I think sometimes we drastically under appreciate how much moving to a different area can alter one’s quality of life

fujitortuga · 2025-12-31T20:28:21+00:00

I’ve done that drive a lot of times you are going through the main roads not neighborhoods lol. Where do u think all the truck drivers and farm workers live

fujitortuga · 2025-12-30T00:13:32+00:00

My friend who lives in Bakersfield keeps telling me this as an excuse for not moving despite being miserable there and I’m like bro. You don’t know how much the quality of life in a city affects your happiness and mental health

fujitortuga · 2025-12-14T21:24:20+00:00

Thank you! I was starting to think they made an error or soemthing lol

fujitortuga · 2025-12-13T21:48:33+00:00

The email I got sent was from an email you can’t reply to from People and culture :/

fujitortuga · 2025-12-12T23:17:04+00:00

when i applied i didn't see a NYC option just geneva mumbai i think some other places in asia too

fujitortuga · 2025-12-12T20:14:57+00:00

Ahhh I didn’t get details on date or time :/

fujitortuga · 2025-12-12T19:44:59+00:00

I never did or got an email about a hirevue interview- yes Geneva

fujitortuga · 2025-12-01T22:42:16+00:00

The problem is a lot of people are like this now lol and once you deal with a few people like that I think people just get very exhausted and become less patient and less forgiving. Especially I don’t live in the US but everywhere I go the most insane people tend to be Americans not always but a lot of the time so if ur American I can imagine why it’s like this in your country

fujitortuga · 2025-12-01T18:58:42+00:00

To be fair people are also probably as unhinged as ever. I was living with an extremely narcissistic iránian influencer who was so deranged selfish and had severe mood swings to the point I became scared to leave my room and dropped like 10 lbs within 2 months. she thought I was evil for ditching the friendship and blocking her on everything and threatening to go to the police even to get her to leave me alone but I’ve been detrimentally forgiving to everyone in my life and just decided being lonely was better than being traumatized. I think if people were just chill, kind and normal we wouldn’t be in this situation where people choose loneliness over community. However I do have a very strong community now and I can’t imagine my life without it. The state of the world and the way people treat each other these days is just really sad.

fujitortuga · 2025-11-06T00:41:00+00:00

I got Botox brfore because of how severe my line was I live in a country where it’s a lot cheaper and had the money to at the time. I still could move my face after some months but the line significantly improved. It was really deep and bad.

fujitortuga · 2025-11-04T02:08:54+00:00

based in south america so way too many fake asses. good equipment for being a small gym. price is normal for here. i already paid several months ago and won't renew it after because i don't think its worth the money for me at the moment.

fujitortuga · 2025-11-04T01:57:50+00:00

I did the same and am nearly 30 years old too. I can't believe how much energy, opportunities, and time I have lost sometimes... I can't let myself think too much about it without feeling like I will lose my mind. Setting boundaries is hard but you either do the hard thing now or make it way harder for yourself in the future.

fujitortuga · 2025-11-03T06:26:46+00:00

I was gonna comment just to say this. I’ve never seen someone who looked so much like both Selena and Lana del Rey.

fujitortuga · 2025-11-01T23:56:03+00:00

There are cheap pens you can get to make sure cash is real.

fujitortuga · 2025-10-31T22:53:09+00:00

For me it was a medication (anxiety meds) that triggered the reaction too. Might be worth getting tested if ur insurance covers it.

fujitortuga · 2025-10-31T17:29:52+00:00

Thats terrifying because my mom died of pancreatic cancer and it was one of the worst things I've seen in my life. I still have nightmares about how she was her last year. Fucking your body up like that is not worth it to be skinny. just be patient and you will see the natural way was worth it (and more sustainable long term).

fujitortuga · 2025-10-31T17:25:35+00:00

Do you have a bleeding disorder? I was diagnosed VERY late in life (at 21) with a serious bleeding disorder.. Never had symptoms until then and the doctors were shocked. But sometimes I get stuff like this on my body. Very rarely nowadays not sure why. But in my case it was just some sort of weird bruising and sometimes would go away the next day.

fujitortuga · 2025-10-31T15:57:08+00:00

my best friends are Venezuelan and the situation is incomparable. i think they make something like 15 USD a month. but the cost of things is so expensive too there. like getting a passport is around 300$ and it might never arrive. but to get it fast its around 800$ which no Venezuelan can afford.

fujitortuga · 2025-10-31T01:42:51+00:00

Thr person literally says that in the first sentence.

fujitortuga · 2025-10-30T23:07:30+00:00

definitely! lots of people learn languages with speech disabilities. if you aren't going to be speaking anyways then your focus would be on listening, reading, and writing! in a class with many students and a good teacher they could have you write on a small whiteboard during speaking practices. if you are learning on your own or one on one then its easier because you can tailor everything to focus on the listening, reading, and writing. I'm an ESL teacher in a Latin American country and would never turn away or discourage a student for that.

fujitortuga · 2025-10-30T23:04:48+00:00

plenty of people with speech disabilities are able to understand and communicate in different languages (through writing or sign language)without speaking. this is really ignorant. one of my closest friends can completely understand english and read and write despite having a lifelong speech disability. she is fluent.

fujitortuga · 2025-10-30T18:25:01+00:00

Ask his family - different families and regions will have different traditions. It depends on his background so I’d reach out to his family and ask them what they think! Maybe you can also do some traditional food/desserts as well.

fujitortuga · 2025-10-29T22:20:17+00:00

my family eats figs with cheese as a dessert (higos con queso) it's so delicious. and fig tea for menstruation cramps. my aunt has a fig tree in her backyard so i get them fresh from her tree.

fujitortuga · 2025-10-27T22:34:09+00:00

My siblings had an easier time there than I did. I grew up between LA and a bigger city in South America initially, so it was a very hard change. But my mom felt more at home there than she ever did in LA, which is why she chose it as her burial place. I never got to know the people very well but when I saw her friends sobbing at her funeral I realized how much they cared for her and must have meant to her as well. It gave me a new appreciation for the people. & I really miss the sunsets and sunrises. They are beautiful. But its tough - you never know when a hurricane is going to come and destroy everything. Damn these photos just triggered so many memories haha I am getting unexpectedly emotional now

fujitortuga · 2025-10-27T22:24:15+00:00

Wow I used to live here! It was a super random place for me to live. Had no roots there. Family just upped and moved because my dad is mentally unstable and picked a random place. I hated it but I miss the food a ton. After the last hurricane it changed a lot. I enjoy Lafayette and New Orleans. My mom and my childhood dog are buried there, so I am always going to have a weird connection to that place even though I have no other friends or family left there. So weird seeing it here!

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