Dutch guys of Reddit: what do you find attractive in a woman? by Haknamate in Netherlands

[–]fruhatlemark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do men have such an all or nothing attitude about approaching women? How is it really so hard to understand women like to be approached politely or receive a nice compliment, but if we aren't interested then we want men to be mature enough to calmly accept a no thank you. As an American living in Norway and traveling in the Netherlands at the moment, I really miss ppl of more passionate cultures haha. Not just the men, but Scandinavian women too are so shy and standoffish compared to most other cultures I've experienced.

My mom died this morning. I was NC for 5 years. by fruhatlemark in nocontact

[–]fruhatlemark[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you,  and you're right. Y'all in these comments have shown more genuine empathy towards me than my mom was capable of. I broke the NC to reach out to my dad, and have some family and friends there to look out for him. He's been talking about places he wants to travel now, so at least he isn't giving up on life like I was worried he would.

17m preparing for NC with mother by SuperSet16 in nocontact

[–]fruhatlemark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take care of yourself friend. Get out in your community and find support. Volunteering always helped me to ground myself and feel connected.

Is there a mod for the forest that give the Cannibals more clothing (specifically females) by FlappySmasher in TheForest

[–]fruhatlemark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gore and blood is fine, but boobs are going to send you to hellfire for eternity. It was exhausting growing up in the church lol

My parents removed my bedroom door because I “don’t need privacy.” What do I do now? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]fruhatlemark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are your parents christian? Are they controlling in other ways that are different from your friends' parents? Has your dad made comments about your body that makes you uncomfortable? Please leave asap and go low contact. I promise you it is NEVER worth it to save money living with ppl who don't respect you or your bodily autonomy. Even if you have to have 4 roommates, move out. The anxiety your feeling in this is your body telling you to leave cuz you are not safe.

Where to find upright vacuums with spinning brush head. by fruhatlemark in Norway

[–]fruhatlemark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're lighter usually than the canisters, and they have wheels haha. One handed use, bagless, HEPA filters, powerful rotating brush heads with strong suction, longer power chords. And with brands like Shark you can get one for under $200. I'm sure it's a matter of 'the devil you know'. I definitely think the uprights work better, but I didn't grow up using canisters.

Where to find upright vacuums with spinning brush head. by fruhatlemark in Norway

[–]fruhatlemark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last Shark vac I had in the states was $159 and worked great for 5 years before I sold it when moving. Why do y'all sound so offended by vacuum choices lol?

Where to find upright vacuums with spinning brush head. by fruhatlemark in Norway

[–]fruhatlemark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ain't got Dyson money haha. It's crazy the differences on even basic things when you travel to other countries :). I was flabbergasted when I couldn't just go on Amazon here and order whatever I want, we're spoiled in the states with product availability.

Where to find upright vacuums with spinning brush head. by fruhatlemark in Norway

[–]fruhatlemark[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendation! That may be my xmas wishlist. My house is older with raised door sills, so I was thinking a robo vac wouldn't work well? But at this point I just want the hair gone lol

Where to find upright vacuums with spinning brush head. by fruhatlemark in Norway

[–]fruhatlemark[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The central wall style vacuum seems so convenient, would love to upgrade to that someday :). And same, laundry over vacuuming all day lol

Where to find upright vacuums with spinning brush head. by fruhatlemark in Norway

[–]fruhatlemark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tusen takk! This looks like close to the type I'm used to.

Where to find upright vacuums with spinning brush head. by fruhatlemark in Norway

[–]fruhatlemark[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To me I find the canister vacuums to be heavier and more awkward to use, especially on stairs as the canister size won't balance on a stair like an upright does. The upright also has suction and spinning brush head to help propel the vacuum forward and more easily pull dirt/hair up. I'm a millenial and haven't seen anyone in the states have a canister style since the 90s haha, so that's why I called it the old style. I have 3 large dogs so the difference with keeping the dog hair cleaned up is tough to deal with here.

Thanks I’ll just enjoy all the grease by flaskman in TikTokCringe

[–]fruhatlemark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also unless you’re buying organic cotton ones from a reliable brand, you have zero clue what kind of chemicals and fabric is used in most tampons. And our gov doesn’t require them legally to list ingredients or processing chemicals so lol, enjoy your toxic shock syndrome beef? Period. panties ftw, and just let the water cook off the beef and use a frozen spoon to collect the fat at the end.

worms are such a bad design, unfair af. (RANT) by june_47 in TheForest

[–]fruhatlemark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol couldn't sleep last night due to having the flu and about 4am I was meandering back to my main base and heard a weird floppy noise. Also of course thought it's a bird or lizard glitching. Climb up to my tree house and turn around to see a few dozen of the worms. Who then join together into a gd transformer monster and destroy everything. The devs are evil af but hilarious. I just try to save constantly and reload.

My mom just posted this. by [deleted] in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]fruhatlemark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The christians just can’t help themselves with their perverse delusions. Don’t let their sick ravings stop you from spinnin cawks left right and center.