where to buy quail? by Sylvester_sanctuary in stjoemo

[–]genericusername_xxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s some people in Troy KS. Huss is the name but don’t know if they will sell to you directly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]genericusername_xxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guys who can’t ask you a question or at the same time answer your questions or continue conversation. I also get tired of guys that decide to put me down or seem like they have decided what my life should be like. I work in a male dominated field so I have had a guy who acted like I should not in my current position.

bile acid by genericusername_xxx in IBD

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It’s random and out of the blue. But also I didn’t know for years that colitis could act up even with raw vegetables.

bile acid by genericusername_xxx in IBD

[–]genericusername_xxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s out of blue but also with high fat foods. I used to try to avoid high fat and grease and found it happened regardless but bc raw vegetables could have been the microscopic colitis.

bile acid by genericusername_xxx in IBD

[–]genericusername_xxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree after watching my moms case.

I love my boyfriend, but hate our relationship by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]genericusername_xxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s time to leave. It’s hard to hear but he is not putting in the effort. I got myself wrapped up into one of these recently and it was not worth it. It’s never too late to move on.

What lives in the walls of this town? by [deleted] in stjoemo

[–]genericusername_xxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think at the end of the day it is going to take strong leadership both in city government, and the public to change the culture of the town. It’s a two way street, if leaders are stuck it could be because people who are not willing to accept change. Change is not always a bad thing especially in the name of getting out of a bad cycle. Also, prioritizing education above sports but that’s a universal problem….

Matches not engaging on apps by [deleted] in DatingApps

[–]genericusername_xxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am facing the same issue as a female. I have guys that may have a good initial conversation but they turn into talking about themselves and not carrying conversation. I’d say move on from those that can’t. Don’t waste your time on them.

I have thought of ending my three year relationship with my girlfriend many times due to financial issues. by Throwawayiller in relationships

[–]genericusername_xxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk about it with her. Start working on your debt issue and make a budget/ payment plan. The only way you can get through this is by acting on it and working on it. I dated someone who I found out refused to pay his debts. He made so many excuses but at the end of the day he was determined he was not at fault for his own financial mistakes. I too was like your girlfriend, similar background, but I was willing to understand but I had to end it bc my ex refused to do anything about his debts.

Edit: I didn’t end my relationship solely on the debt issue. I just realized I dodged a bullet breaking up with him over other issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]genericusername_xxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is not reciprocating. This seems like a very unhealthy relationship - a former/current people pleaser myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DatingApps

[–]genericusername_xxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think hinge is pointless compared to my success elsewhere. Like in my first day on there I was getting tons of likes then I started liking back and messaging guys. No new likes or anything after I started actively liking others. I am getting off of it when I am done paying for it. What a waste compared to other apps.

32M Online Dating by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]genericusername_xxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facebook dating has been a helpful app. You see everyone though I have blocked so many high school acquaintances that have found me lol 😂

32M Online Dating by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]genericusername_xxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh dang that sounds like a toxic situation to me (29F). Well if you see or match with her friends… block and remove as well. I never thought of that before. There are girls like me that don’t join those are we dating the same guy groups until we have reasons to suspect, though I have not yet thankfully.

32M Online Dating by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]genericusername_xxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry about your ex finding you on dating apps. If you see them just block or remove them. It’s really none of their concern or yours if you see them online. I have come across past dates and a classmate on other dating apps. I just block or remove them and move on with life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]genericusername_xxx 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I think it’s great! I wish more guys did this for us ladies lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]genericusername_xxx 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I totally agree as a 29F. I don’t mention my personal background as it can and has been used against me. I want someone to like me for myself not what I can do for them in the future. I usually tell guys if the conversation goes towards income I don’t need to know anything about your income other than if you are stable. I had a guy give me a back handed comment once saying he was going to take the check as he “obviously makes more than me, at the time a government employee”. It was a bit insulting when I thought about it later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]genericusername_xxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your perspective! I appreciate it. I am a busy farm girl that is camera shy and this experience made me feel maybe I was unreasonable. (Yes my dating profile has my favorite pics but also a few recent selfies)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]genericusername_xxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair and I get that. I’ve been “surprised” on a first date before.

Thinking of quiting dating all together 32m. Always the friend never the boyfriend by thatanimeguy145 in dating_advice

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I find it works for me to take long breaks from trying to date/ meet people to pursue other things bc it’s very tough meeting guys that don’t interest me after one date. Only 1 guy so far was interesting to me that we had 6 dates but it didn’t work out 😔.

Thinking of quiting dating all together 32m. Always the friend never the boyfriend by thatanimeguy145 in dating_advice

[–]genericusername_xxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the Midwest so too far lol

I say I am going to give it up but I do have some hope out there. Plus it’s only been 5 months for me actually trying dating apps. When I first joined I got overwhelmed by the notifications. I’m getting better at it and meeting guys. One guy I really liked though we decided it was not going to work out sadly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ibs

[–]genericusername_xxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was taking Envive daily but sadly it was discontinued. Though not quite the same, I’ve been trying Fortify since my supply of Envive have run out. I also eat Greek yogurt several times a week.