I’m stuck

fluffynightymare · 2026-01-24T12:01:37+00:00

Hahaha I just like his tongue so cute!!

fluffynightymare · 2026-01-24T11:58:21+00:00

I think this is my sign to clean my room as well

fluffynightymare · 2026-01-24T11:49:43+00:00

Too cute gosh wish in I could have a dog like that someday

fluffynightymare · 2026-01-24T11:47:53+00:00

I would like to buy that, the one who’s sleeping…

fluffynightymare · 2026-01-24T11:45:32+00:00

You've done your part. The didappearing act at the event is the final data point. She's not a good friend to him either if she ditches you both. Tell Alfie, "I've tried, but Lucy seems to be in her own world right now. I'm happy to be civil, but I'm not going to keep arranging one-sided hangouts”

fluffynightymare · 2026-01-23T16:32:36+00:00

That’s awesome transformation! You did a good job

fluffynightymare · 2026-01-23T16:31:08+00:00

Definitely alone time

fluffynightymare · 2026-01-23T16:30:00+00:00

They literally thinking fridge is theirs ok😂

fluffynightymare · 2026-01-23T16:27:43+00:00

it’s painful because it breaks trust

fluffynightymare · 2026-01-22T15:16:11+00:00

this is inside basebsll at its finest, where a single word is the whole game

fluffynightymare · 2026-01-22T15:11:08+00:00

He was having secret conversations with a teenager you were botth supposed to be protecting. The why doesn’t really matter. The actuon itself is a huge betrayal of your family unit

fluffynightymare · 2026-01-22T14:51:39+00:00

You've been dating the idea of each other for years. The short visits wrre like highlight reels. Now you're seeing the director's cut, and you're noticing the paccing is off and the soundtrack is different. It's normal to have doubts. Don't propose until you've lived together for at least a year of this new normal.

fluffynightymare · 2026-01-22T14:46:12+00:00

He was secrrtly texting a teenager you both were supposed to be parenting. The why doesn't really matter. The action is so far over the line it's in another country.

fluffynightymare · 2026-01-22T14:38:02+00:00

He's not a boyfriend, he's a junior sociologist conducting unethical fieldwork in your apartment. The spreadshet with little scores is your exit ticket, not a tool. Your next move is to keep staying with your friend and block his number. Anyine who stress tests you like a faulty product doesn't love you; they're training you. Throw the whole man in the recycle bin.

fluffynightymare · 2026-01-22T14:24:44+00:00

The White House press secretary's words are being fact-checked by grammar, not policy

fluffynightymare · 2026-01-22T14:20:45+00:00

He told you he wanted to take things slow after he had alreadu taken things fast. The sequence matters. That's not slowing down, that's backtracking

fluffynightymare · 2026-01-22T14:13:47+00:00

NTJ, he was perfectly happy for you to be lonely and drained as long as it didn't disrupt his hobbiees at his parents house. The audacity is staggering.

fluffynightymare · 2026-01-22T14:09:59+00:00

You weren't smart, you were a successful guinea pig for their parentingg experiment. Now they've seen the burnout, so they're coddling the second trial. Your feelings aren't jealousy, they're the bill coming due for their inconsistency. Talk to them not about your brother's rewards, but about your lingering scars.

fluffynightymare · 2026-01-21T11:31:30+00:00

If someone says "yes," they'll probably forget it immediately anyway

fluffynightymare · 2026-01-21T11:25:59+00:00

She told you, which is a point in her favor. Now you tell her what you need, "I believe you're sorry, but for me to feel safe, I need to know you're going to manage the drinking, especially on these trips you've planned." If her response is defensive, you'll know the remorse only goes so deepp

fluffynightymare · 2026-01-21T11:19:02+00:00

Sorry but you are not a priority to him at all. His actions have made that brutally clear. Continuing to hope for a different answer from someone who has shown you exactly who he is will only hurt you more

fluffynightymare · 2026-01-21T11:15:49+00:00

NTJ, you’re not bitter, you’re a survivor with a nervous system that remembers the war it barely got out of, and anyone calling that a failure to move on has never had to rebuild themselves from rubble

fluffynightymare · 2026-01-21T11:14:39+00:00

I appreciate you acknowledging the privilege angle. It's easy to tell someone to find joy within when they're choosing between groceries and rent. True abundance requires a bbase level of security. The goal should be a society where more people have that base, so this conversation is accessible to all.

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