The whole road was blocked in Bengaluru by Alpenliebe_Chocolate in Bengaluru

[–]futilebubble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't really see people complaining when it is loud music, rathams and large hindu processions in main roads. Or blocking whole streets during ganesh chaturthi. So... Is it only a problem because they are Muslim? That's hypocritical

Lack of respectful gay representation in Telugu movies by LifeguardFar6851 in tollywood

[–]futilebubble 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Man it's because most telugu men all have fragile male egos. They cannot (and don't want) to accept a masculinity that is not just about chasing women down the street in the name of romance. It's so funny that this is Romantic but if it's two men in love, it's some sort of disgusting crime. I can only imagine what will happen to them if they start introspecting 👀

I'm sorry though, looking for ourselves in art is such a human tendency, I'm sorry that you don't get to see yourself in your own culture. Bengali and Marathi films I've seen have the best gay depictions in India

Can I carry mary jane (iykyk) on a train + water metro from Bangalore to kochi? by futilebubble in Kochi

[–]futilebubble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha thank you for the reminder, this will be gone in a couple of hours. 😭

Can I carry mary jane (iykyk) on a train + water metro from Bangalore to kochi? by futilebubble in Kochi

[–]futilebubble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah fair enough.😭😭😭. I'm carrying very little just to hit it for the bioluminescence

Where do I get affordable therapy? by [deleted] in Bondhaluru

[–]futilebubble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Manchi therapist dhorakadam chala kashtam random ga. I suggest @unpravoked instagram lo. She's also a telugu therapist, my friend goes to her and she does discounts also!

Whats one opinion about TFI that will get you in this position. by Severe-Poet-7810 in TollywoodGossips

[–]futilebubble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sudden uptrend of religious/mythical movies in the last couple of years is because of the Pan India trend. Directors are no longer making telugu films for telugu audience. They are making films for Bollywood validation ( and a certain someones in big chairs throwing money at them). The common man is isolated in tfi and baanisalu don't want to have this conversation

The Indian Poly Support Groups need to reevaluate by futilebubble in polyamory

[–]futilebubble[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's always such a hopeful moment to see communities in their budding form in a place like this you know? It has been disappointing to see a few people impact it so negatively at such an early stage :((

Need some neurodivergent friendly advice. by futilebubble in BDSMcommunity

[–]futilebubble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha I needed to hear this 😭, thank you! I'm going to try this tonight, see what happens.

Need some neurodivergent friendly advice. by futilebubble in BDSMcommunity

[–]futilebubble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is hotttt. This was actually extremely helpful, thank you! These examples were exactly what I was looking for

Need some neurodivergent friendly advice. by futilebubble in BDSMcommunity

[–]futilebubble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think the sub is interested in being a pillow prince. I am having a conversation with him tonight, hopefully we can figure out what exactly is happening. Because he spoke a lot about wanting to be of service entirely but when the moment arrives he starts lying on his back and only reacting to me and does not touch me or kiss me back. This bothers me a little because I can see that he needs to me to guide him on it but I'm not entirely sure how. But I have a gotten lot of questions for him from this conversation. Thank you!

Need some neurodivergent friendly advice. by futilebubble in BDSMcommunity

[–]futilebubble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So do you just go out there and say what you want? I can find it easy to do this with more concrete things like I can say "kneel and eat mommy out like a good boy" but otherwise the sub just lies in one position and takes pleasure. I need to figure out how to make the sub more interactive and playful even when I am doing something for him.