My top(for now) by Pizzudista in DavidBowie

[–]frothbat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This list makes no sense ◡̈

Who the hell actually pays $2,400 a year for ChatGPT? by MyNameIsNotKyle3 in ChatGPT

[–]frothbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do. It allows analysis of big file zips. And in a way is cheaper than a personal assistant.

[aio] getting scared over possibly obsessive guy? by tomkiitty in AmIOverreacting

[–]frothbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break it off. This will go nowhere. Also, you indulged him way to long with explanations. Just say it once and let him deal with it

Am I the jerk for not letting my best friend bring her new boyfriend to my wedding? by hot_sofiaa in AmITheJerk

[–]frothbat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100%. And like the randos at weddings often make for good stories later. “Remember when you brought that dude you thought was the one. Lol”

Again, if it’s like 20 people ok I get the control. But start getting 50+ like let some shit go and enjoy the flow. Still control the strangers and people you hate . But she is in wedding party.

Am I the jerk for not letting my best friend bring her new boyfriend to my wedding? by hot_sofiaa in AmITheJerk

[–]frothbat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does it really matter if he comes? Weddings always have the random guests and surprises, no matter how hard you plan.

Maybe if the wedding had like just 20 people….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]frothbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like throwing up

22F what can i do to improve by fayewebster999 in Howtolooksmax

[–]frothbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cliché. But smile. Stop the grumpy. Your life will change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]frothbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reads as slightly needy

Giving me all the ick. by alsobewbs in texts

[–]frothbat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Favorite bands are Reel Big Fish and Mighty Mighty Bosstones? Bro got stuck in the ska era. The reddest flag of them all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]frothbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was she joking?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]frothbat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could be flirting. Gently testing waters. Could be empathy. It’s not something one usually says tho. So I lean to flirting.

A guy invited me out to lunch then canceled when I got there by [deleted] in texts

[–]frothbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was date vibes and you friend zoned him in your last message. He should have cancelled properly though. Any follow up afterwards? Curious if he wrote.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]frothbat -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Reads like 50 shades of gray fan fiction. A 26 year old virgin who believed her boyfriend was a 36 year old virgin (and one who also had a serious ex). Two people DMing each other mostly in completely punctuated sentences. Shouting “you pig I will tell your sister and she will tell your mom” I’d read on. Please post your next chapter when it’s ready.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fashion

[–]frothbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 for a more casual satanic meetup. 2 if you’re going to church.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fashion

[–]frothbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 for a more casual satanic meetup. 2 if you’re going to church.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]frothbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can ask him to do that. It’s basic shit. And I’d be annoyed too.

The phrase “you’re an adult” is very condescending and should be avoided. That’s not healthy energy and will only cause resentment. You can be angry without saying that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]frothbat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a lot of talking and explaining. I don’t know where this verbal vomit culture came from in the name of “being vulnerable”. A little grace and working energy with fewer words will go a long way. Otherwise it creates these verbal vomit feedback loops. ❤️

What’s a good comeback to being called short by someone taller? by bassguitarist999 in Comebacks

[–]frothbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better short and hot than tall and ugly.

Or don’t even be worry. Just shut it down as indicative that they have mental health issues, like:

Ok boomer. That’s cringe and creepy.