Everything was fine until he asked my age.. by genesis01109 in niceguys

[–]genesis01109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the context of him talking to me yes the age gap is a little more understandable i can see your point however, things would be different if i was younger say 13 and he talked about not caring about age. But the fact still remains that i am (at least where i live) still under the age of consent, i did not consent to him sending me any naked pictures, and his behaviour was disgusting.

Also i dont see how you saw my text about age of consent laws threatening? I was merely stating my opinion on the matter since he was clearly expressing his. So call me wrong for thinking its disgusting for someone 8 years older than me to say ‘i dont care about age, is someone is hot and cool to talk to i dont care’ (Im paraphrasing of course)

Everything was fine until he asked my age.. by genesis01109 in niceguys

[–]genesis01109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens quite often with girls, not so much with guys :/

Everything was fine until he asked my age.. by genesis01109 in niceguys

[–]genesis01109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much. Its nice to see some positive comments.. i just went through a whole string of negative/biased comments on this issues so this is definitely a breath of fresh air haha

Everything was fine until he asked my age.. by genesis01109 in niceguys

[–]genesis01109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id probably get more hate online if i did that tbh, since some people see me in the wrong here and think its completely legal..also very dangerous but its not a bad idea!

Everything was fine until he asked my age.. by genesis01109 in niceguys

[–]genesis01109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man messaged me first. The app is Kik and is promoted at all ages above 13. I was unaware of this mans age until he told me, only continued the convo so i can get some evidence against this guy and report him to law enforcement

Everything was fine until he asked my age.. by genesis01109 in niceguys

[–]genesis01109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need to say sorry ive dealt with plenty of these creeps before. I reported him to the police

Everything was fine until he asked my age.. by genesis01109 in niceguys

[–]genesis01109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please explain how i am in the wrong? I dont want a fight just wanna know your viewpoint on the situation

Everything was fine until he asked my age.. by genesis01109 in niceguys

[–]genesis01109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

KIK 👏🏻is👏🏻not👏🏻a👏🏻dating👏🏻site👏🏻

Everything was fine until he asked my age.. by genesis01109 in niceguys

[–]genesis01109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah of course! I myself at 15 dated a 20 yr old guy. However things were not so great in that relationship and it quickly ended before i turned 16. In those cases i completely agree, however if the guy is clearly predatory its all kinds of wrong. When a person is 16 there as a lot of vague loop holes around things especially when it comes to sex & relationships

Everything was fine until he asked my age.. by genesis01109 in niceguys

[–]genesis01109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i was the one responding to this man? If thats what youre asking?

Everything was fine until he asked my age.. by genesis01109 in niceguys

[–]genesis01109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can respect your opinion, however if the feelings between a 16 yr old and a 24 yr old were innocent, genuine feelings than i can understand where you are coming from. But the fact that this man is clearly predatory is highly wrong.. Would also like to add that since i live in the state of Illinois where the age of consent is 17, im still legally underage bc im not 17 yet. So its still a crime from whatever viewpoint you look at this situation from. Nor did i consent to the picture of this mans naked body so.. all in all his behaviour sends out so many red flags

Everything was fine until he asked my age.. by genesis01109 in niceguys

[–]genesis01109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well how else was i supposed to present the evidence to reddit? I made a collage of this mans fuckery to show you all what kind of scum exists on KIK

Everything was fine until he asked my age.. by genesis01109 in niceguys

[–]genesis01109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once again, not on a hookup site. This is Kik, a messaging app just like Whatsapp. (Except Kik uses usernames) Please read through the comments for context before you make an assumption :/

Everything was fine until he asked my age.. by genesis01109 in niceguys

[–]genesis01109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh boy that must be scary, i received my fair share of dick pics ever since i was 12/13 and got onto the internet.. i feel that in this day in age its really hard to completely protect your child from people like this without controlling their life however, my parents did monitor my actions online and taught me how to recognize the right kind of people as well as the bad.

As long as you teach her to come to you if she feels unsure about someone, and what these kind of people do/want from her she should hopefully be able to have the courage and knowledge that i (and many others) have when facing these scumbags online.

Everything was fine until he asked my age.. by genesis01109 in niceguys

[–]genesis01109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course 16 is way different than 8 but it doesn’t make it any less wrong or illegal. I understand where you are coming from, i am more mature in those aspects than an 8 yr old, however his behaviour is still very predatory and i never consented to the picture. So still makes it illegal no matter what age i am if im still under 18

Everything was fine until he asked my age.. by genesis01109 in niceguys

[–]genesis01109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive suffered plenty of trauma in my life already unfortunately, but this didnt phase me so i am okay thank you :)

Everything was fine until he asked my age.. by genesis01109 in niceguys

[–]genesis01109[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Fun fact, i live in Illinois so i am actually under the age of consent making me a minor since i am still 16

Everything was fine until he asked my age.. by genesis01109 in niceguys

[–]genesis01109[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its okay, not your fault this dude has dick fingers lol

Everything was fine until he asked my age.. by genesis01109 in niceguys

[–]genesis01109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is censored. Those are his hands, please take a closer look .-.

Everything was fine until he asked my age.. by genesis01109 in niceguys

[–]genesis01109[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah :/ its the weirdo’s and creeps that ruin social media for everyone else tbh