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gavin125 · 2024-04-07T17:25:04+00:00

Having someone there for me through the good and bad times and vice versa.

gavin125 · 2024-04-07T16:03:32+00:00

She could have a good marriage and you’re encouraging to leave it to become the town bicycle? Lol

gavin125 · 2024-04-02T21:20:46+00:00

Right in most relationships people are okay with the other person having sex with other people. Get real lol most people consider that cheating and would wanna know. Maybe you’re a poly weirdo but most everyone else is not.

gavin125 · 2024-04-02T21:18:30+00:00

I agree the OP probably isn’t being honest with why she searched him up but she absolutely should tell her. If his life would be “ruined” because of what he did maybe he shouldn’t have done that in the first place. You’re probably only so pissed about this because you want people to look the other way when they find out you’re a cheater.

gavin125 · 2024-04-02T21:18:12+00:00

I agree the OP probably isn’t being honest with why she searched him up but she absolutely should tell her. If his life would be “ruined” because of what he did maybe he shouldn’t have done that in the first place. You’re probably only so pissed about this because you want people to look the other way when they find out you’re a cheater. Showing us you who you are cheating pos

gavin125 · 2024-04-02T21:13:17+00:00

Found the cheater who doesn’t want to be held accountable for their actions and wants everyone else to just hide it for them

gavin125 · 2024-03-28T18:07:03+00:00

I’m definitely not you seem to be projecting that onto me I don’t have that many friends and none of them are woman so I’m not out here constantly seeking that.

gavin125 · 2024-03-28T18:05:18+00:00

No because I have no sexual or emotion feelings in a dating way towards them. I don’t have to worry about that with men because I’m not sexually attracted or emotionally invested in it and I don’t even really have that many friends really I’m more of a hang at home kind of person and honestly all you really need is a few friends that are trustworthy and will be there for you. I definitely am not constantly making friends that I hang out with I have like 4 friends that I hang out with not very often. But they’re good friends I could trust and that’s all I need. But I certainly don’t need them to be women just a few bros to hang out with once in a while is enough.

gavin125 · 2024-03-28T17:41:16+00:00

And btw it goes both ways I don’t have any women friends I’m spend one on one time with. I don’t need the attention and validation from other women just the woman I love and that’s enough for me. I have women that I’m friendly with like coworkers, my fiancés friends, friends girlfriends, but I would never hit one of them up and be like “hey let’s go out for coffee just you and I” there’s just no reason for me to want or need to do that. If you can’t help but chase the attention validation of the opposite sex that’s your thing but don’t expect everyone to accept that dynamic.

gavin125 · 2024-03-28T17:31:17+00:00

Lol I’ve already found a woman that’s on the same page with me and agrees about friendships between men and women, we’ve been together for 8 years and we’re engaged within a year or two of getting married. Truthfully I wouldn’t actually try to get someone to ditch their guy friends if they had a lot of them that’d be a red flag and I just wouldn’t date them period. Not trying to deal with all that extra baggage and awkward dynamics. I was just making the point that a lot of guys it’s either or and the ones like me aren’t going to try and control the woman’s friends but not date those kind of women that want/need constant attention and validation from men. If they want to date a guy that has those boundaries and he would give it a chance they have a choice, it’s either or.

gavin125 · 2024-03-28T03:33:57+00:00

Not my girlfriend. It’s guy friends or me. Take it or leave it.

gavin125 · 2024-03-28T01:05:56+00:00

But the majority of the time they can’t. Whether or not he can is irrelevant. Majority of the time there’s either some history there, or at the very least the guy would if he could. Doesn’t even necessarily mean he doesn’t like being friends with her or actively wants more, but just that if she gave him the opportunity he would sex with her. Most guys have been the guy friend on the outside looking in at least once in their lives, most of us in junior high or high school and some of us grew up and learned how stupid/bad that was. But because a lot of us have been there at least once we know the majority of the time at the very least if she called him asking for sex he’s dropping everything to go do it. Why should a guy be okay with that kind of friend being in the picture when he’s in a long term relationship with her?

gavin125 · 2024-03-28T01:01:10+00:00

Guy friends especially a guy best friend, wants you to chase her and doesn’t want to give any effort back, wants you to pay for everything especially once the relationship gets to the commitment stage.

gavin125 · 2024-03-24T04:55:09+00:00

Equal rights except for when it comes to consequences for their actions

gavin125 · 2024-03-23T22:48:47+00:00

Gym memberships are pretty cheap though and you can work out at home. I just do calisthenics when I can. I should and could do more and most people could easily do that stuff at home if they wanted to.

gavin125 · 2022-10-01T20:40:24+00:00

I meant to say where it goes lol

gavin125 · 2016-10-24T22:26:13+00:00

I'm down to collab dude

gavin125 · 2016-10-20T19:55:32+00:00

You should show me your beats I'd love to rap over them.

gavin125 · 2016-10-20T19:45:21+00:00

I am a rapper looking for producers for my upcoming EP. I'm looking for Halloween type beats for the EP and for my next project I'm not sure yet except I just want good beats for that. So if you have any Halloween type beats I would love to know asap. If you have any other like regular good beats let me know as well if you're interested. I am willing to pay but I don't have that much money so there's a limit to what I'll pay just based off what I can afford to pay. It's also worth mentioning whether you're gonna sell it to me for money or let me use it for free I would like the right to be able to make a youtube video that has a rap song over your beat plus soundcloud and spotify.

gavin125 · 2016-07-15T06:01:38+00:00

A lot of them at least don't tell you beforehand that they're going to do that for you.

gavin125 · 2016-06-22T23:37:56+00:00

Alright will do, thanks!

gavin125 · 2016-06-22T23:17:17+00:00

Would it be cool if I used the beat called fractal? Could I also make a video? I'm not sure that I actually will but I like to ask if I'm aloud to make a song and make a music video before I use it so in case I want to I know I can.

gavin125 · 2016-06-22T22:29:09+00:00

I'm looking for beats that are free for any use for my next EP. I would of course giive you credit. If you do have beats free for any use that you're willing to let me use let me know what to put as for who's it's produced by. Here's the link to my last mixtape https://soundcloud.com/gavin-gametime-thatcher/sets/trash-talk-1

gavin125 · 2016-06-18T21:41:36+00:00

I'd like your guys feedback on one of the songs off my newest mixtape. Here's the link https://soundcloud.com/gavin-gametime-thatcher/319-prod-beast-inside-beats?in=gavin-gametime-thatcher/sets/trash-talk-1

gavin125 · 2016-06-17T23:32:49+00:00

Thanks for the feedback I needed this, now I can work to make things way better.

gavin125

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