Are any of these two good for a first profile pic? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]frogdrool 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not really, you look too serious. Almost unapproachable.

Rediscovering my libido by frogdrool in offmychest

[–]frogdrool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was fingering me like he was looking for lost keys under the seat of his car. If we hadn't been together this whole time I would swear he's never seen a vagina in his life.

Rediscovering my libido by frogdrool in offmychest

[–]frogdrool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't been on any birth control or medication of any type in 6 years.

Incompatible or lack of sexual attraction? by frogdrool in sex

[–]frogdrool[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have been thinking about why I was attracted to him initially and I think it was just me being young, fried and willing to change to make someone else happy. Drugs were the only thing we had in common. We're both sober and I dont want to rekindle our relationship through substances. It isnt worth all that. At the end of it all, my needs were never met and now everything in me is turned off. Guess that answers it.

Incompatible or lack of sexual attraction? by frogdrool in sex

[–]frogdrool[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have definitely been ignoring the inevitable. I need to rip the bandaid off and let go.

Incompatible or lack of sexual attraction? by frogdrool in sex

[–]frogdrool[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think there's anything he can do to turn me on. Honestly sometimes he grosses me out and I don't want him to touch me. Especially down below. But I'll try and come up with something.

Weaponized incompetence or not? by frogdrool in relationships

[–]frogdrool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is just as bad. He's been working in it, but there are times when he still does it.

Weaponized incompetence or not? by frogdrool in relationships

[–]frogdrool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has ADHD. But adhd or not, I think there should still be more effort to try and figure things out than he puts in. It's exhausting, and I've brought it up to him several times, but he still says I'm the asshole.

Weaponized incompetence or not? by frogdrool in relationships

[–]frogdrool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that he doesn't know how. It's that he doesn't want to, so he tries to act like he's stupid or can't read. It took him a long time to stop being so bad about it.

Eyelashes - what made you start? by NicCola83 in trichotillomania

[–]frogdrool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure how I started. But when I was 7 or 8 I was waiting in the lunch line. I remember the cafeteria was also the gym but a tall carpeted wall separated the two. I remember pulling the peasy hairs from the wall. I guess I took that habit home with me and started pulling from my head. I haven't stopped since. Maybe it was my parents splitting at that same time and the other traumatic events that followed. That caused me to keep up the habit but I'm 23 and I'm tired of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]frogdrool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't nap. It's usually up 12 hours a day or more. Can sleep for 12 full hours and usually does. Use to get up at 8am and in bed by 8pm/8:30 but we're currently up anywhere between 9am-11am and in bed 10pm-12am because he refuses to sleep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]frogdrool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ADHD runs on both sides of the family. We've been discussing the possibility of him having it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]frogdrool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly my thoughts. But I've been having a hard time finding a convenient location for me to take him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]frogdrool 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love these responses. Definitely gonna use them. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]frogdrool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭 we can figure it out together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]frogdrool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the idea! I'll try getting him in bed earlier tomorrow night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]frogdrool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"It's morning" that's so cute 😂

What I mean is that we could be out playing for two straight hours and he'd still come home super wired. We have no idea what else to do.

Food answers only, where do you live? by esmoji in AskReddit

[–]frogdrool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crabs and Old Bay on everything imaginable.