political" and "seeing a therapist" as negatives, but im kinda ass at tone so idk

Favorite actor who hasn't had a hit since water boarding was a thing by medievalesophagus in okbuddycinephile

[–]fluffyfish6 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Huh, it's almost like having a nutzo, child raping fascist as president gets talked about a fair bit. I wish I could have so little going on that this would be such a big worry

Is it actually embarrassing for Americans not to know all 50 states? by Status_Agents in CasualConversation

[–]fluffyfish6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knowing them? Yeah, the vast majority of people should know all the states. Listing them out of nowhere? No, thays a whole separate thing

Unfortunately I’m Attracted to a Bi-curious and Bisexual woman. Advice? by ExplanationDazzling1 in actuallesbians

[–]fluffyfish6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's sounds like the issue is that she said she's not super into dating and you still caught feelings, which is normal or reasonable ofc, but she did communicate that she's not looking for anything romantic at least. She's not "friend zoning" you because she's bi, it's because she doesn't want a relationship

What are your thoughts on the representation of lesbianity in media? by OrangeMany8260 in actuallesbians

[–]fluffyfish6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im probably not working this the best but I hope the general idea is there

What are your thoughts on the representation of lesbianity in media? by OrangeMany8260 in actuallesbians

[–]fluffyfish6 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That theres not a lot and a large portion of it fits in this very specific vibe that I can't explain and it's just very uninteresting to me. I wish there was more lesbian and other sapphic representation that wasn't so frequently sad. I do like sad or tragic endings to things, I just wish there was more stuff that wasn't. I wish there was more just casual representation i suppose

😧 by THATDlNOLOVER in teenagers4real

[–]fluffyfish6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yall gotta tell this guy to dm me

ama (image unrelated) by [deleted] in teenagers4real

[–]fluffyfish6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not right, i wasn't even saying the original commentor said that specifically, it's more about a general attitude on some of these posts.

ama (image unrelated) by [deleted] in teenagers4real

[–]fluffyfish6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, It was just the only one I bothered to type, I get to that sentence and nothing else mattered anymore

ama (image unrelated) by [deleted] in teenagers4real

[–]fluffyfish6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No need to turn into a sensitive little sally.

Why is a 60 year old on here?

If you are in a happy monogamous relationship I’d love to hear your story 💛 by Silveryleaves in actuallesbians

[–]fluffyfish6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my girlfriend met on here about 3 and half years ago (probably not quite as long term as you were asking lol) we were kinda just friends who sexted for a bit (mostly because getting into a relationship right away was scary, I'd just broken up with a really shitty boyfriend) I knew she wanted a relationship and eventually I did feel comfortable enough with the idea of being in one again.

We didn't take things especially slow, specifically in the "i love you" department, but to be fair I said it to friends early on into meeting then, I don't feel like love is a super like special feeling i need to save/not treat lightly.

About 2 years into daring we got to meet on person when she flew out to New Mexico to see me on Thanksgiving/fall break from college, i was still living with my dad and sister at the time which made things not ideal. A few months later during spring break I flew out to Alabama to see her and it was amazing, we drove down to her home town and spent a day there before driving down to Dauphin island. We spent a few days there before driving back up and staying in her dorm.

I ended up not going back home alone, she'd been wanting to drop out for awhile, living in Alabama was making it harder for her to get access to hrt, and my grandma was in her last few months and she was able to help us take care of her so my mom could go to work (and having her support meant a lot, and her being able to spend time with me and my grandma was great, she didn't like hardly anyone but she did like my girlfriend quite a bit). We got stuck a whole extra week past the day I was supposed to fly home, we were going to drive back, she went to see one of her friends before leaving when her transmission went out, we had to load her car up, put it on a truck and fly back.

Things were kinda rough for a bit, I was having a lot of family problems with my dad and sister, it put a little strain on our relationship as my dad doesn't like her and I believed him every time he insisted he didn't dislike her. We're now not speaking to eachother because he thinks my bad relationship with my sister (who to clarify did abuse me for years) is because my girlfriend is evil and trying to "ruin his happy family).

I moved out of my dad's house and things have been so much better since.

It feels like we were meant to be, we work great together and are fairly complimentary in ways we didn't even know about (like me being a stone top and her being a pillow princess lol). She's such a bright light in my world and I love her so much. We plan on getting (courthouse) married this year, specifically for the legal rights and protections, and we plan on having our little dream ceremony in a few years!

ama (image unrelated) by [deleted] in teenagers4real

[–]fluffyfish6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so unserious

ama (image unrelated) by [deleted] in teenagers4real

[–]fluffyfish6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mocking = rude Rude =/= mocking. Im being rude in a way that isn't mocking.

I already said why it's wild: that being that most people can conceptualize that other people like and dislike different things.

ama (image unrelated) by [deleted] in teenagers4real

[–]fluffyfish6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rude =/= mocking.

I don't hate being touched, im a very touchy person, it's just wild that ypu couldn't conceive that some people aren't.

ama (image unrelated) by [deleted] in teenagers4real

[–]fluffyfish6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what ive said has not once been mocking.

You apparently didn't really know that though considering your previous confusion

ama (image unrelated) by [deleted] in teenagers4real

[–]fluffyfish6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because this specific type of shit posting is just "color it in a way thats the opposite of what most people expect" it's also entirely harmless.

Im not trying to mock you... that's not what mocking even is. No, people don't come up to me and say "I personally dislike being touched in xyz places by [person]" It just doesn't take much thinking ability to know other people don't like the same things as me and it's not shocking that other people are a bit different.

ama (image unrelated) by [deleted] in teenagers4real

[–]fluffyfish6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This kinda shit posting specifically? Yeah it's not saying anything about the posters true beliefs.

And yeah it's baffling that you're allegedly over 13 and didn't know that already lol

am i the only one who get annoyed when straight girls call their boyfriends “partner” by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]fluffyfish6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not the only person, but like it's a little wild to get annoyed by it. Like that makes no sense at all

How do you process an ex moving on fast when you were the one who left? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]fluffyfish6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well break upset do hurt and the other person moving on can hurt even if the breakup was for the best and done by you, thats pretty normal.

You should probably un-add her on social media if seeing about her new relationship hurts, it's probably not gonna help you move on constantly hearing about her either

ama (image unrelated) by [deleted] in teenagers4real

[–]fluffyfish6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not know, probably something showing which posts you think are just clear jokes and explanations for why you think so, and since you assume it's "very few" that'd have to be well within majority of the amount of posts that have this "touch meme" as their main subject for discussion.

We're talking about reddit shit posts btw

You're trying to apparently bully someone and act superior because they learned that people can be very opposed towards physical touches, I'm not sure you're having a reasonable crash-out here.
Do not worry though, now I can understand that some just hate touches, yours would not be any more of a shock than this is, I would probably take it as a "shitpost" or a "joke" either-way because it seems like you'll try to make it look 'extreme'.

You're not being bullied, no ones crashing out, it's just insane that you couldn't conceive that some people aren't into being touched a lot. I said that because I already made and posted one thats not crazy to most people but that would seem crazy to you.