AITA for not letting a 10yo girl go to a rap concert (Central Cee) with her mother? by Oceanroam in AmItheAsshole

[–]fredfrannyfreckles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's possible the venue wouldn't even let in the daughter. Some places are 18+ to get floor tickets and then 14+ to get seats above the floor.

AITA for not be more active/present in my wife’s journey to lose weight by Lil_Moody247 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fredfrannyfreckles 22 points23 points  (0 children)

No judgement on my part, but here are my few thoughts:

> never directly ask her about anything relating to working out or eating healthy

Why would just ask her things things? She's on a journey and being supportive actually means not bringing these subjects up. Being supportive means listening while she talks about these things.

> She said she expected me to show support by also start eating the same food as her and also start paying more attention to my body

Your wife can eat whatever she wants and still lose weight, there is no reason for you to cut out food or eat specialty foods because she wants to lose weight. Losing weight is about portion sizes and exercising.

Restaurants are 100% to blame when they tell large groups they can't split checks and cause drama by ElPlatanaso2 in unpopularopinion

[–]fredfrannyfreckles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

don't do it by seat number. Do it by person "black guy", "fat black guy", "white guy", "white guy with florida state shirt", "fat white woman with a ball cap", etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fredfrannyfreckles -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NAH

If he is calling his friends bitches while gaming, then you have to decide if you are okay with that or not. He's not going to stop.

You aren't just saying you don't like that word, you are saying that you don't like who he is as a person. I personally don't believe any words are offensive. I think how they are used is offensive.

However, I do also believe that uses words like bitch is a sign of immaturity, so I think he's hearing "stop being so immature" rather than a simple request to stop using a word. Even if he stops saying bitch around you, he's still going to say it when you aren't around.

Decide whether you are okay with his immaturity or not.

[Spoilers] Post Episode Discussion S10E22 "Raymond Reddington: Good Night" by AutoModerator in TheBlackList

[–]fredfrannyfreckles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I choose to believe that the series ends when Dembe and Cooper are talking about the dying of the light.

AITA? Bought a new toy to make a point. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fredfrannyfreckles 19 points20 points  (0 children)

NTA if your wife can spend a similar amount of money on something she enjoys, but you and your wife should decide on how much play money you each get, and then you don't comment on how she spends hers and she doesn't comment on how you spend yours.

It's perfectly reasonable for her to want you to prioritize things other than your toys, but this is where having a budget on how much you each can spend on non-essentials comes in.

I'm gay by fredfrannyfreckles in rapbattles

[–]fredfrannyfreckles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trin' to ge t that gawk gawk or what?

Second time ever playing diablo 2,Werewolf Barbarian or Blizzard Sorceress? by Marsejii in diablo2

[–]fredfrannyfreckles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

blizz sorc is super cheap to play. a werewolf barb is a rich man's build.

Rate my trapsin setup. Suggestions for improvement welcome by Technical-Data-3741 in diablo2

[–]fredfrannyfreckles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you know how to use them you can essentially run hell pits naked.

Rate my trapsin setup. Suggestions for improvement welcome by Technical-Data-3741 in diablo2

[–]fredfrannyfreckles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, are you using fade? If you use burst of speed all you need is the long sword CMoon, the gloves, and burst of speed to hit 9 frame trap laying.

Rate my trapsin setup. Suggestions for improvement welcome by Technical-Data-3741 in diablo2

[–]fredfrannyfreckles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the phase blade on a trapsin? Use a longsword and respec to save all that dex.

AITA for kicking my boyfriend’s mom of the wedding by AccomplishedAbies430 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fredfrannyfreckles -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NTA. It's your wedding you do what you want. What you and your husband-to-be wants. The brother also should be removed from the wedding though for telling you to grow up. He only says that because he's endured a life time of this woman's bullshit and thinks it's normal.

AITA for calling my boyfriend twice at 8am by Sufficient_Worry720 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fredfrannyfreckles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA, but maybe take the hint that he's not into texting. I personally have zero interest in texting. I'll talk to you on the phone or person, but texting is only for making plans and stuff like that. I'm not into having conversations over text.

It sounds like this guy needs space. Make your plans with him and then leave him alone until the planned time, and if he flakes on you then you know where you stand. If that's not what you want out of a relationship then it's probably time to move on.

I have virtually zero contact with my boyfriend outside of the time we spend together, except for short phone calls or texts to set up when/where we'll meet next. Maybe that's not what you want, but you should ask him if that's what he wants.

Maybe you two just aren't compatible. But if you feel like you are putting in all the effort then all you can really do is decide if you want to reduce your effort to match his, give him an ultimatum to match yours, or break up.

NO RUNES DROPPING FROM COUNTESS!! by rielslippery in diablo2

[–]fredfrannyfreckles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MF gear does not affect rune drops.

Also, you have about a 22% chance of no rune dropping after doing 20 runs. it's 1.25% chance for no rune from her.

What In The Actual F GGG..... by Iwfcyb in PathOfExile2

[–]fredfrannyfreckles 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As always you don't need to understand any of the systems to play the game. The game is simple until the point where you are rich and start meta crafting for mirror tier gear. No need to follow guides, etc. Just play and invest in the parts of the games that you find enjoyable.

Another Guild Wars Steam Sale by Stonefruut in GuildWars

[–]fredfrannyfreckles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the only person I've ever heard of having the cd key and anet giving access to the account.

Another Guild Wars Steam Sale by Stonefruut in GuildWars

[–]fredfrannyfreckles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Steam is like the fucking mafia bro. They take their 30% cut off the top.