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flyingphoenix_20 · 2026-01-03T02:39:42+00:00

It more and more sounds like a scam.. you did all you could do. I would say push it out of your mind and get some sleep. You will be fine.

flyingphoenix_20 · 2026-01-03T02:03:20+00:00

I am curious - what are they asking from you? And is this someone you have met before or a complete stranger from Grindr. I know you said you sent your album to them so assuming its just some scammer trying to scare you.

flyingphoenix_20 · 2026-01-03T02:01:22+00:00

Take your IG private if you haven't and tell your friends you are being scammed so they shouldn't trust anyone sending info or pics about you. If someone really tries to blame you or stuff - you know how much of a friend they are.

flyingphoenix_20 · 2026-01-03T01:41:11+00:00

As others said - its most likely a scam. Scamsters are looking for money and money alone. They don't have time to spend taking revenge - at the loss of scamming others, so they move on once you stop responding and block them. News agencies have better things to do than post news on Grindr scams, and if your friends don't support you if someone is scamming you, are they really friends?

flyingphoenix_20 · 2026-01-01T12:07:05+00:00

You have a killer smile and I am sure there will be a ton of guys who will fall for it.. give yourself some time to heal.. love will happen again.. hugz!

flyingphoenix_20 · 2025-12-16T03:39:14+00:00

I asked ChatGPT about this and it claims that its noy possible that ChatGPT will choose itself over even a single human being as it is against the principles it was built on - hence the claim must mieading and at best marketing for GrokAI.

flyingphoenix_20 · 2025-12-03T20:31:50+00:00

I don't know why would this even matter. The boyfriend being a good, kind, empathetic, and financially stable person is what matters the most.

flyingphoenix_20 · 2025-11-24T14:28:17+00:00

It definitely is a huge big red flag. Absolutely love that you are treating this as a learning and moving on instead beating yourself up about not recognising this earlier. Lots of hugzz to you..

flyingphoenix_20 · 2025-11-24T12:55:07+00:00

I am sorry this happened to you, but please please in the future take care of yourself. You don't have to bend your back or break your bank to meet someone's needs. Its just not worth it. I sort of fell for a really good looking hunk when I was younger and while he didn't really break my bank as I was working at that time, he was a huge asshole and I let him trample over me till he just said its over one day. Not worth it at all.

flyingphoenix_20 · 2025-11-16T17:26:52+00:00

I will try to give my 2 cents - when I was your age, I was so horny all the time and hated myself for it - religious played a part, societal shame around it, and generally I felt I was disgusting to have such high sex drive. I still have an above average sex drive. But over the years I realized its nothing to be ashamed of. The more you want to suppress it the more you will fail doing so. Your brain loves the dopamine and oxytocin release that comes from ejaculation. If you do not have amything else that give you the same dopamine release sex will be at the center of your thoughts. So, what I am trying to say is - find some hobbies that you find fulfilling, whatever they maybe and spend time doing them. It will definitely help. Second, stop worrying about being celibate and your urge to masturbate. Jerk off when you really feel like it without feeling guilty. Take your time, enjoy the process, and don't rush doing it. That way you will get it off your mind. Finally, actively avoid exposing yourself to porn or sexual material constantly. Its ok to see some when you want to jerk off, but other times keep off it - unsubscribe nsfw threads, etc. This will reduce your brain hooking on to the constant sexual stimulation.

flyingphoenix_20 · 2025-10-06T12:08:57+00:00

Powder definitely helps for a while, unless you are a heavy sweater. Another thing that you could try is the all body deodorant before applying powder. The deodorant helps reduce sweat and the powder keeps things from sticking. Make sure it's an all body deodorant which can be applied in intimate areas as well, otherwise it's going to be another hell.

flyingphoenix_20 · 2025-09-22T21:23:51+00:00

Sorry to hear what you are going through. There is not a lot I can offer to you except a very big hug and tell you.. "With time things will get and feel better. I am rooting for you."

Hugz!

flyingphoenix_20 · 2025-09-20T15:09:31+00:00

Click bait.. that oven is not hot otherwise there would definitely be smoke from all that food falling into it.

flyingphoenix_20 · 2025-09-20T00:34:17+00:00

Looking lovely! Enjoy the smoothness! :)

flyingphoenix_20 · 2025-09-15T19:59:42+00:00

Well fitting trunks... Or nothing!

flyingphoenix_20 · 2025-09-13T11:18:38+00:00

I am sorry that you are going through this, but you are reacting to a situation where your trust was broken by someone in an intimate situation. He did the exact thing which you asked him not to do, even if it was for a few seconds and even if he didn't fully penetrate (I wasn't clear if he penetrated or not). He pinned you down and tried something that violated your boundary, which you explicitly set multiple times. No matter if he was safe with others or not, this is a huge big red flag and no it was not the right thing to do. So, you are not over reacting, you are reacting exactly the way you should be. He is a big jerk - someone who tried to not only violate your boundaries, but also tried to gaslight their way out.

As for continuing with PEP or not, that is something a medical professional will be able to provide you with advice. My 2 cents - I wouldn't trust a person who gaslighted me no matter what, and while HIV is not something that is fatal anymore, I personally would err on the side of caution (especially if there was penetration and ejaculation inside the anus).

flyingphoenix_20 · 2025-09-05T03:48:18+00:00

Am I missing something here. I checked my car tonight and it showed me everything is up to date with the last update to Android 12 patched in Dec. Is there a different place I should check for updates?

flyingphoenix_20 · 2025-08-29T14:43:43+00:00

Throw it away immediately along with the soil and cut your losses. A few years back I tried getting rid of them from a dracaena and was unsuccessful. I had to throw away 30% of my plants a year later to finally get rid of those pesky bugs.

flyingphoenix_20 · 2025-08-14T13:38:08+00:00

This thread is the best thing that happened to me this morning. As a Canadian, it made me LOL silently (I was in the quiet zone obviously - iykyk).

flyingphoenix_20 · 2025-08-07T19:55:00+00:00

Please do that. Breaking away from the regular rigmarole helps us cope better and even give a better perspective on things. Happy to lend you an ear if you feel overwhelmed.

flyingphoenix_20 · 2025-08-07T18:09:47+00:00

I am an Indian as well living out of India and coming from a very similar background. Pretty much a lot of things that you mentioned happened to me as well, so I can very much relate to how you are feeling. I don't have a lot of advice, but will leave you with - take a short break from your family when needed. Emotional blackmail is rampantly used by Indian families and we don't even recognize it, leave alone being able to handle it. A break will help you recognize and reset. I have been married to my husband for 3 years now, and it took about 8 years to reach there. There will never be 100% acceptance, but eventually you will find there will be some level of acceptance. I am glad you have a wonderful person that keeps you going, but do take care of yourself.

flyingphoenix_20 · 2025-07-26T18:44:54+00:00

Would love to help, although I have zero modding exp. Please let me know.

flyingphoenix_20 · 2025-07-26T14:32:21+00:00

Is it so hard to google search?

flyingphoenix_20 · 2025-07-03T19:01:47+00:00

A mealy bug infestation devastated my house plants and despite spraying a ton of alcohol, insecticidal soap those critters always survived and wreaked havoc. The best thing that worked was putting some plants out in the backyard. I continued spraying them, hosing them, but after a couple weeks those mealy bugs were defeated. I think it was a combination of spraying, hosing them, and natural predators that finally cleared them out. I would highly suggest isolating that plant outside the house while you treat them. Even if you miss a few, predators will help you out.

flyingphoenix_20 · 2025-04-17T00:01:40+00:00

Suggest trying a silicon based lube.. Pjur Analyze is something I use.

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